19 Questions Newly Out Lesbians Have For Experienced Lesbians

"How did you know your girlfriend was gay?" "Uh I looked at her."

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[jaydenbeck]

"How did you know your girlfriend was gay?"
"I looked at her"
This 💀

[lucysteele]

"don't look for acceptance-be your own acceptance" that went deep

[ixDanime]

I cannot state how validating it is to be a young 20 something w no experience and hear that someone didn't have their first kiss until 27

[charlie]

"Because that many people love me." Yes, Jaz!!!

[charlotteify]

It’s actually refreshing to hear someone say their first kiss happened at 27 yo, I’m 25 and never had any experience and I always feel like I’m a freak to my friends who did pretty much anything

[slaggeylindsay]

26 years old, slept with more men than I can count and going on my first date with a woman this week. I haven’t been excited for a date in years. Thank you for the guidance ❤️❤️

[Amaika]

I love that they are all naturally sitting with wide legs. Confident and comfortable. I always sit that way and felt insecure for a long time cuz everyone I knew and saw would cross their legs.

[ChrissyyMarie]

“Don’t look for acceptance, be your own acceptance” 🥺🥺

[Yeryou]

I feel like I don’t see enough of these videos representing our community . I love them and they make me feel “normal “ if that makes sense . Even tho normal isn’t a thing . A lot of people will say this is them pushing their life down their throats but it’s really just being inclusive

[shimasara]

the amount of Birkenstocks in this video is very fitting

[peopleandanimalslovm]

"Don't look for acceptance, BE your own acceptance" As a Christian woman who is bisexual, THIS is so super important to remember because I had to accept myself as well as other people

[SandraBieber]

Definitely also want to focus on the “femme (dressing) people don’t read as gay” bit cause it’s really frustrating! I understand it and at the same time, I think it limits us to a certain range of expression within ourselves and our closets. Part of patriarchy’s work has been the war on femme-ness and femininity and honestly f*** that! I don’t want any of that in my queer identity and queer communities. Loving this video for bringing cool things up

[savannahs]

You guys need to do this for bisexuals/pansexuals, trans people, nb people, and gay men.

[thecomorbiditycurator]

"what finger do I use?"
YOUTUBE PLAYS AN AD WHERE THE ACTORS ARE DRESSED IN GIANT HAND COSTUMES 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[courtlovecat]

Not gonna lie, as a 35-year-old lesbian who has just truly and finally come out of the closet in the past year, this video made me laugh, cry, and feel seen. Thank you for making this. :)

[danist]

These women look so young... I was shock to hear the girl say that she had her first kiss at 27 and the other girl came out in her 30s. To me they both look around 25. I guess that’s the benefit of not having to dealt with men all the time.

[danielledezeeuw]

So as a bisexual who came out to my friends a few years ago but can't even bring myself to tell me religious parents, I'm glad you said come out when you're ready. This is the reason I'm afraid to go to far into talking to girls I the first place since I can't move to far with a girl in fear of my parents rejecting me

[carmenaphotography]

I really want to see more representation of ultra femme lesbians... If we have more of that, women won't feel like they'll never be read as queer if they dress "too girly"

[NateLVBrown]

This is my first time being introduced to the term “Compulsive Heterosexuality”.
Based on the explanation I agree with the idea (that it exists, that it messes with queer people in their heads).

[pinnedcomment]

Random fact: There’s a village in Nebraska with a population of 1. She acts as mayor and also pays taxes to herself.