Your Pet's Death is Not Your Fault #petloss | Pet Grief | Dog Loss | Cat Loss | Pet Death Guilt

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Dealing With the Loss of Your Pet:

Do Our Pets Go to Heaven?

PeopleLovingAnimals
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I lost my beloved cat this morning. He was suddenly hit by a car this morning, and I woke up to my dad in my room, telling me that he was gone. Last night I, hadn’t let him in my room. This was the best cat I have ever had, and we were bonded. I had cared for him when he was a young kitten, and he would reach up to me, and have me hold him on my shoulder multiple times a day. We had only had him for 7 months, and he was under a year old. RIP Scooby.

evaenig
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Thank you for this. I lost my little girl 6 days ago. I could tell she wasn't feeling well but thought she would be fine. I think it was bloat but I will never know now. Just an hour before she showed signs of being sick he were playing and watching one of her BD videos. I gave her a big huge and talked about the little dog on TV. I didn't see how bad she was until it was too late. I can't get rid of the guilt. Its my job to keep her safe and I failed.

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I fell like she was my purpose in life and now I feel like I’m back to being nothing

PTRP
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I wanted to spend the rest of my life with you; but instead I am deeply honored knowing you spent the rest of your life with me.” –Camille Marcotte

I send just ❤ to everyone!! R.I.P. Blacky I hope you can forgive me.

animalliberationCLBB
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I lost my best friend Leo a week ago. At first I thought it was the liver disease he’d been battling, but then I finally checked my ring camera and had to watch him getting killed by two loose dogs.

‘If only I did this, If only I did that’. ‘If only I let him in our backyard instead of front’

Now am I not only struggling with the fact that he’s gone but the manner in which he died.

‘If only I had heard his cries out my window, maybe I could have saved him’

He’s been an outdoor cat for 12 years, and the neighborhood has been so safe I even considered letting my tripaw cat go outdoors again. So heartbreaking and I am devastated.

egil
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I lost my cat 3 months ago. She was 14, still lively, my unconditional support friend while I’m going through something really difficult. She suddenly got sick and had to have her put to sleep. It feels such trauma. I have a trigger memory and end up sobbing for hours…. so much guilt. The depression is terrible, and I thank you for making this video to try to normalise. It’s also stirred up other significant losses and I worry I don’t do grief very well, I’m so very sensitive ❤

katyh
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After losing my cat Tomas was the worst thing that ever happened to me. He passed away yesterday October 16, 2023. I have been crying constantly and I nearly had a panic attack. I can hardly bear this. It's really killing me inside literally!" I felt like I didn't do enough for him. That boy meant everything to me, he was always there for me and he was everything to me. Now I have an empty void in my heart. I feel like I'm falling apart. He was 17 years old and he passed away here at home with me by his side.

rebeccadeverick
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You are absolutely 100 % right. And this is very comforting for me. I had to put my senior dog down because her body was giving up. I forgive myself for putting her out of her misery. Time and keeping myself busy is key to overcoming the initial grief.

maryhelenmccormick
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The comments here are so comforting. I thought i was the only one feeling the way I do after I lost my beautiful dog. The guilt, the unbearable pain, the huge void. I long to see him, can't believe he is gone.

diane
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Thank you. My Guinea pig just died a few days ago from a severe respiratory infection. I did notice him eating less and being tired but I thought he was just tired and aging. And I told myself I’d keep an eye on it. Then he died so quickly after I took him to the vet. I’m trying not to blame myself for not taking him to the vet earlier. I didn’t know that Guinea pigs hide their illnesses until it’s severe, and it was a week I was very busy. He lived 5 great years. I love you Oliver ❤️

