POV: Double Standards (girl version) part 2…

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[maxwellgrimsley]

Bro I didn’t even think about the dad bod mom bod comparison but you’re SO right wtf

[DayDreaminDIYDias]

Omg the mom postpartum/early motherhood body and the dad bod I SWEAR ITS SO UNFAIR. Thank you for raising awareness for that.

[desperateforchange]

We're not even gonna talk about how EXPENSIVE period products are😭

[mochi-dragon]

lets be honest... the only people that get distracted by sholders are the teachers.

[FatoumVivaceoRobledo]

Fr Pink tax is so annoying, JUST LET ME BUY MY DAMN SHAMPOO WITHOUT ME HAVING TO GO BROKE 😭😭😭

[dakarai]

Once when I was at High school( I was the only guy in the class)a teacher pointed at the girl sitted next to me and yelled: “ Cover your shoulders!!! You’re distracting your classmate!”
I stood up and replied “I’m gay, miss. And my shoulders are not covered too”
She was speechless

[shijufied]

This is why I loved my dad sm, he literally dropped this sentence infront of my mom: "our child doesn't deserve my last name, it should have your's instead. It's as beautiful as you."

Like... that was so sweet of him. He was such a sweetheart, he always tried to make everyone happy and tried to make me laugh as a baby all the time 😭

We all need ppl like him ngl

[QueenSkylarFrost]

This is so true!! Once when I was in class the shirt I was wearing fell down, exposing my bra strap and my shoulder. I got in trouble by the teacher for breaking dress code when I didn't even realize it happened. She said that I'm being a distraction and to go change into my gym shirt. I had to go change and got a tardy because of a freaking accident.

[Blackpinklife]

Trust me if a boy is drooling over a girl's shoulder he fr needs therapy and help
Edit : Thanks for the likes 👍 😊

[ShadwMlkCooki.knni]

Thank you, Clara, you make us all feel like we’re not alone 🥰🥰

[Meeeeeee]

Why is everything like that soooo true woman are treated so bad.

[morganpampuch]

I'm a mom. The first 3 years I struggled. I was 180lb before pregnancy. Ended up at 225lb by the end which was fine. Until after I gave birth. And it had been 6 months and I wasn't losing weight. I was only gaining. My highest was at 250. Turns out my thyroid had slowed down and it makes it insanely hard to lose weight. Got medication for it.. and started losing. Within a year and a half I had finally dropped the 80lbs. But the whole time I had my family telling me I still looked "puffy" and my face/chin was always looking bigger and with the postpartum and all the shit my family kept saying and asking like why I was still so big was killing me. Ended up making the postpartum depression so much worse and I ended up on several medications at very high strengths. I was taking a minimum of 8 different pills a day. STOP TELLING MOMS THEY NEED TO LOSE THE BABY be fucking supportive sometimes there's other shit medically imbalanced that makes Weight loss nearly impossible. Or yknow they're busy taking care of the fricken little human being they just destroyed their body in order to bring into this world! All those months are havoc on your body and after birth it doesn't just magically all go away and get better! Keep your mouth shut if you're going to shame them for baby weight. You have no idea what is going on mentally or physically and have no room to say a fricken word to them. And have no idea the amount of harm your little comments might do

Rant over sorry.

[ur_fav_loser]

no one should ever be treated differently because of their gender or anything

[Um_guyss]

She deserves way more subs for all that she went through!

[Mixcuri]

"Women are supposed to do that.. I'll never change my name for a woman"
Toji : It might seem crazy what I'm boutta say....

[Personwhoisapersonn]

Every girl in my family (sans grandmas) have kept their maiden name and i fully intend to do the same :) no one should have to feel pressured to change their name. The legal age to marry (most places) is 18. That means you've hat that name for AT LEAST 18 years! It would be weird to suddenly change it.

Of course i understand if people want to do it to feel closer to their spouse but you should never feel pressured to

[lolmfs]

A lot of men say they'd leave their gfs when they gain weight
And majority of men abandons their wives when they get sick (cancer/brea cancer)

[iman]

the dad bod one is so real because why is there not even a term for a “mom bod” because women always have to be thin and desirable even when they’re the ones that have pushed out a whole child and are usually expected to be the baby’s primary caregiver (spend all their time with the baby). i’m not saying men don’t struggle as dads ofc they do but it’s crazy that the parent that literally gave birth is expected to just “bounce back” to how she looked before

[T.C.TA.]

We should all be treated all equally and no double standards
Cuz without them life would be like a movie!
Edit : double standards is when a gender is treated better than the other in a certain situations

[Anahita-jg]

People really need to raise more awareness of this. Thank you Clara