How To Let Him Know You Think He's Hot

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In this week's episode of LOVELife, Kathleen wants to find out how she can initiate a conversation with a guy she likes. I give her one simple line to say that will work wonders with any guy.

Video links at the end:

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[ingrid]

Even if he rejects you, everything will be fine

[AleJimenez]

Matt, I just feel we don't know each other that well, I'm Alejandra. Is just that I keep seeing this cute guy in youtube and should know more about him

[LuiKang]

Hey Matthew, as a straight guy I enjoy your videos very well. It gives me an insight into what women may try if they are interested in me, as I have been oblivious to the signs of attraction women display, mistaking it for politeness. I hope I'll finally get to understand the mysterious gender! :P

[nathaliturner]

I keep seeing you on youtube thinking, this guy is funny...and comes with really great tips haha, I'm Natalie, wish i could know more about you :D

[itstst]

Bummer if he doesn't take the bait but...rejection is inevitable sometimes. I'm doing this. 

[anewloveofficial]

If you really find him hot but is shy to tell it to him, why not say it as joke because jokes are half meant. You never know, it's your only chance of giving a subtle sign that you're attracted to him.

[charleenhopkins]

i once had a guy ask me what attracts me to a guy, i said his eyes, he asked me what i throught of his and i said not bad ....

[brookedelaney]

Matt, I feel as if we dont know enough about each other. My name is Brooke ;)

[ccverdera]

How do I contact Matthew with my question? 

[ployjh]

that's a really good opener bravo 👏

[savannahjeanne]

god, I'm trying to talk to a senior at school but I'm an INFP soo...

I never clicked so fast

[rosegarcia]

I keep seeing this love coach/guru on YouTube and I realize I know nothing about you.😍😍😍😍😍

[anonymousanonymous]

"We really don't know each other that well do we? We really need to get to know each other. I'm Kate..."
And insert somewhere "I mean I keep seeing this cute guy over there and I realise I know nothing about him"

[mikkihintikka]

no one approaches me :( thats maybe because im not existing in real life. sad but true

[MsTee]

why are you so sure he'll go for it? Isn't there a possibility he may not be attracted to her and he may not show that much interest in return, regardless of whether he knows she thinks he's cute?

[Woahhhitsmonica]

Im going though something like this. I witness this man on Facebook as a suggested friend because we have mutral friends. I added him and he accepted it. After 5 days, I messaged him that this is random but I really admired with profile picture since it looked clear, genuine and gives him a kind look. I needed to let him know that and to have a great day! He said really? Thank you so much for the kind compliment ! And I said of course.

Liked his new profile picture and he witnessed my Facebook story once. Nothing has happened ever since. I want to message him again but I don’t want to be annoying or sound desperate. I’m patiently waiting for a status I can like or picture to comment on. But I’m noticing that I’m becoming to obsessed. I haven’t met him but he gives off this look. I found him really attractive but no nothing about this guy except that he works in this modelling industry and he loves soccer.

I’m waiting patiently to have an opportunity to start a conversation. Or should I just wait for him to say something ? He hasn’t liked any of my picture or my statues. I feel that he’s simplify not interested... :/

[kaiyodei]

if I do, or a stranger. it will be "i like your face". sometimes it feels like every few years it happens. I'm not good at keeping track of time I don't go anywhere to be a regular to see the same guy, unless he has a job that I will see him frequently. I also might not recognize him out of context

[mercedeswilliams]

Has this really worked for anyone before?

[leekshikapinnamneni]

I have a similar story about a young man from my university.
I think that he is cute with a strong character a sense of humor, and is very kind.
How could I say something similar if he already knows about my blindness?
Thanks! I love your Channel.

[ViviEats]

I think this is really great!! :D Thanks Matt.