I'm 36, still single, and finally figured out why

I used to think that all I needed to do was visualize the perfect person, live a life true to myself and eventually the right lady would come along.

Boy, was that wrong.

Find out what I discovered about myself and my "attachment type" in this video.


0:00 Introduction
0:01 36 AND STILL SINGLE
1:18 THE CONVENTIONAL APPROACH
1:26 THE "LAW OF ATTRACTION"
1:44 ATTACHMENT THEORY
4:30 THE SECURE TYPE
7:11 THE "AVOIDANT" TYPE
8:48 THE ANXIOUS-AVOIDANT TYPE

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[CoffeeBreakHQ]

Because being single is not a problem. Not knowing how to be alone is.

[MrKrushgutz]

The worst part of being single is when your family members constantly question you why you’re not married with kids🤦‍♂️. They even give you advice that you didn’t ask for.

[Plysdyret]

I'm 44, single for almost 19 years. It's no problem, I think I'm going to stay that way the rest of my life!

[maddgun]

Just turned 38 and single. Most of my guy friends are stuck in misearble marriagies or divorced with kids, custody battles/alimony etc. The grass is always greener. I'm not settling down unless I meet an my absulute queen, 10/10 in all categories

[risinggamer]

Single and lonely is the new normal in today's era. All the best .

[victory]

For me being single is NOT problem, but to others it seems to be very big problem!

[pablov]

Being single and poor is an absolute nightmare, I feel trapped in a cage, you hear all these advises about enjoying your time and freedom to travel, practice hobbies, meet new people but the problem here is you need money to do those things.

[evrik]

Maybe you're single because you're not stupid.

[minbannister]

It's because you can't get to the point!

[m_m_m_m_m_m_m_m_m_m_m]

I also know why I'm single... Because I love my life! :)

Don't want to ruin it just yet...

[cuttimekeyc]

Am 28 single and so scared of falling into arms of a lousy person, I love myself so much, I dont want to be messed up, its weird

[OmniaAYR]

39 & still single here. Spent most of my adult life being single. Interesting view on personal responsibility and types etc.

[readmycomment]

Aaarrghh! I’m not sure. I’m also 36, single and have been single for most of my adult life. I thought the same as you - be happy and the person will come (this is also reinforced by friends, family and everyone else). I very much want a parter, but I’m also pretty comfortable alone and it takes a lot of effort to date. Thanks. I’m going to do some reading and research.

[universehasourback]

I am 32 . I feel 22. I look 25. Energy level is 30. I m getting good options. I am happy. I m improving month by month. I m attracting better every month. I look better than i looked a decade back. I carry myself better. I can afford better. Life is rocking. I avoid drinking and partying. I have a friend circle a big one. But i hardly meet them cuz i m so busy with myself and watching such videos :p

[chadguindon]

I'm currently 36 and still single. I am actually proud of it and wouldn't change it for a thing.

[dannym]

I'm 27 and single and I've had a few girlfriends. Being in a relationship just isn't as good as you think it would be.

[edgehodl]

I'm 36 and single also, best decision ever!!

[sinawasiq]

Omg I thought I am alone at age 36 still single never met anyone, but you guys made my decision stronger than ever before. I will go on like free man. Come on guys single life is full of enjoyment.

[jonnyronnyguy]

I'm 30 and I have only had one relationship that went for a year. I found myself emotionally suffocating and subsequently my confidence dwindled as my ex towards the end of the relationship started micromanaging everything I was doing until she got me at the breaking point where I called it off. The only advice I have to say is that it is better to be single than be with someone who is possessive.

[realthing]

I'm also 36, still single and been single most of my life. Well it's hard to figure out life. But the point is that i had so much disappointments that i finally evolved as the anxious avoidant person. And no matter how hard I tried to find someone, if the vibe isn't there, you can't do anything about it. It doesn't depend on you. It's there or it's not. It also has a lot to do with modern day society, this technology distract us too much. It's like there's lesser and lesser place for love these days. It's also because of the dating apps, all this abundance of pple, and the fear of missing out. Well it's a big pile of reasons, most of them we don't even realize. Thanks for the vid. :)