Love Language: Words Of Affirmation

Have you ever done something really nice for your partner, but they hardly acknowledged it? And then have you ever done something that seemed small or minor to you, but your partner went bananas with gratitude?

It probably felt really confusing in the moment, but that’s because you were speaking a different Love Language than your partner! Most couples have different languages. We need to know our partner's so we can give them love the way they want to receive it.

Today, we're going to specifically discuss if your partner's love language is Words of Affirmation and how you can show them love.

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[sarahbethbliss]

Gary Chapman is the name of the Author! You can mention the authors name without supporting all of his beliefs.

[adayah]

It’s respectful to cite the author of the original idea.

[motherofwands]

Also I really think a big part of words of affirmation, is being there with verbal support and encouragement in difficult times. Verbal empathy in hardships.

[stefaniecote]

I loved how simple you guys broke this down, and thank you for acknowledging that someone else’s love language may not make sense to you. My boyfriend is words of affirmation and I always feel so phony when I try and speak to him that way because it’s so foreign to me. My love languages are time and acts of service, so words carry no weight for me. Subscribed and can’t wait to watch more!

[kathykennedy]

For me it’s having the integrity to follow through with commitments. Being honest and allowing me to trust that their words are the truth. I can count on them.

[athanasiachamblee]

My husband is words of affirmation. We have read the five languages book together. This was helpful as I struggle to give him words and I also don’t realize how literal he takes my jokes :-) thanks guys!

[catherinelambe]

I am words of affirmation. I always seek praise

[jessienordvall]

Gary Chapman. Give credit where it’s due.

[christinamignemi]

I love Gary Chapman,

We don't all have to believe the same thing, we are free.

[lilelly]

I love how Vanessa genuinely gets really pleased by Xander´s pet name and compliment!!

[relaxtakenotes]

Everyone so pressed about citing the autor.. they have just as much freedom to not cite as he does to have those beliefs. Chill.

[Janay-cycu]

Overall my main love languages and how I receive love are 1. Physical touch, 2. Quality time, and 3. Words of affirmation. How I give love to others are 1. Physical touch, 2. Gifts, 3. Acts of service, 4. Quality time, and 5. Words of affirmation. I do all 5 of them when I give or show my love to others.

[caribaez]

I am so amazed of what they talking about. It is true. I am words of affirmation!

[KouJunk]

You should still give credit to the author. 👀

[abbykimz]

I wish giving love this way is easy for me. Have to work on this for my partner

[IngredientIQ]

My wife’s love languages is Words of Affirmation and it’s so hard for me to stay consistent with her love language I try to do better but then I fall right back and then she gets upset because I only do it for a lil bit any tips to stay consistent?

[RBray-vzrs]

Her and I are both words of affirmation, and I am all about it, and I find it interesting that he does not reciprocate, even though he has the same love language

[eliassis]

Loved the video, I got it a little bit too late, but hey.. better late than never :)

[matthewharrigan]

"Take what is useful, discard what is useless, and add something that is uniquely your own" Bruce Lee

[beautiesonabudget]

My husband has this love language and I'm not very Good at this...but I'm working on it
.Thanks