What Makes Younger Men Fall In Love With Older Women

[shoshannamann]

I am 70-ish, he is 41😊 He pursued me...I followed his lead. I am not wealthy...he is!! I am his queen..he is king of my heart!! God was/is our matchmaker🙏

[cainbutler]

As a young 25 year old biracial male who’s 6’4 tall and thin, beautiful older women (milfs) in their 30’s and 40’s, make me weak in the knees and make my heart melt not gonna lie😍❤️💯. They tend to be confident chill and so loving in my experience. I can be myself around them and still have deep intellectual conversations with each other and have some wild fun. Young girls were pretty and all, but they’re too much drama and headache. I think I’m gonna keep sticking to my older ladies! I have more in common with em😃

[marysakal]

I'm 67 my man is 56...neither one of us looks our age, so we look really good together. Our energies are equal, our interests the same, we were meant for each other.

[katiewebb]

I’m 34 and my bf is 24. He’s the most amazing guy i’ve been with. Way more mature than my ex was at 8 years older than me.

[RT-inko]

You get an “A” for your points. As a woman now married to a man 24 years younger I can say without doubt you are correct. Confidence, knowing who you are and what you want, sharing - these are key. Also, implied in what you said are, openness (open to new experiences), a sense of curiosity from both parties. One thing you didn’t mention is a need for nurturing or to nurture/ protect. The older person in the relationship can fill a need in the younger one at first, to nurture them and protect them. And later in life, the younger one can nurture the older one. This should be discussed as it is an important role in the relationship- it fulfills Both’s needs to want to be a nurturer and provider in the relationship. Just want to throw that in. Thank you for the video. Peace ☮️👍❤️

[margomazzeo]

Im 65..look much younger..my man is 35..a widower with 3 young children..we are so in love..💝💝🍀🍀🎈🎈

[loriewallace]

At 59 I was being hit on by 21 year olds and up. At 66, I have been with a man 14 years younger for 5 years. He says the attraction was my confidence, wisdom and lack of selfishness, but he never expected to fall in love.

[BigHeartNoBS]

I'm 47 he is 34. We're both single parents. Been going on for 2 years and I have fallen pretty hard here. Our connection is beautiful. ❤️

[saturn]

I cherish my gal she is 56 I'm 45 and I couldn't be happier.

[TheMomseloc]

I finally succumbed to a man 18 years younger. He's been pursuing me for years. I'm being careful but the 'encounter' was perfect.

[janochs]

Im 60 and I have more men hitting on me now than I ever did when I was younger. Men as much as 40 years younger!! I dont know what to make of it. I'm so much heavier too and they dont seem to notice. My girlfriends all tell me because they are after money, which I dont have. I think theyre just jealous! Senior ladies...dont give up!!

[Jocelynjade]

We were sold a lie. To think our value decreases with age. Aging is beautiful. It’s a blessing to be alive for longer and longer. Our experiences help us shine as we age.

[monikasm]

Being older is actually such a blessing, especially if you are very attractive. You can wear nice clothes and high heels without other girls starring at you as if they would like to kill you, you have more girlfriends and guys fall for you anyways, perfect life it is.

[JoJacka-hd]

I'm 62 my man is 45 we are so happy together. He chased me we've know each other for 2 years. We are getting Married in June .

[duhlakpassah]

Most of the women in my family are married to younger men and they're all very happy. It depends on the mutual respect and understanding between two people.Keep away from the critics and judgemental people. Age is just a number.... If you love each other it's enough.
As a woman I'd say if old men can date or marry a teenager, why be gender biased??

[dreamlover]

I'm 41 and married. For the past few years, I've had men as young as 22 y/o hit on me knowing my status. It even happened one time that someone suddenly touched and kissed my hand and started talking about the future with me! I told him to kick rocks 😁
Every time, my husband just laughs and says "I trust you, you can handle them".

I take care of myself, but don't looklike a supermodel. So, what attracts them to me?
It's my maturity, wisdom, confidence and straight talk. I'm also chill, love to laugh and feed people 😊

[karlascott]

There is a lot more to this than the video says. There is one comment I read that is in a healthy long term relationship. I'm currently 54, been divorced 10 years. I have much experience dating. I went into it confident, but... ALL MEN ARE PLAYERS. I've been hit on and even dated men in their 20 & 30's, oh heck even 40's but that is normal. Younger men are very much intrigued with you. TRUE. Older women exude a confident sexuality. But, they are only in it for a time. They will not commit. Older men are not willing to commit either.. They've learned their lesson and are hell bent to not be trapped by a ball and chain again. They will date until it isn't fun and move on. The best thing you can do is not chase. God bless any woman who finds a gem. They are rare.

[totomaster]

I can relate so so much with all the arguments!!!
I am a 36 years old male and I tend to fall in love with woman of age 50 to sometimes even 70 years old.... It is just the confidence and the easy going lifestyle that appeals so much to me. And not even that, I get weak knees from small wrinkles and a skin just a little rough...
OMG I'm so weird I guess :)

[lyndsaythompson]

I was married for 36 years to my first love - this ended 5 years ago and when I was brave enough to venture into dating again I was stunned at the attention I got from much younger guys. I dated a guy 23 years younger for 2 years and It was great! I’m 59 now. Surely if men can date much younger women with no worries why are older women labelled cougars if they are seeing a younger man?!! 😉

[mayaalmeida]

I am 36 and have recently fallen for a man 9 years my junior. I can see areas where there might be conflict, but so far it has been nothing but wonderful. His passion, drive and energy are so high, and he's so positive, kind and optimistic, and I feel I'm the same way, and I haven't been able to find that in someone my age. No he can't relate when I have to take care of certain responsibilities, but he thinks it's cute and never gets needy when I have to do something without him. I adore him and I'm terrified lol. Hope this works