4 stupid assumptions women make about men | Dating mistakes women make.

4 dating assumptions that women make about men and 4 dating mistakes. Dating mistakes and misconceptions women make. Don’t make these stupid assumptions because they lead to dating mistakes and poor choices in men.

[Nappystorm]

Lol. Stop assuming your boyfriend won't get his ass kicked just because he has an attitude problem 😂🤣

[ButterflyBree]

Life is about balance. When I was "too nice" folks didn't respect my boundaries and didn't respect me. When I learned how to balance out my niceness and firmness, folks respected my boundaries and me. There's a few times I had to be an asshole to folks who refused to respect my boundaries, then folks wanna call me combative. 😒

I love men who have high emotional intelligence and know who to be nice to. Men who are always mean and combative are not the most optimal partners.

[cokeke]

"Don't let yourself become subconsciously tainted against decent men and good treatment "
- Kev Hicks

[melissabrown]

Right on point, Kev! My ex was a bad boy & I wasted a decade dealing with his insecurities and abuse. Now I'm dating a wonderful nice guy who treats me like a queen, communicates openly & isn't afraid to share his emotions. I'm continuously overwhelmed by what a wonderful blessing he is to me. God is so good!

[lezahbell]

My mom used to say that the empty wagons make the most noise.

[aamia]

Well mannered is masculine. The loud, aggressive, ratchet form of “masculinity” is not the real thing but that is the most popular form that is promoted in Hip hop culture.

[magnolia]

This is SO true. My abusive narc ex boyfriend was tough at home but then would bitch to me that none of his male cop co-workers listened to him or acknowledged his presence. They wouldn’t even say hi back whenever he said hi to them. They must’ve smelled the bitchassness from a mile away.🤷🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤣

[CrystalDatingCoach]

The biggest!? Sleeping with him...he'll fall in love. It's the Exact opposite.

[valadina]

Hi, my man is Somewhat of a nerd, he has 2 doctrines 1 in accounting and one in computer, he is an ex high school and college football player, hes5funny, kind, compassionate, ect. He treats me like a WOMAN. We don't even argue, we rather talk it out. He's respectful to me and everyone, he's just a genuinely nice guy but he doesn't play that shit either when someone tries him. He's not perfect but he's perfect for me.

[cindeed]

Don’t be aware of the nice guys be in awe of them. They usually are the real fighters when provoked. The quiet silent type don’t advertise who they are. He knows who he wants to be and won’t change for anyone. Nice men usually are the most loyal and respectful men to date. Give me nice and boring anytime. IMO

[omg]

This is very true! Found this out when I was a teenager though. Those who were quiet and tried not to fight always won when they were forced to stand up for themselves. Those who beat on their chest normally got wrecked. This has been a pattern I've noticed for the past 15 years of my adulthood. The best men are the ones that prefer to be peaceful and treat everyone with respect. But don't get it twisted, they will definitely go there if need be. 😛

[candacecasey]

In my experience the nice guys are actually the ones who are more manly . Btw some of us are actually turned off by " bravado ". I guess it might have something to do with my upbringing. My uncle who was an Independent contractor raised me . He was probably the most " masculine " man I know but he walked with a kind of quiet confidence. He was really easy going but if you pissed him off he could be " dangerous ". Even as a kid he was kind of known as someone who challenged " bullies"
The truth is that because he was 6 feet 3 and kind of a big guy people thought that they could make themselves a " reputation " for being able to beat him up. I never once saw him start a fight. I however did see him end a whole lot of them.

[butterflyangel]

Everything you said is true! Met a super nice guy #2 definitely applied to him! Don't think because a man is well mannered and spoken that equals punk. 💯

[moonstruck]

I'm really nice, almost all of the time and ppl take my kindness for weakness, until someone I love is threatened. Then a beast comes out! It dont matter how nice or "weak" you look, if you a good person you will always protect the ppl you love. That to me, is more sexy than anything.

[coralnegro]

Real stuff. Men are as "good" or as "bad" as our bounderies allow them to be.

[hannahkeating]

I really felt it when you said he's not even that great in bed, but you still want it from him.. #regrets 🤦‍♀️

[annkelly]

“Fisticuffs” is one of my favorite words 🙌🏾

[sw-ribl]

Lol damn kev you went in on me I felt attacked lol... ok so I did that with the guy I'm dating now automatically a thought "yep this guy is too good to be true, hes too perfect something has to be wrong with him I just know he hiding something" so I'd try to investigate and find something he doing... smh this is where i failed at I see...
He still with me but I apologized to him for my mistake for doing him like that I felt so bad... he forgave me... thank god.

[LisaGemini]

Fantastic video, Kev! I like guys with gentle, laid-back personalities. I don't need an arrogant a-hole anywhere in my life. I'm nice myself and know that niceness does NOT equal weakness. When pushed by someone, I'll hit back. Not physically but verbally. Be observant, girls, of how he treats his mother, friends and the wait staff. If he's rude to them or disses them, he'll do the same to you. Open your eyes.

[tjaspire]

I went to middle school in a poorer neighborhood and there was this one white kid named Dustin. He was always friendly and nice, but one day somebody tried him and LET ME TELL YOU, the beast came out and he was swinging left and right. I just remember fists F-Lying. I never looked at him the same way again. But I definitely thought he was hotter after that🔥 LOL. Much respect to him for standing up for himself against those ghetto kids provoking everybody LOL. But yeah, that definitely taught me not to underestimate anybody.