Do All Lesbians Think The Same?

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[skye]

The older woman with the shorter hair seems so sweet, I hope she finds love or just more caring partners in general

[phoebes]

How were the bisexual women not vetted out of participating in this video? And why is it so hard for people who have attraction to both sexes (even if there is a strong preference for one over the other) to admit they are bisexual? Being Bi is valid!

[_Ana]

I'll never tell someone how to identify but I just want to point out that bisexuality is still bisexuality no matter how much you may lean towards women or men.

[google-is-invasive]

This is so disappointing. Watching this video back to back after Jubilee's video.
Lesbians CAN'T fall in love with men. That isn't "comphet"! That's just attraction!
Lesbians don't find men attractive.

[HaneefaTheHaneefa]

Y’all need one with black lesbians that includes studs cause studs specifically are always left out of any conversation

[someimesIplaygames]

the girl with funky blue glasses on IS THE DEFINITION OF MY TYPE ! YOU EXIST?!😭😳😳😳

[vimeaux]

I am literally shocked at how almost everyone of them would forgive their ex if they cheated on them. I know that boundaries and definitions of cheating are different for everyone, but still I am just shocked. Cheating on someone is true disrespect in my opinion and I feel like everyone's main goal (or at least high on the list of goals) is to be respected in a relationship, so I can't imagine people just genuinely being able to accept being disrespected in that way. But that's just my opinion.

[Marta-qsmu]

Women with sunglasses and earmuffs looks so cool! I love her style 💛

[MichiGotBeats]

The girl with the curly hair & blue glasses is so pretty 😍

[Missteree]

So...shes been in love with many men but is somehow a lesbian? Girl bye. Its okay to be bisexual 🙄

[hustler]

Lesbian? Being in "LOVE" with men ??? What?? Am I hearing this right or Am I finally tripping? 😂

[hrhm]

This video really unintentionally addresses a big issue in the lesbian community which is that we can't even get a group together to talk about our experiences as lesbians because so many bisexual women just call themselves lesbians and then try to speak for us. These people are enabled by well-meaning "allies" who are too afraid of hurting their feelings or accused of being exclusionary/gatekeeping to just say "I see that you label yourself a lesbian but we'd really like to just hear from women who aren't attracted to and cannot fall in love with men." You know, the actual definition of being a lesbian.

[harundaniel]

I don’t know how to feel about adding “lesbian” women who state they like men in a romantic way…There’s a difference between experimenting and dating men in the past but then there’s, I am attracted to men. It pushes this notion that if the right guy comes by, a “lesbian” could “turn” straight. Now I have tried to in the past to please my family and society. But it was never possible. So in a way, it’s actually harmful to have individuals who fall more into the bi or other queer categories in this video. Sure it’s not okay for me to say your not a lesbian because you slept with a man or you happened to be in a loving relationship with one but if we’re being literal here, that is not a lesbian (or the definition of how one is). You can be emotionally connected to the opposite gender as a “lesbian” but in a romantic way…idk. But that’s just my opinion.

[tyfanatic]

Why put bisexual women in a lesbian video?? You didn't do this with the gay men video!

[tatsf]

Thanks for doing an episode focusing on lesbians! I'm a gay cis man but always wish that there was more lesbian representation, particularly in spaces that focus on all different subsets of the queer community. Nice to see it here, Brian!

[ACBmonkey]

I'm surprised there were so few people who don't feel included in the queer community. I often didn't feel queer enough. There are so many, you are only gay if you dress this way, talk this way, sit, act etc. And if not you must be straight. Really made me feel unaffirmed growing up and made me question if I was actually straight and just idk doing it for attention, even though I don't like attention. Also, I get needing safe spaces but you never know if someone is in the closet and your exclusion makes those spaces not safe for them.

[albatrs]

How can you be a lesbian if you have been in love with men??? Maybe you can feel some type of attraction towards them, sure, but being in love seems like a pretty big deal to me

[blaircomptons]

How can you be a lesbian and still be in love with men?

Title instead should’ve been “Do All Lesbians AND Bisexuals…”

[ryannntheo]

Interesting casting choices… including it seems like all cis women and women who have been in love w men ???

[ss-cpuy]

4:36 surprised that nobody strongly agreed. i think it plays into the lesbianism for the male gaze thing a LOT and normalizes fetishization and pretty much invalidates us especially with a lot of those titles referring to the videos as friends messing around. also like.. your sexuality being an adult film category aimed towards men sucks ass bro thats gotta stop or be evened out somehow