NON-BINARY FASHION - Femme vs. Masc Days

Even as a gender-neutral person, I have feminine and masculine days. I have days when my confidence is up, and days when my dysphoria is prominent. Clothing is a great tool during these days.

Does your gender expression vary day-by-day? If so, what clothing do you reach for to express yourself?

[lennoxespinosa]

This was adorable! It's so comforting to see how other enby people dress and affirm themselves ♡♡

[charlie_et_ses_folies]

Hi ! As an AFAB person, I totally relate to dressing feminine only when you feel confident in your gender identity. My gender expression is very fluid. Sometimes months, a year, goes by without me wearing any feminine clothes, or months without make up. I've bought some binders that should get to my house in a few weeks, and I plan to dress more femme once I get them

[somepunk]

My femme days are more of just andro but more flamboyant. I usually wear something more 70s glam looking. Masc days are baggy band tee, zip up hoodie, and leggings or shorts. Most days I’m just a weird androgynous punk tho . __ .

[accidentalfrenchfries]

This was so fucking helpful. I’m very closeted in a very conservative family and I am looking for ways to express my gender identity but had no idea how to even begin. Watching this was so affirming. Thank you.

[elizabethmccoy]

Wow you look fire in all of these 👀 as someone who's closeted and doesnt really know any nb people your videos are great :):):) I've never really met anyone like me but during your intro I was floored that someone else knew how I felt and I felt a lot less alone <3

[reibean]

I just look like I rolled outta bed every day lol I really wanna get more colorful and less mix matched clothes

[cielace]

You have such a great style and I love how this video is filmed <33

[bellrose]

I for sure need to do the “can be worn with a binder or can be worn without one” sorting method for shirts!! Thanks for the tip dude :)

[feverfiction]

I'm so glad to find this video! I've been wondering about how other non-binary people dress and perceive fashion. It's really nice to see how you described the feeling of femme vs masc days because I really resonated with it! For me I like loose tucked-in shirts with jeans for masculine days / days I want to be comfortable and skirts + boots for femme days / days I feel confident. I used to wonder if dressing femme made me less non-binary because it was just like dressing as my 'assigned gender', but hearing this spectrum described by someone else kinda validated my feelings :')
Thanks! And also your outfits are great and I love your camo jacket!

[sailor-azoth]

Thank you so much for this! I’m currently struggling with clothes due to being non-binary as well. My main goal is comfort. And I struggle a lot with finding comfortable clothes especially today.

[joakescarnival]

Adorable! You are super sweet and I love this style. Great disclaimers too. I'm just starting my genderfluid journey and it is not easy. But the isolation is really making it easier to concentrate on myself and not others imposition on me. This video gives me some great ideas. Thank you

[ashesonjupiter]

I love seeing fellow bee's pov- if that makes sense- like their thought process and techniques! It also gives me ideas for my fem vs masc days!! I loveee all the outfits you showed!! ^^ (also i like to call fellow enbys like myself bee's because bee's are cool like us!! Also letme know if that could be harmful!)

[manidipamandal]

Can't begin to tell you how MUCH this resonated for me. Thank you ever so much for sharing this.

[greentea]

This is very helpful for me! I am a Demigirl (Kinda prefer non binary Fae/Faer though) and I feel very feminine some days and very masculine other days and I wanted to know if others felt this way :)


(Your cat is ADORABLE

[Lockwood-strangerthings]

love ur style on both femme and masc days. ur just a great person. edit: awesome person. :)

[mozzyozzy]

Hey I really loved the video, I'm just starting down this weird path of self acceptance... again.
This time from gay male to pansexual and non-binary and for some reason I kinda over appreciate videos like these, they just reaffirm everything I'm feeling and I know it's just a fashion video but just thanks for being a person who puts yourself out there because sometimes people really need it.

TL;DR Awesome styles, love the vid and subscribed!

[paulinepiolin]

This is so inspiring ! I need more enby representation ! Last summer your video came up on my recommendations and watching it made me want to try and shoot my own, which I did but only found the courage to put it online just now ! Anyway, thank you :)

[ObsidianHearts]

Edit: These are my most recent outfits for each corresponding day

Fem days:
-Pastel loose shirt (purple)
-Purple skirt
-Long socks (pastel with white)
-Black boots with a slight heel raise
-Gray small like elbow jacket? (I don't know what it is ^^" )

Masc:
-Jeans
-Blue graphic t-shirt (has a nice dinosaur on it :D)
-Oversized blue jacket (like a cerulean blue? Or sky-blue?)

[magicsnek]

Thank you so much for this video! This is great for back to school :D

[StripeyRedStripes]

I don't have femme days anymore. I am just digging into that masc trying to feel better and never getting there.