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[C]

i use gaming as a coping mechanism for being alive

[Vgamer]

What defines an addiction isn’t the number of hours, it’s the impact on your life.

Edit: guys, this is not just some flowery quote i made up nor is it an opinion, this is literally central to how both the American Psychiatric Association and Websters Dictionary DEFINE addiction. There is not a debate, if you “disagree” with this then you are flat-out objectively wrong.

[rob.carrillo]

A friend of mine used to say, "have three hobbies. One that keeps you paid, one that keeps you in shape, and one that keeps you happy."

[Big-boned_Pikachu]

I've been on both sides of the coin. Sometimes, even when I was doing everything I was supposed to, life just kinda throws you a curveball, and gaming is your only escape. But it still feels bad, you know? It's tough out there. I hope ChewyTasty is doing alright

[sarougeau]

That was a realization I had in my mid 20s. I wasn't depressed or anything, but I noticed that I never really went out and did things outside the house besides work and errands. I was playing Chivalry and somehow came across the topic of historical fencing and went down a rabbit hole. Lo and behold, I find out there's a group in my area that actually offers lessons. They're all nerds like me and 5 years later I've got myself a new friend group and weekly hobby, and the exercise certainly helped too.

[keithstone]

"Most importantly, you're taking care of your responsibilities and dependents". I'll stick by that. My social life sucks, but I'm happy enough to chill with bros on discord.
Work full time, don't skip out on your job or school, just to play video games, and you're golden bois.

[Orlyy]

It's pure escapism for me. It allows me to temporarily remove myself from the feeling of inevitably dying.

[StinkyCraig]

for me, when i used to have an issue with games, i’d be on a nice vacation or out for dinner with my friends or family, and all i seemed to want to do was play video games, so i acted distant or irritated when i should’ve been enjoying myself and showing my gratitude. the one thing that’s helped me a lot, getting over that hill, was genuinely and verbally asking my dawgs for help, or guidance. they would ask to hang out more or say something when they saw i was on for too long. too many people seem to feel as if it’s embarrassing or uncomfortable to ask for help but i promise you it is the complete opposite.

[TVFreak]

We used to watch Coh all the way back before the pandemic when we were young married twenty somethings. My husband had lost his job and we had just had a baby (about the same age as Coh’s firstborn). Coh’s postive atmosphere and wisdom helped keep the mood stable in our house. We are doing great now! Had another baby, husband got a great job and we bought our own house! We don’t have a lot of time to watch Coh anymore but I highly recommend him to anyone!

[pythonxz]

I know plenty of people that are addicted to work. Like they literally don't know what to do with themselves if they have time off.

[cosmiccaliber]

Absolutely well put. I’ve realized this over the decades of being a gamer, so now when people tell me I have a problem, I tell them no, I take care of all my responsibilities and then play my game LOL

[silentservant_]

I love Cohh’s wisdom checks. It’s great that he does that because of so many younger viewers out there that sometimes and sadly many times don’t have someone to learn from.

[jadepiedra]

I have a 3 year old daughter and I'm a stray at home Mom and I always game it early morning before she wakes and then after an hour or two I do everything I need for the whole day. And next morning I play my games again. I was an on and off again drug addict for a while and since bring 4 years sober I really fell in love with gaming and that's something I've made sure to do EVERY MORNING cause it's just something I love to do.

[DrasticSkuba]

Accurate and well-articulated. I think we've all had at least one time where we've sat and thought, "I should really turn this off and (do the dishes/ do my homework/ write that report/ walk the dog/ apply for a job)", or something like that, with games. For me, beyond the simple enjoyment of the game itself, I enjoy my little escape from the reality of life. For the time I'm playing a game I like, the weight of the world lifts off of my shoulders. For some people, it's hard to put down the game knowing you will have to carry that weight again.

Take care of your mental wellbeing, everyone. Reach out to family, friends, or Cohh's amazing community if you feel down. If it's serious, there's nothing wrong with seeking more professional help. Your mental health is just as important as your physical health. Best of vibes to you, everyone

[sabonesjones]

I'm almost 40 and will always be a gamer. I honestly have no friends in real life. Addiction ruined that and I decided to just be friendless bc honestly it's hard to trust ppl nowadays. Point being I started playing helldivers 2 when it released last year in February. Still playing it today and am happy to say I've made many good friends on there that I play with daily. And speak to on personal levels each day as well. They're my age, and I feel that's where I get my social interaction from. I don't go to bars, I don't go out to eat. I work and come home to the dogs. Maybe one day I'll meet a girl that games as well. Considering I'm divorced, there's a few girls I play with in game also. We live in the age where there's girl gamers everywhere so I'm sure I'll find one down the road. But for now I'm content. So what he said is true, if you aren't getting your social interactions in game then there's a problem. It's good to have them outside of gaming as well. But if inside games is the only interaction you have, I feel that's ok too.

[universal_wisdom]

To be fair, if it wasn’t so damn difficult to meet people and socialize after high school. I don’t think I’d have a gaming problem. It wasn’t nearly as bad when I was in school and had friends and responsibilities in school. I’d always choose hanging out with people over video games. Now I just don’t have options like that to choose from.

[Digzitify]

I've been on both sides. During my depression years, it was the onpy thing to keep me sane. But it came to a point where I just realised it led me nowhere. So what I did was I didn't quit it as a hobby, but I spent less time with it. I worked on spending time away from it, as if I was working and doing something important. It kind of tricked my mindset into being more productive. And so it actually led me to get an amazing job now, and I can still do a lot of gaming and do my job with a perfect balance.

[pumpkingamebox]

“Addiction is the progressive narrowing of the things you enjoy until there’s only one. Happiness is collecting more things to be happy about.” - paraphrased from someone I don’t remember.

Edit, for clarification: Addiction constricts, while happiness expands. It’s a reminder to keep exploring new joys rather than getting stuck in a loop.

[gmstrbert]

Could not have possibly said it better myself. Good man!

[loydelipe]

Gaming has always been a part of my life ever since the first game I beat. It was telltales TWD I had a minor fascination with zombies at 8 they were and still are the coolest thing to me. Gaming has always been there for me, I had a tough upbringing and an even tougher 15-19 where I was used and I couldn’t really find myself. I too am 20 and I can say to this young brother keep going and do not give up, it’s a lot better than to keep going while giving up.