63. Breaking No Contact (Reaching out to my ex!)

In this video Rory discusses the hazards of breaking no contact, and some ways to avoid breaking it!

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[JP-vqwg]

If an ex don’t want you, give them their command and run! Run to someone that does! Yourself! Stay strong everyone. It will be a cold day in hell before I reach out to someone who doesn’t want me. Period!

[priscylamello]

Sometimes I come and listen 2 times or 3 the same video, to keep this information in my mind! 🙏🏻

[tyler]

If you feel like you're going to break...text a friend and hang out, join an athletic league, pick up an instrument...anything. Anything that takes up your TIME and your MIND. It's all mental. You got this!

[pietro]

Stopping by after no longer needing to listen to these videos! I too was up all night devouring each video holding on to hope she would come back! It’s been 4 months and no she has not reached out. But I no longer wait or build my life around her, I actually worked on me and now I can honestly say I am a better man. No contact works only if you work on yourself and build a life for you. Gym, family, friends and yes even Wednesday night trivia… someone better for you will show up when you are at your best, so don’t give up and start with one thing and build on it!! Last thing if you meet someone don’t destroy what you have built for her and cut everyone off. Continue to be busy with life and she will add to it . No more tears unless it’s in the gym on the last set !!! Stay strong!!!!

[karenzhang]

I feel like no contact is like The Marshmallow Test. If you can resist the short term pleasure, you will get something more (and better) later on.

[mikebressler]

That's what she wanted just to be friends, and she is with a new man in her life. I said no and walked away and she said if I changed my mind then contact her. It's been painful but I'm sure it will be better for me in the long run.

[FueledByKass]

I unfortunately broke no contact after 5 days. However Rory is completely right. There is no reason to make ourselves feel bad because someone we would drop everything for, is ignoring us. I’m completely baffled because I did everything I could to be there for him, and for him to drop me and replace me like I’m nothing has now been a wake up call. I think breaking NC is a good wake up call as well, as it really shows you who this person is but one definitely needs to be strong to not let it hurt you more.

[fujimotochiaki]

1) Go for a walk in the Sun
2) Jumping Jacks
3) Call/text close friends
4) Journal
5) Watch a movie
6) Listen to a podcast
7) Watch comedy
8) Write stories and poems
9) Clean up/tidy up a space

[juliemanso]

This is very simple! NC works more for your ex not returning! If they left and didn’t return is because they never cared to begin with! When someone loves you they don’t leave, they stick it through no matter what! I have my doubts of NC, I personally think once the person disappears it’s done and they will not return! I’ve heard so many videos on NC and 80%
Of them they never return, only 20% have success stories! So it’s very clear, prepare yourself to suffer because they will not return!

[ryancoburn]

I broke no contact after 22 days. I thought maybe it was long enough and i had a question i wanted to ask n you know what i regret it cause she didn't respond and made me feel 10x worse. I'm back in no contact

[maureenmaureen]

No contact means take this time to work on yourself....yes & they are not interested so it’s cutting out the continued heart ache....🙏🏻

[nicolasrodriguez]

My contingency plan is listening to these vids. Very therapeutic. Thank you.

[stormfalcon]

You know what I’ve begun to realize in just over three months of no contact? Even if they did come back and even if you have done all the work... they could just dump you again. The trust is gone. If they’re still the best when you’ve seen them at their worst but you’re not that for them, I’m saying, just move on!

[ellemmusic]

I want this year to pass. That's all I wish now. From next year, I don't even want to smell his scent. That's my commitment.

[krkshnk]

Yeah man I’m on day 6 and I almost broke it yesterday. I’m happy I didn’t I would have regretted it and caused more problems . Happy I pushed through . Thanks bro

[amorizar]

Yesterday I almost did it cause she posted a photo with a T-shirt that was mine
Been in no contact over a month now
I had to move to another city and a couple weeks later she brokeup and imediatly started dating a guy she used to date
Guess it isnt going that well as it seems
Just stay strong guys, It takes sometimes but no contact works

[abtinarts]

I found out that these things are waste of time and guss what ? I moved on ...don't hope anymore

[shivajichatterjee]

Amazingly what Rory says is true. No contact does work . Guys don't break no contact . I am new to this channel but then I didn't speak to one of my exes from past one year ... Amazingly she texted tonight while I was asleep, the present ex will still take some time !!!! Stay NC forever . You never know which ex comes back and when 🤭😁

[cutiegurl]

I will support you Love Chat when I finally get a job! 💗 You’ve helped me a lot.

[TheEmmyheartsmusic]

What if you never got closure? Part of me knows deep down that he probably hates me, and I’ve moved on and am happy, but I am bothered almost everyday by the closure I never got.