PREPARING FOR MOTHERHOOD | TOSIN ALABI

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[YemiAyodeji]

Everything about this video is so powerful but the biggest take for me is the spiritual part, those prayer points are really powerful. You also didn't ignore the mental and financial implications of raising a powerful child for God's kingdom. I am so conscious about the parenting God's children that he has given me the responsibility to raise, may God continue to strengthen every parent out there.

[jbmeloveable]

Nuggets from video: Parenting Preparation

- Trust God completely for His timing - Proverbs 19:21 - many are the plans of man but it's God purpose that prevails

- Mental preparation for the transition - reading about parenting, etc. - gain knowledge - imagine yourself as a mom and what life would be like

- Educating yourself extensively - determine the kind of parent do you want to be, core values, etc.

- Guard your heart - especially as you're reading and hearing about things from people (the negative ones especially that will contribute to anxiety)

- Financial preparation - save!!! Plan for them financially - even open separate account for that and put money in there consistently

- Staying fit - being healthy

- Spiritual - PRAY about everything - specific prayers for child, general prayers, everything that crosses your mind
Safe pregnancy journey and delivery
Destiny of child - role in Kingdom agenda
Name and Health of child

Thank you Tosin 💃🏾💃🏾

[YemiAyodeji]

I voted for this video, I can't believe it came early. Welldone Tosin for doing this quickly, I know it's not easy filming with everything else.

[deeomoore]

I just stumbled on your channel some days back and I want to let you know that I love you and everything you stand for /represent. You're such a delight to watch. Yet to see all the videos, but hey! One step at a time. People who are Christ centered is everything for me!
Congratulations on your bundle of joy. Nations will call you blessed 💕

[BrendaKimbi]

TOSIN...you are the Pinnacle when it comes to giving insightful content. This was a Master class.
As a newly wedded this was so timely for me especially with the 1st point on Proverbs 19:21.

[funtyangel]

Parenting is such a big ministry that one cant just go in without adequate knowledge and wisdom. Loved that you shared this for those who are on this parenting journey. Guarding your heart is so personal for me because i went through pregnancy and i have sickle cell. I plan to talk about that on my channel as well. God be with those going through this journey.

[Lifeoftlu_]

Thank you ma, I am not married yet but I learnt a whole lot watching this video
Prayers can't be overemphasized
God bless you, Arire and your family

[itsfoda]

I bless the day I found out about your channel mama love you!!!

[angelfortunee]

You have nothing to lose by preparing!

[KadimaBelle]

When you said "do you understand what I'm saying". I nodded my head. Your videos always minister to me. More grace, Tosin

[chimdiorji]

I’m not married yet but you shared so many valuable points.
Preparing mentally and financially is very important even for people planning to get married.

Blocking out negativity is also key.

The part of prayers is another major part on it’s own.

Thank you

[ExtraStepsCeo]

Arire is surely growing up in divine knowledge and wisdom. I like the part that you say as parents we are contributory factors to what our children become, not just because we have prayed alone, God bless you for this. This is good for my monday morning and I have also shared it.

[abisola]

Once I saw the title, I knew I had to watch it on TV so I can take notes on my phone. Thank you for the many gems shared in this video - I am definitely borrowing your excel spreadsheet advice!

[angelfortunee]

They fact that she's hearing all these sweet things you talked about in the video! 😊 Your generation is blessed indeed Aunty Tosin! A truly informative video. Thank you

[topealade]

Tosin thank you ! You keep dishing out tips on different situations, I have a baby boy who is going to be a month old in few days and you have given me hints on how to pray n take care of him💃🏼😊

[toyosiadedigba]

Thank you so much Tosin. I'm not married yet and I get that the best time to start preparing is now, just like you always say.

Much love to you, Uncle B and Arire.

[antonettewambani]

That point on praying before you even concieve that is so me ....i agree there is no harm in early preparation.keep this videos coming missed you tosin. Congratulations on the new journey. All love from Kenya

[tolulopeola]

Your videos are motivating are and reassuring. Thank you so much for all you’re doing. God bless your family. You’re indeed a light that cannot be hidden.

[angelfortunee]

Oh, like Journaling. I'm trying to build this habit too, making notes as I grow in life, so I can reflect and recount exactly how I felt at each point

[GloreeyahOnuh]

Thank you Tosin for this video. Mental preparation is key. As my family is back in Nigeria, I’m always nervous and scared about bringing up a child here in the UK. I don’t feel I know enough 😀. Let you said so many anxieties. But yeah this video has really put me at ease as I’m planning to start a family soon. Congratulations on your bundle of joy ❤️, pls pray for me too😇New subscriber too😘