Why Being Ignored is SO Deeply Triggering

WHY BEING IGNORED IS SO DEEPLY TRIGGERING // In this video I will explain why being ignored is so deeply triggering. Why it leads to signs and symptoms of ptsd, cptsd, which I talk a lot about in other videos. Why it triggers you so much to be ignored and why being ignored by others hurts so bad. Wondering if you suffer from those labels why being ignored triggers your trauma symptoms? Being ignored and cptsd go together unfortunately as the inner subconscious and emotional wounds are expressed when you feel or believe you’re being ignored. There are many subconscious things you do that make others ignore you but more importantly, the impact that being ignored has on you changes everything you do. It alters your perception and relationship with everything. Ready to heal from the real reasons why being ignored hurts so much and understand why you’re so easily triggered by being ignored?

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DISCLAIMER: Any information or advice I give is purely based on my own experience and research as well as the methods utilized in Transformational Healing, Rapid Transformational Therapy, and hypnosis sessions and is used to get to the root cause of any issue, and is not for everyone. There is no guarantee on specific results or outcomes from services as there are many variables that will impact your success. I am not a doctor or licensed medical provider and always encourage you to work with your doctor for your medical care. If you are life threatening situation or contemplating self-harm, suicide, please seek appropriate medical and professional help.

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[sarahpacaro]

AHHH ---- Tired of feeling like everything in your life is being ruined and everyone is ignoring you? Ready to transform your world and breakthrough those inner limiting beliefs & transform those triggers? Let's connect at www.re-write-your-life.com

[nope]

Hey, I just found this video after a moment of desperation, putting "how to deal with feeling ignored" in the search bar. I think you've completely changed my life. Every single thing that was talked about here, hit so hard and resonated so deeply with me. I have a huge gaping "ignoring wound" that's been here for so long, it seeps into every aspect of my life. It's the core issue. Thank you, for showing me.

[Crimsonking]

I hate when someone I try to talk to tells me "I'm listening" but they really aren't.

[MelissaGarza]

Core wound of being ignored too here. My brother is disabled and siblings of disabled are known as glass children. We are used to
People looking through us. Love feels like being ignored. Super tough to get through healing on this. The story resonates.

[rebeccaurban]

Thank you so much for posting this. I’m really benefiting from them. I only just found your YouTube channel about a week ago. I almost feel like that man’s story is my own (though with some minor changes). Keep up the good work.

[Seeyatellite]

Thank you for this insight. I'm grateful to have found your account. I've watched a few of your videos and I greatly appreciate you... there's something in this one which landed with me in a way I resent... in terms of yelling, my father used to bait conversations and slowly raise his voice until he got an emotional reaction from people like mom and I then immediately switch to monotone, telling us we're "acting crazy" or "I won't talk to you yelling at me."

I personally picked up a few of his "tactics" for accomplishing things or scaring people... feeling heard and in control... and it's taken many years of self-work to realize there are so many more wonderful ways of connecting and empathizing with people. To be heard is a human need. To be understood and acknowledged... is wonderful and liberating.

Thank you for this. I hope channels like yours can help heal society's collective traumas.

[danpp]

I had a revelation and this video just make it more cleared to me. Thank you

[senkachitra]

Can't believe I discovered such a profound channel! Good job, thank you.

[catheriner]

This is why I feel like everyone should be taught to heal before getting into serious relationships, marriage and especially kids. I’m glad that the person being talked about has healed but I think a lot of additional wounds to others can be prevented by being self aware and knowing how common it is to become emotionally abusive in the situation. Its an explanation not an excuse for sure 😊❤

[Bethesda-angel]

I get very triggered when ignored and I will walk away or push or raise my voice.

The real issue is that my behavior has told others it’s ok if they ignore me. I give and give and they take and take, so they see me as someone they can use and walk on. They see me as less than when my giving is simply trying to matter.

But when I stop giving, there’s nothing left. They didn’t care to start so there’s no relationship, no foundation.

This is the real challenge for me.

[JL.]

I think the best way to deal with being ignored is to realise these people are giving you the best ammunition...

[sholjas]

That's a beautiful way to help understand this topic. Thank you very much 💐🙋‍♀️☯️

[janes.mclean]

My female cousin used to call me on Thanksgiving. This year (2023) she didn’t call me. It is Christmas Eve night, 2023. & She has not called me, has not texted me, and has not sent me a Christmas I am not a priority to her as I have less money than she does.

I think she is what they call a Communal Narcissist, because she is Extremely Focused on impressing the members of her non-profit groups because she gets Praise and Acknowledgment for doing good In Public. But she does not get any Society credit if she behaves considerately toward me.

She calls me on the phone and talks for an hour when She is lonely and her other friends are busy.

[chelsey]

I cant think of anything from my childhood that has made me this way and i wish i could so i can fix myself

[ottery]

I saw my neighbors right next to our fence looking towards my yard. I called out to see what was happening and they ignored me. So then I asked if everything was ok and they ignored me. So I walked over to see what was up. Said hello. Asked what was up and they ignored me. I saw they were picking up trash. Their dog had tore my trash up through the fence. So I moved it. They continued to ignore me. I said something along the lines of a narration. I think they took it as an apology but by then they had already offended me.
They said “ it’s fine”
I said, “ I know it’s fine. It was your dog that tore up my trash.” And then I told them I was offended by their “ shyness” and walked away.

This really shouldn’t bother me. But I am bothered. And maybe it was my fault they tore up my trash. My dogs don’t tear it up. And their dogs seem to all the time.
I think a lot of what offended me was the embarrassment I felt for being ignored.
So here I am. Trying to understand why they would ignore me and how to get over it.

[johnjohnstone]

I Used To Hate Being Ignored Made Me Feel Bad. But Now I Find Other People's Desire To Be Seen Triggering. Definitely Wounded Here. The Intergenerational Trauma Cycle Is Complete. I Got A Bad Feeling About This (Relationships In General).

[KP-detd]

The example given in this video wasn't helpful for me. I already know what my triggers are and where it came from. Just having the awareness of a trigger doesn't change anything. What I want to know is how to stop getting triggered.

[zion]

Idk.. I have some people who intentionally write a lame text like goodmorning and when I respond they ignore it for half a day. Im done with these silly games and people who are intentionally trying to mess with my emotions.