Love Languages: Words of Affirmation

Chapman, G. D. (2022). The 5 love languages: The secret to love that lasts. Better Yourself Books/St Pauls.

Words of affirmation is a love language that refers to expressing affection and love through verbal communication. People who value this love language feel most loved and appreciated when they receive verbal recognition and praise for their efforts and qualities. It involves expressing appreciation, gratitude, and positive feedback towards the other person in the relationship.
Here are some examples of words of affirmation that can make someone feel loved and appreciated:
Compliments: Telling your partner that you appreciate their physical appearance, qualities, or actions can go a long way in making them feel valued. For example, “You look beautiful/handsome today”, “I really admire your hard work and dedication.”
Encouragement: Encouraging words can motivate and uplift your partner. For example, “I believe in you”, “You can do this”, “You’re capable of achieving anything you put your mind to.”
Gratitude: Expressing gratitude for your partner and their contributions to the relationship is a powerful way to make them feel appreciated. For example, “Thank you for always being there for me”, “I appreciate everything you do for us.”
Affectionate messages: Simple, loving texts or notes can make your partner’s day. For example, “I miss you so much”, “I’m grateful to have you in my life”, “I love you more than anything.”
It’s important to remember that words of affirmation are not just about saying kind things but also about expressing your genuine feelings towards your partner. Make sure you don't over use it too often or in an inappropriate situation, as it may come off as fake and not genuine. It’s about being authentic and sincere in your expressions of love and appreciation. If your love language is words of affirmation, communicate that with your partner and let them know how important being verbally encouraged and supported is to you.If your partner values words of affirmation, make an effort to use these words regularly and with sincerity to strengthen your relationship and make your partner feel loved.