The Narcissists' Code 443- Narcissists will mirror you and try to replace you in your own life

Narcissists will mirror you and try to replace you in your own life and in your friend group.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

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[pocahontas]

I feel like the mirroring is one of the most tell-tale signs you’re dealing with a narcissist. To me that was what separated the narcissist from just a general “jerk”. It’s also almost creepy.

[strangechange_]

They'll do that and then say that youre trying to copy them!🙄😒

[daringgreatly]

They will hijack your friend group and kick you out. This has happened to me my entire life. They act like wounded animals. Being empathetic I see them lonely and include them. They change into these confident arrogant people and off they go with my friends. Started it elementary school. Didn’t understand it until now in my 30s.

[sgtmuffinbadger]

Yeah mine stole my identity basically. The way I dress . My hobbies. My music tastes. The food I love. My lingo. These creatures are evil

[florindawilliams]

I could write a book about this. My life with my ex was literally the movie Single White Female.

[dkorb]

They’ll keep pointing out similarities and then show them to you. Mine was obsessed with my “character flaws” at the end. She couldn’t be around someone that had those flaws. So she cut me out of her life

[TinaMarieJ]

I always noticed he would pick up on anything I enjoyed, did or worked towards. Weird thing is that he’ll give me hell for enjoying or being into something and then a year or 2 later all a sudden HE’s into it too! All a sudden there’s no more criticizing me because not it’s OKAY now that HE is into it too.😒

[Jess-knvl]

I had a "friend" like this, she was the girlfriend of my husbands friend so maybe she was like a forced acquaintance. Anyway, she got to know my sister, friends and sisters friends and neighbor and then smeared me. Took years to cut her off and everyone who didn't see it. She was also one of the people that would criticize my ideas then copy them like it was her idea. It was strange.

[butterfly]

I experienced this with someone recently. Boy were they pissed when I stopped affiliating with them. They thought they were getting a new supply and boy oh boy they couldn't have been more wrong.

[JupGem]

This discussion really centers around : SELF AUTONOMY, ~having Sovereignty over your own self. No one else!

[SherriD-of]

Mine whines that I make friends so easily and he just doesn’t have the same opportunities. I used to feel sorry and try to help: now I just say uh huh and only engage in a minimal way.

[johnjohnstone]

I Wish There Was More Material On This Topic Been Happening To Me All My Life. The Most Distressing And Difficult To Deal With Aspect Of Narcissism. Yet I Find I'm Unable To Deal With It On Account Of I'm Still In Shock.

[ashleyscott]

The Truth Thanks bro. For your Honesty
God bless You🥰❤️

[LT]

I’m just watching this I’m from New Orleans and my husband his sister and other people that I knew that was a friend started talking like me I can’t stand people like that So aggravating I don’t like copycats Bruh at all

[LisLara]

Dating apps are a minefield of narcs ...

[Best_Kept_Secret]

Ok... saw you back and was like why... now I'm glad you're back. Thanks for the knowledge.

[laurabriscoe]

I worked as an office manager during our relationship (he hated that), and my ex started showing up in my office whenever the company director was there, to try and befriend him. He'd hang out with my (equally narcissistic) sister behind my back, called my ex boyfriend trying to be friends and dig up dirt on me. He tried *everything*. To no luck in the end, besides my jealous sister who joined him in trying to ruin me. Your videos talk about my life with this person!

[AngelPyra]

Hm... I used to do a lot of mirroring as a defense mechanism because I was taught... "1st treat people how you want to be treated and then treat them how they treat you." I would copy a few mannerisms here and there of people I respected but never went out of my way to drive anyone out of their own lives. Is this possibly from interacting with a lot of narcissist types in my younger years? I never thought it was weird until I read these comments and realized most people don't mirror others to fit in, compliment, or bond. I'm like, "... Hold up a second..." I don't really assume I'm 1 but I know I've interacted with several and maybe picked up a pattern or few along the way as a coping/survival thing and my brain never really processed it was a bad thing and nobody has ever called me out on it. I also have severe social anxiety, though, so I always assumed it had more to do with that. I used to straight up partially disassociate from myself. Like I would imagine how I'd be if I had healed from or never had PTSD, social anxiety, depression, autism, or genetic health conditions. And that would be my public meet new people face until mutual trust was established. Like I would not outright lie if asked but usually didn't like offering much because I'd seen how bad others were treated for having just 1 of the above. My past was still my past. I just didn't really offer it because I didn't want to accidentally create a whole new personality by lying but didn't want to vulnerability of being wide open. I try not to anymore because I started being more concerned about accidentally getting a split personality... But like... Is this normal for people who dealt with narcissistic people in formative years?

[kaleenawyatt]

It's been 4 years, this time around, same guy. Years ago we dated, I ended it, and he's been back for 4 now. In and out, back and forth. I want him to just be real. And I feel he's on the verge. What made you top over the hill? What made you recognize? Why can't he?

[brendaleverick]

I remember seeing a movie about this years ago starring Bridget Fonda. She played a young woman who had a female roommate who started dressing like her, cut and colored her hair like her, started making moves on her boyfriend. Towards the end, the roommate tried to force her to commit suicide and made her write a suicide note. But Bridget wound up killing her instead. I never knew back then that the movie was based on narcissism. I'd never even heard of narcissism back then. I recall when my brother's first wife ( who wound up divorcing him and moved in with my parents) took my parents' affection away from me! I could never understand why my parents let her move in with them after she divorced my brother!