10 Ways To Spot & Deal With A NARCISSIST | Dr. Ramani Durvasula & Lewis Howes

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[tanyaflanders]

The world needs this woman. So informative!

[purplepinkycha]

I am just learning that I married a narcissist and I am so grateful to know why I was feeling so sad all the time. I gave him everything and it still wasn’t enough for him to love me. I’ve decided to love me again, and I’m ready to leave for good.

[theleeannebrown]

7 years in a narcissistic marriage, all previous relationships with narcissists and many family members narcissists! I'm on a healing journey and now a Narcissist Abuse Specialist and Somatic Trauma Coach! I'm learning to turn my pain into my power!

[plumeria]

If you are a kind, good person and a giver, watch out. You are who narcissists are attracted to because they are takers and can use you in a million ways for their gratification.

[debraleamclaughlin]

Just broke off with a guy I been dating for just a year. I actually broke up twice with him before this final. I just knew something was off but I could not figure it out. Now that he is no longer in my life I’ve found this Doctor and boy did she put everything into perspective. I feel relieved and happy I made the correct choice to get away from him. I can breath again.

[anglkisez]

I found out real quick that if you listen closely and actually pay attention, whatever they tell you is wrong with you, is actually them telling on themselves! That will be your superpower to get away!

[andrereloaded]

This fantastic woman has helped countless people understand these empty monsters we call narcissists. It helps you process the damage they've caused.

[yukio_saito]

✍ The DEEP technique:
🚫 Don't Defend
🚫 Don't Engage
🚫 Don't Explain
🚫 Don't Personalize

I love that. It's easy to remember and simple to practice.

[kathiedorion]

I went through counselling with my Narc Ex; it turned to I was the problem. He only went to outsmart the therapist; I will never do couples counselling again.

[abancommissariat]

I just love this lady. Addressing a similar situation and giving me options. Please have her back!

[arnhildlaurinelindkvist]

After 8 years alone now i'm starting to find myself...
I lived with an narsissist for, 31 years and we got 4 children together.He have taken over half my life, and now he have taken the children in his power...
I have no contact with him, or my children because it's not getting nowhere else than more of this behaviour and i don't wont to put more gasoline in to it.., i just have to wait.., it's nothing i can do!..I need to thank you so much for this podcast 💞 EVERYTHING she said about an narsissist is tru.., EVERYTHING! Please be careful and never, ever forget what has been told today🙏💟

[jessie]

🔥Narcissism is the opposite of authenticity🔥

[bluelake]

How true they are constantly angry, constantly anxious.

[Greenwitch_Garden]

I’m so grateful to grow up before social media.

[plumeria]

My sister is a vainglorious, power-hungry, attention-seeking narcissist. Whenever I ask her a question about something that would be helpful to me, instead of giving me an answer, she uses the opportunity to make herself feel better than me by belittling me for asking her in the first place. I henceforth only text her twice a year: happy birthday and merry christmas.

[NancyJyrgenson]

Just wanted to say that I am one of those "unicorns" of the universe. You melted my heart, when I heard that it is a word used to describe an empath, who is kind, loving and caring, who takes care of you if you are a friend, and much more if I like someone. The person who makes sure everything is good for you aswell as for me. But the news to me was that people find us so rare as unicorns. You made my day so much better. Thank you for that❤

[kristahackleylmt]

All this abuse described typically ends with a 911 call. Mine was made this morning. This channel and so many other great Psychologists on youtube have helped save my life. I'm forever grateful and will pay the world back threefold with the education I've learned from this channel and others on youtube. I appreciate you all who are exposing the truth and making a positive impact on the world. 🙏

[yukio_saito]

1:29:00 The narcissistic relationship cycle:
Love bombing ➡ Devaluing ➡ Discard ➡ Hoovering ➡ Future faking
🔙 Love bombing

[erkinalp]

Narcissist do change, but only towards the worse: they become more covert and more intense after each supply.

[andreamarie]

I’ve had no contact with at least four narssacists. It’s so awesome. You can’t heal if you keep these people around.