How to deal with abusive toxic people who say harsh things? | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem

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[taqwabaloch]

First always smile
Second don't defend yourself
Third don't argue with them .

[ledam]

Sometimes you have to confront them directly, because sometimes ignoring the bully does not work.

[shamma_]

It's really HARD to forget what they said, May Allah forgive and Help us to forget it and remove such evil people from our Lives and protect us from them, Ameen ya Rabbi ❤

[zmnoxbt]

They want you to respond in a negative way..

So always keep smiling face
Don’t defend yourself, no need
Don’t argue, just smile & look at them

They’ll feel small after a while

[zoyq]

I absolutely agree with sheikh. I have been like that in my in laws house.Not responding to them when they used to bully me.🙂

[tryorcry-pomv]

but how can i not defend myself when someone calls me a terrorist how can i have a smile on face when they disrespect my religion

[Mesmerising_Eyes]

JazakAllahu khayran ❤
Love and prayers from Europe.

[TimTim__]

Smile

Ignore and don’t defend

don’t argue

Play with phone/ show that you don’t care

[ahadmdabdul]

Maa sha Allah! Very useful lesson by shaikh.

[AnuAnushaa]

My younger sister also has been treating me in a very bad way recently... I'll try and avoid her because i dont know how she can treat me the way she does but after some time i always ends up talking to her it gets awkward and it breaks the ideal family environment that i want but I guess it's time to get a little bit stern. I was worried that Allah swt might hold me accountable for this but now I know I can do this

[sofiyarini]

I agree, what abusive people want is for us to fell into their drama.. thx u Ustad at least i know I'm on the right path now to not respond with their comments

[TimTim__]

Exactly! They want us to fall in their trap. We shouldn’t make their mission successful.
Just brush it off, don’t give them response. And the smiling face! Yes to that.
And next time, I’ll take the phone and play 😂

Sometimes it affects you so much mentally. But don’t worry, Allah sees your sufferings, make dua that He makes it easy for you.

[tasnimmalihahimi]

I tried to ignore my toxic sister. But she's evil. She tries many ways to hurt me with her words and actions. I keep silent. I remind myself that Allah dislikes the one whom people avoid bcoz of their hurtful speech. So i avoid her. But it makes me angry. Though i don't react, do nothing. Still it hurts, i feel like slapping her or cursing her. I do nothing. But i don't know for how long i can tolerate her behaviour. She's not a good person and harms me in every way

[lameezes]

Assalamu Alaikum Sheikh! Please do a video about families dealing with drug addicts in the house. How long are we supposed to put and forgive the stealing of our property to feed their addiction before we had enough. And what should we do with them? How should we treat these slush addicts whom we love but it’s just too much :( it’s years and they always promise to rehabilitate and does only for a short time. Do we cut them off? Please do a video in this. Insha Allah Sheikh. May Allah reward you and your family for your good work.

[abdulmalikidris]

It's definitely not easy. I have been training, but endup relapsing.

[Aaqibbasheer]

And how can we attain that skill, how to do training Sheikh assist.

[_info]

You are right 👍🏻 Alhamdulillah!!
Can women in Islam have rights, to shout not often while she is in anger when she is literally insulted by the relatives such as sister husband or inlaws !!
When she realises her shout is wrong still she is bullied by her sister husband with lots of assassinating her for her character, what to do when, they shout at her and bully her without understanding her suffering?

[neha]

if this happens everyday every hour that what we do

[dfmsgki]

what if it a parent and they always curse and if i stay quiet they get more angry

[nahidaakter]

It's quite impossible maybe sheikh never face those things 😊😊😊😊