When Men Talk About the Future They Kill the Future

Talking about the relationship too much can mess things up. It disrupts the natural flow and makes things feel forced. When you constantly bring it up, it adds pressure. This stress takes away from the fun and spontaneity that should come naturally. Plus, overanalyzing everything can kill the mystery and excitement that keep things interesting. Letting the relationship develop on its own makes it more enjoyable and puts the focus on letting the woman progress the relationship (at the right speed).

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Chris Canwell

[andrewosantowski]

Chris has changed my entire dating life. Found his channel in 2019. Everything he preaches is GOLD!!thank you Chris

[joncarbone]

Women love uncertainty. Never reveal your hand.

[alimishina]

The problem is not often talking about the future but talking about the future before she's ready for it or when she's not fully attracted to you.

[theodorusrexicon]

So much wisdom on this channel. Well done.

[saurabhverma]

Hmm by this logic a man cannot or will never propose a women?

[mystykalmn]

Talking about the future kills the future, let her bring it up but don't tell her about your own

[urbantraxx]

Then she is not the right one, she pulls back replace her😊

[LaconchaMod]

How do you express your needs a man or set boundaries with out being Needy?

My GF and I have dated for two months and I told her I deleted the app where we met, she told me she appreciated that but she is not ready yet to deleted, as she met a lot of friends there. How do I communicate that I feel that this is wrong? How do I clarify my boundaries without sounding needy?

[jedidiahm]

Me, looking at the title.

Also me: "Tell that to Elon Musk."