koryelizabethdarling
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Thank you for this😢 I just lost my 1, 5 year old cat…the amount of guilt I feel is unbearable..she was hit by a car. I found her already gone, the worst moment in my life. I feel so guilty letting her outdoors😞 I wanted her to be an indoor cat, tried to make her happy. She stopped eating and peed everywhere, waited at the door miauing. The vet couldnt find anything. Her first owners did let her out, so mabye that is why she wanted to go out so badly. I started walking her on the leash daily. Here in switzerland this is not the norm, so i got nasty comments from dog walkers and even family members told me, that cats belong outside, I am crazy to put her on the leash, even careless, and keeping her „locked“ inside. I should never never listen go anybody. My gut feeling told me not to let her out. She got thinner and thinner, I tried every food and feeding method, she just refused. So I let her out. First weeks supervised and with gps. She was so carefull, i started to trust her, forgot the dangers…she started eating again, was her old self. I thought I made the right desicion. Now she‘s gone. I don’t know how to forgive myself💔 I should have tried longer with the leash. I should have never stopped supervising, I should go to other vets…I am so sorry baby kayra for not protecting you enough😢

sherylschaufelberger
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My 7 yr old Husky was diagnosed with thyroid cancer Dec 24th, but that was several days after being told by vets first she has kennel cough, 2 days later they said Gastritis, then I brought her back another day and they felt a lump on her throat. They put her an oxygen. They did a biopsy it was malignant. And the CT scan showed it was very big. I was waiting for a second opinion as the surgeon said she could bleed to death during surgery and other worst case scenarios. The day before her second opinion she didn't make it. And that night on New years day I was calling all over to put her down and all the hospitals were full. She crawled out of my car onto the floor. A man came running over with a blanket and we lifted her back into the car she stopped breathing. I slept in the car with her all night until I took her to the vet the next day to cremate her so I could take her home. My heart is broken! My other dog was with us and she's not doing very well. It happened so fast. I miss her so much. 💔🐾

HD-mgru
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I put down our cat back on October 2022. 14 months later I had to put down our dog. One of the most Devastating things to do in life. I feel my cat’s presence still. And as I write this I can smell my dog’s scent. For all those who lost Furbabies. Just remember they are still with you. Sending hugs and prayers to all of you that are grieving. ❤️🙏

chrisdaniel
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My dog was put to sleep last night. I keep wanting to call out her name to get her to come and give me a cuddle.

mugsnkisses
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Bless you, good woman, for what you are doing for all of us with your channel. My 9 yo boy Ari died in his sleep in my bed. I thought he was having a nightmare and filmed his last breath. It was hours before I got the horrific realization that he hadn’t moved from what I thought was a deep REM sleep. It took more hours for me to gain the courage to touch his body. I didn’t want to know. I couldn’t bear it. From the time he died at 4:11 a.m. on Nov 15, I lied there until 11:15 a.m., finally lying my hand onto his hard, lifeless body. His death has completely destroyed me. I will never recover from this loss. It’s the most excruciating pain in the entire world, and I don’t want to go on without him. He was perfectly fine. I thought it was a dream. I was such a fool. I will never forgive myself for not holding him as he took his final breath. I don’t understand WHY?? What happened? He was only 9 and the most loving, perfect companion in the entire world. Goodbye, Ari. I will cry for you every day for the rest of my life. It was me and you against the world. You took a massive chunk of my heart with you. RIP ❤❤

mishkathlay
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Thank you very much for your warm and kind words. My dog 'Jazz' passed away three months ago. I had to put him down. It feels like it happened three minutes ago or three years ago. It feels like you have a deep hole and something stuck in your heart at the same time.

LeobardoOscar
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thank you, my cat Canela passed yesterday of old age, in my arms. I will love you for ever Canela

carolinanve
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In tears. I so needed to hear your words today. Thank you for taking the time to make this video. God bless you! 🙏🏼❤️

Jtrevino
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Thank you❤I just lost my beloved cat Diesel and I am so filled with guilt and sadness. I love him so so much and I hope he knows that and that he felt it and feel it wherever he is now. I LOVE YOU DIESEL❤ I miss you so.much.

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