Parenting Styles Kids HATE...Like Helicopter Parenting | Dad University

Bad parents often have good intentions but don't realize their parenting style is not good for the child. Whether your style is lawnmower parenting, helicopter parenting, or tiger parenting, all of these are bad parenting styles. They can lead to the child having difficulties that can include depression, anxiety, and focusing on the negative.

Being faced with challenges and failing is necessary for growing and building resiliency. Yet parents who are helicopter parents or lawnmower parents don't allow their kids to experience any of this so they are not prepared for the real world.

The children grow into adults that blame others, give up on things easily, and have difficulty handling conflict. There are also other names for lawnmower parenting such as bulldoze parenting and snowplough parenting. Other types of bad parenting styles include underparenting, narcissistic parenting, and outsourcer parenting.

Be sure to watch this video so you can avoid these parenting styles.

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[Yechurchonline]

Thank you, I'm about to be a new Dad, I'm 28 and my Dad is a great parent, it's just sometimes I feel like I'm obedient to my own Dad but not always listening very well in regards to life skills. I have had jobs since high school but every time I am in an apartment on my own I am bad at budgeting. I want my child to learn well, but I understand my own parents cannot cover every life lesson.

[SeedStem]

Great video and agree with all your points. Hadn't heard of lawnmower parenting! Shoot...I helped my 8 year old with her project. Is that really wrong?

[mustasheolll]

My dad is a mix of helicopter and lawnmower. My mom is a little bit lazy in terms of parenting, but she always gives me great advice and loves me no matter what.

[Mimis_]

I have a helicopter parent and she gets me in trouble for everything and I have so many issues because of it and I showed her one of your videos because she always thinks I’m talking to her disrespectfully and she said I’m just trying to prove her wrong but I’m trying to make her see that her being this hard on me ruins my personality. She basically calls me names on the daily or subtly (she thinks) tells me stuff like you probably shouldn’t eat that. You need to loose weight and so much more. I don’t know what to do because she’s stubborn and won’t listen.

[UrAverageDad]

Great video and I love the different types. You have given me so much inspiration into my channel and narrowing down my niche, and also talking with Jonathan Lei from New Dads today on the phone helped me out alot as well. I don't think I would have been able to come up with my ideas without the total inspiration from you guys. Yall have done so much for me and don't even know it. I look forward to next few weeks and getting my new dad series up and running that I have come up with. You are great man, keep up the good work and inspiration to other dads like myself and my channel.

[Therathmataz]

I've been trying to find out what kinds of parents my ex-girlfriends have had just to see if there's a connection, but I kinda cut ties with them and I don't wanna turn to stalking so looks like it's time to speculate and overthink.

[chickentipsandtricks]

What kind of parent am I. I am quite hard on my 6yr old. I got into trouble a lot as a kid so I am afraid for his future safety and freedom. I want him to be super independent and not call on us all the time for things he then does on his own. I feel like I am raising a man, not a child. I dont care if he likes me now. I want him to thank me when he is 30 for all the life skills and lessons. He does not want to go places with me, he is a step child I have been in his life 3 years. Limited dad interaction. It hurts he pushes me away and I am hard on him but I feel I am giving him coach" like direction. I do not tell him I love him. He does not give me hugs. I had no father figure in my life take his TV away a lot. I do not spank him, mom does. He is a great kid and listens to us. He is good in school. He is good at sports. He is a mamas boy.

Some of this is good some not

[techhelpportal]

My parents don't let me have a say in anything. They are a mix of helicopter parents and tiger parents

[BTBdrummerBTB]

3:28 I have a question. You make a good point about proud being unconditional. But doesn't that make it meaningless? I mean, should I be just as proud of my dropout son playing video games all day as I am of my other son who works his ass of to provide for his future wife?

[Thebeardedwarden]

Now that I've watched this I realize my mom was a helicopter/lawnmower parent

[saeedbowww]

IS there mommy university. Please post any links that first time moms will benefit from

[mattrivera]

My sister in law is a lawn mower for sure

[favorable_soul]

Good ness i think i am a helicopter parent!!!! My son is 1 and a half we just went to a new park and it was pretty big and one little boy there said to me whats ur name and I stated my name then he said why are you following him (my son)🤦totally embarrassing i didn't know i wasn't supposed to?!?! I was just showing him i thought well and also playing with him too cuz he / we never been there and idk im new here 😰

[hunter]

Lol he references a book then admits he didn't read it then explains it to us...🤣. Man Splain much for this book written by a woman.