Why you just need to START! | #shorts

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Sometimes you’ve just got to START! 💪
When we face something new where we’re uncertain of the end result, we might procrastinate and delay…

Why?

Because of our expectations about the outcome and weight we place on achieving the desired end-state…

“What if I don’t succeed?”
“What if they don’t like it?”
“What if it’s not up to standard?”
“What if I don’t get the job?”

It could also be a reflection of perfectionism, where you set such impossibly high standards that you procrastinate from taking action because you want to avoid the inevitable pain that comes with ‘failure’.

A really effective cognitive reframe is simply to CHANGE THE GOAL.
When I implemented this reframe myself it completely changed how I approached challenges and opportunities.

Instead of the ‘desired outcome’ being the goal,
Detach yourself from that expectation.

Instead,
Make the ‘FIRST STEP’ the goal.
Make ACTION the goal.
Make PROGRESS the goal.

That way, you can celebrate each time you move forward, and doing so also triggers the dopamine reward pathway so you’ll find each additional step becomes that much easier. 💪

Have you ever ‘just acted’ and been pleasantly surprised by what you’ve been capable of? I’d love to hear your experiences in the comments! 👇

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Enjoy the process, , , that's the great line, , and I enjoy to observe and listen you again again

debarajbasak
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Superb Idea of making "Starting" as a goal..

leenasidhwa
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You: simply the best teacher
Thank you so

udaaybagade
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Right on point, my dear,
Great points!

noelisehilaire
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Love and gratitude to you Shade Zahari...You are Wonderful...Amazing ...a Star...Thank you

gauravsinghbedi
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This is everything I wanted to hear. A big hug 🤗 to you.

ize
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Thank you so much You're brilliant!

ericklmy
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Daniel from Singapore 🇸🇬, . Thanks for that tips, .. Thanks again

zacdaniel
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Love your advices. Actually makes me motivated

asinivirkar
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Thanks....you are so right... Thanks a lot.

shilpamanmohan
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Yes I needed to hear this to get started 😊

priyaramdoo
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This is really good and truly effective, instead of imagine the result live in the process, ..
Thank you ♥, ..

gen
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Please expand on this subject! I would love to get 10 minutes of motivational tips on how to start projects.

gulac
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That first step is always the hardest!

rondemery
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Starting is the hardest part of starting.
Just make starting your goal rather than making result your goal . This way the doubts which we have about the results will be faded and starting would be easier and joyful as we take it now as a challenge. Got it . Thanks .

AnkitRawat-dbqe
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Myself I'm just healing from surgery maybe another week and I'll be on my feet. I know you're directing it to the general audience.

waynebonavia
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Hey Shade, I am surprised how do you know what I think. This is exactly happening with me. Love your guidance ❤️

bhushankondhekar
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Starting is inevitably the initial step to any thing attempted

noelisehilaire
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Every goal has mini/micro goals. Achieving every mini/micro goal is important to achieve the bigger goal.

dilip
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Very motivating tip thanks for this short

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