7 Tips to attract the right people socially, professionally and romantically be more approachable

Unlock the secrets to becoming irresistibly approachable with our latest video! From mastering open body language to strategic positioning at social gatherings, we unveil 7 transformative tips that will change the way others perceive you. Plus, discover how simple cues and accessories can make you a conversation magnet. Ready to transform your social presence? Dive in now!

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In this video:
00:20 - The problem: No approachable body language
00:28 - The truth: not showcasing your availability to other people
00:31 - How you can  be more approachable
00:41 - Tip #1 Have an open torso
01:05 - Tip #2 Use Croissant feet
01:17 - Tip #3 Stand where people exit getting their drink
02:05 - Tip #4 Use an eyebrow raise
02:15 - Tip #5 Wear a conversation starter
03:25 - Tip #6 Treat people like an old friend
04:04 - Tip #7 Be smile ready
04:43 - Captivate and Cues books

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[nostalgicnow]

I just have to say you are truly amazing I love you!!

[AlaskaBrandy]

I wear a dragonfly necklace at work)as a tour director) and I have my guests and complete strangers come up and comment on it. I say my friend gave it to me and also share a couple random facts about dragonflies. Works great, but I never consciously thought of this as a social tactic.

[enockmario]

Hi Vanessa. I'm an avid watcher of your YouTube videos at your Science of People YouTube channel. My primary goal is to improve my charisma and my interpersonal skills. You articulated that charisma is a combination of two essential people skills traits, warmth (being attractive, likeable and trustworthy) and competence (being dependable, capable and knowledgeable). You averred that a person is not considered charismatic if the person lacks one of the essential people skills traits. I was inquiring if you could make a YouTube video on how to be exceptionally charismatic. I would highly appreciate that. Thank you for the work you put in enabling people to improve their interpersonal skills. Your videos have played a pivotal role in arousing my interest in communication (verbal and non-verbal) and enhancing my interpersonal skills. Keep up the magnificent work.

[moonpie]

Well said Vanessa. I really needed to hear this. Looking forward to new uploads from you

[marcschafers]

Hi Vanessa, you have some great pieces of advice here. I really like the "treat strangers like old friends". That's worth it right there. You're like some kind of witch casting Raven magic, or something. 😏

[eugenetswong]

THANK YOU, Vanessa! I like these tips. They make so much sense.

[MASshah]

Thanks Vanessa, you're a savior from sky for our social life 👻

[chichidog]

thank you vanessa i watched you a long time ago. youre always beautiful. always right and simple

[silviapassosjewelry]

Love this tips! Going to start practising them right the way! Thanks!!

[rubin-healmysocialanxiety]

Great video Vanessa - attract those good vibes in 💯

[RX]

I wear a useless key in my pocket that always looks like its gonna fall out and people love to approach to save the day lol create abit of mystery

[TheNewMexicoMan]

8. Take your nose off that screen and put down your cell phone, join the real world!
9. Be present! Make eye contact and hold that gaze for a second longer than you would normally do.
10. Smile ready? A slight smirk and the look away, projects confidence and intrigue. Nothing is more attractive than that!

[HP_Quinn]

I'm a Ravenclaw too! Huge huge Harry Potter book nerd! Love learning new things, like from your content \ (•◡•) /
Thank you, Vanessa!

[yvonneh.]

My name is Yvonne, and I'm team Ravenclaw!

[allanpeter]

Can you add sections to your YouTube video.

[rupertllavore]

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[BarrengerFynar]

I successfully attracted mosquitoes...meh its better than nothing.

[KaiSosceles]

How to be approachable as a woman: Throw the entire concept out the window and approach people instead. There's no reason why women need to wait around and be rescued. Go after what you want.

[israelguerrero]

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[Cosmic_Empress]

Yikes. Harry Potter. No thanks. not gonna be that controversial in my conversation starter.