Finding Love after 50: How to Get in the Right Mindset to Start Dating Again after 50

Are you back on the dating scene after 50, feeling insecure, frustrated and discouraged because you just aren’t meeting the right men? You’re not alone! Finding love and dating after 50 requires getting in the right mindset. What you might be surprised to discover is that your dating success – or lack thereof – has nothing to do with your online profile or the way you look, but has everything to do with the way you approach dating. Today, Lisa Copeland known as the expert dating coach for women over 50, shares her journey of starting over again after a 24-year marriage, what she learned about dating, and how she is now helping women all over the country find love again after 50. Tune in to discover the key mistakes women make in their approach to dating again after 50, and what to do to make dating fun!

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[leeharrison]

I’m a guy ...The older I seem to get the more interested I become of the energy different individuals are projecting .. How does it impact me ? What kind of energy do I find relaxing and comfortable with? Personal experience evaluation... what a woman allows .. meaning is she giving me any opportunities to do something for her ... the little things she obviously can do for her self ... opening a door for her ... is an example ... she waits till I notice ... that’s amazing to me ... my level of respect immediately rises ... she wants me to participate... anytime a woman provides unexpected opportunities for me to participate my respect for her rises ...

[eddy]

Great video, it really explains a lot about the women I've been meeting and why most of the time I feel like I just went through a job interview with them....sucks!! My biggest complain with women, on our first date many of them want to know why I'm divorced....Copeland had the best answer: "We grew apart." What I want to say to a woman interviewing me, this is a question for a later date, if we have a later date!!

[leeharrison]

I’m a guy .... Dating should never be like looking at a house I might be interested in purchasing... looking for the negatives... Dating for me is like seeing a different type of house and enjoying what I find interesting . Positive out look

[johnjumper]

I would just like to go on a date drink some wine and laughing so hard until Im crying. No big issues discussed no judgments moralizing or histrionics. Let all the life stuff to unpack roll out over time. I try to treat people like they got their worst news of their life yesterday so I try to be kind caring interested encouraging and available Ive found that it works.

[lifetobelived]

I realize I bring up things about my ex but not in an angry way any more just in reference to something in particular and not in a dating situation. I've tried to break that habit but since I haven't been with anyone else since the divorce I guess I haven't had a chance to break the habit.

[leeharrison]

I’m a guy who is so frustrated with women who look at a profile as a professional resume and cover letter and then each contact is weather I qualify for their long term position.. I’m not looking for a new job or career position...the interview thing is huge turn off .. and so many women look at dating as courting . I’m doing my best not to date a type allowing myself to experience different types of women and experience life in real time ... I ask my self how do I feel ? Is there anything being triggered within me that I need to deal with personally? Self evaluate... after the date what was she like ? How comfortable was she and how comfortable was I ... Did I really enjoy the time we spent together? Where their any signs she was enjoying her time with me ? Was she into me ? Did she flirt ? Does radio silence or moments of silence make her feel awkward or that I might not be into her ? Sometimes I like to take in the moment and just be still... I ask myself what can I do or say that makes her experience with me more enjoyable... please don’t interview me... by all means you can ask the tough questions ... and do ask questions to get clarity... ask what we think before asking us how we felt ? Most of us guys see date time as a time where we can really focus or listen to the woman... with little to distractions ... our mind set is different than focusing on a project or activity .. I’m often more interested in who you are than sharing who I am ... but I’m also willing to share ....

[natashamudford]

Ladies, I really enjoy your videos. I also enjoy videos that feature professionals in the field of psychiatry addressing a variety of psychological issues. However, I cannot seem to find anyone on YouTube who addresses older adults (50+) and the issues they face. Do you know of any?

I appreciate your input!

[laram]

So do only confident women attract men? Women are different and some are quite, not confident, very domestic .. it does not mean there is no match for them.