Why Most Men Struggle In Dating (Easiest Explanation)

In this video I explain why most men struggle in dating with modern women. Many men are frustrated when it comes to successful dating and my goal with this video is to help you use female nature to your advantage, so you don't waste your time dating women.

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[marcuslong]

If you are a provider type, and want learn to set boundaries - If you give the woman pushback in the beginning, she will react in one of two ways.

1. She will backpedal (meaning her independent, empowered persona was just an act), if she back pedals than she actually likes you.

2. She will become meaner or ghost (meaning she is only interested in using you, and telling a man what to do)

This is how you get a woman to reveal her cards bc at the end of the day we just want ppl to be HONEST about their intentions. You have to set boundaries.

[constablekennedy]

Most Fellas are not Chad, Tyrone, Julio or Abdul so we are faced with taking Leftovers which is a Turn Off for most … 🤷🏿‍♂️

[ashleycharleslouw]

The lover knows that women are only around for a good time and not a long time, and therefore acts accordingly.

[michaelfeghali]

Don't worry boys there days are always numberd, and never forget, as long as you keep working hard you'll always have an opportunity to grow as a person👋👍👍

[danielsnook]

Stop paying for dates!! Make them give sex first!! Spending money on them should only occur after you 'choose' them to be your girl. Don't pay for multiple dates only to find out that they are a lousy lay!!!

[SDtraining]

I always got the best results in terms of dating, when i did not cared at all!

[TheRedDevil_NC]

Your confidence has grown since your first video and it shows, we needed young men like you to help us see things 20-30 years ago. You youngsters need to send Lonnie a donation for what he does for you. Great job young blood

[abdilie]

A big bow to you, Lonny! I remember when you started your channel. Compared to then you are now a professor, Young Kings!!! You better listen to HIM.

[keithwalters]

This channel is so dope bro, I love these whiteboard videos, class is in session, let’s go

[ajxx]

they don't care about you as a person, they want what you give to them or the way you make them feel, their "love" is conditional and artificial most of the times

[KahKiatTan]

Be a redpill man, then you will get out of this shit cycle for good with peace and purpose for your life.

[darthnexus]

I feel like when I watch your videos I'm back in school, but it's a cool thing, I actually want to learn this...

[JediDarkForce]

Little bit of her attention and bedroom fun - that's what they are able to give you. Nothing more. Is it worth it guys???
NO!!!

[michaelfeghali]

A never ending cycle of evolution, get it ? KEEP UP THE GRIND GENTELMEN👋👍👍👑👊✊

[markstansbury]

Women didn't flip anything. They have been the same since the 2nd oldest profession. It is an old game and you'd be a fool of a frog if you stay in the pot.

[matchhunter]

The lover pays with the most valuable which is TIME !! I pay with the cheapest which is $. Money can be made again. Time you NEVER get back.

[matchhunter]

I really do not care what women want. Legs get open for $. So i chase $ which in turn gives me access to P..

[willdcanfly]

One more thing; as a 42 yr old man who looks 30 and can still pull 22 yr olds, I can tell you from experience that getting sexually aggressive right away to find out if they view you as a lover or provider is not always the best idea.

I don't know exactly how soon you're talking here, but the way you mention it seems like before you've even been out with them you're telling men to try and be sexually aggressive. Not sure if that means bang them or just fool around, but either way, it's not the best advice imo.

A woman can totally view you as sexually desirable and a "lover" and still not want to bang you immediately upon meeting. Some women just take longer to open up sexually, it doesn't mean bc you cant get sexually aggressive with her right away that she views you as a "provider" and therefore sexually unfit and you should just move on.

I want to keep the comment short but ill say this last thing; from a guy living in the NYC area with the toughest women in the world and I've had em all, most of what's being said here has gray areas.

Yes the "lover" and "provider" dynamic is true to a degree, but all of this is case by case basis, and has gray areas in between.

Not EVERY hot girl even in their prime will ALWAYS just want a lover. Some women even from an early age like stabity and security. Which is my next point, you can be a sexually attractive "provider."

Ofc every guy know you cant be a full fledged simp, but you can be a stable, hard working guy who prefers time at home and still make girls have dripping wet panties. I've been through various phases in my life, the "lover" when I was younger, more of the "provider" as I got into my mid 30s and up, and I've never failed to get girls panties wet.

I like Lonnie, I think he's doing great things for men, bc bottom line is women will crush your soul if you're not careful and it can happen to the best of us. There are plenty of evil ones out there, and yes, hypergamy is real asf. Just know that these are not all black and white concepts, there's plenty of gray area. Yes women have some traits common among the gender, but there are also differences in them. Just like guys have certain common traits among all men but we're not all the same.

Love and light my brothers.

[thetraditionalist]

The real reason is because of the 90/10 rule combined with unrealistic expectations from women and no standards from men. It creates a toxic environment where only Chads and Tyrones have a chance so being a beta is not only bad but impossible. There is really only one choice here, either you become alpha or lose out

[unvaccinatedmensclub]

I prefer Mode 1, Alan Roger Currie. Don’t waste any time.