If you are a SHY person, you need to watch this video! Free Yourself From the Shackles of Shyness!

In this video I am sharing on the root cause of shyness and how to deal with it once and for all.

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[patrickbilai]

I was stuttering and hard of hearing and the worst thing shyness controlled my life, we started a soup kitchen on the side of the road feeding the hungry, l remember a lots kids were coming and thats how l started to be open with the kids, reading bible stories, in the midst of that God heals me of my stuttering and my ears started to hear properly, l gained confidence through just feeding the children, and today lm teaching some skills to women who are unemployed in our community l have also started businesses of selling used clothes and furniture, lm still feeding the kids in the local community also, the bondage has been broken through touching other people's people s lives

[ikyo]

To me the solution to shyness is knowledge, when a person is well informed, shy cannot survive, it becomes very surmountable..

[martow]

There's a difference between shyness and introversion. Introverts just love spending time alone. Not that they don't like people but they draw lot of energy from introspection and self reflection which can only be done when alone.
Shyness is when you judge yourself before others judges you. You're afraid of how others will think of you if you express or behave in a certain way. It worsen when you're an overthinker which can lead to anxiety and even depression This mostly happens to people who undergone toxic parenthood between ages 3- 8 which is the age when a human psychological structure is formed.
To break free you first need to accept your current situation, it's okay to be that way but you need to change.. set boundaries and always know you're only responsible on the way you express yourself but how others think of it, or react to it is none of business. You don't have to be perfect, just express your feelings it's very liberating, whatever it is, anger, love, dissatisfaction. People are attracted to those who express themselves genuinely not those who hold on to their feelings just to impress others.

Take a deep breathe when your mind start stressing then face your situation head on.
Constantly write down your thoughts and feelings it really helps into bringing out what is held in your heart and mind. I know this sounds like another self help Google shit, but that stuff works. I was also a nerdy and shy little kid but once I realized how toxic parenthood had damaged my psychological make up I started a detox by taking some of the above measures and I'm free now.
You're the most amazing being in the galaxy. You're unstoppable, only you who can stop you, you only have power over what is happening within you not what is happening around you, you can't control that.

[Lilcutiesnmomma]

If you were once a shy person, you would understand what she's saying

[oladunjoyepraise]

Confidence is everything, I realized this and I am actively trying to bring myself out of it. I can say for free that Shyness has 0 benefit, no single gain of being shy. I have wasted so many years in this, it is well.

[Itsnotmeat_all]

It’s not easy to come out of it…I broke in tears when i realized i had missed so much in life

[ije-ibe]

I grew up a very shy, timid and unexpressive lady due to some of the reasons you stated.
It affected me badly and made me loose series of opportunities.
In addition to the reasons you mentioned, I was also not comfortable with my body as a female compared to others my age..
I have a very small stature which affected my body development in the right areas
I always feel shy and unsafe around other females most especially in a gathering.
The feeling of not been good enough and maybe ugly clouded me so much
I always feel like the odd one in the midst of others
I am still going through this but probably not as bad as it was while growing up
In all sincerity I was crying while listening to you and still crying because you're absolutely right about all you said

[IdeeIsang]

My mum used to tell me ‘behave yourself you don’t know who’s watching and would start talking’ that really made me to be so self conscious especially in public like I should be at my best behavior at all times

[katekate]

Not all introverts are shy. People think I'm shy and timid until we have a conversation and they are shocked. I won't go out of my way to talk to you or give welcoming smiles but you'll definitely have a memorable conversation with me and meet a very interesting, chatty and well informed person beneath the quietness. If you have a lot to offer and you're a deep thinker you'll be okay with being quiet, it doesn't mean you're shy and if you give a lot of value when you speak you won't be eager to talk a lot.

[Kof_Believer]

Most of the African countries do not have classroom presentations in the primary schools. This is one of the ways to kill shyness in its infancy.

[patiencebakare]

For me. I am shy because I dont feel intelligent enough to contribute to whatever is been communicated so i just withdraw and allow every other person do the talking. Truth is i was a talkative while growing up.

[AwesomeGod]

I broke down watching this. Everything you spoke about speaks to me. You are lucky to have figured this out earlier on in your life. I'm in my ealy 30's and I still have this shyness fully, it chokes me every second. I'm in a phase where I'm constantly working on unlocking myself but it is the hardest thing to do. I literary have no major friend, can't initiate friendship nor sustain them and I feel so socially awkward. I also realise that I attract men who are like me, currently dating one whose shyness is on a higher level than mine but I'm still holding on because it is even more difficult to get a 'hello' from anyone. This is hard and it's worst than a sickness. I don't wish this kind of upbringing on anyone. I'm so happy I came across your video today. Feels like therapy but undoing everything at this stage is tough.

[manzikentertainment]

The moment you said"I watched opportunities pass by me", I realized that I'm the one you are talking to

[CynthiaAmoah-larbi]

I am over 50 years now and still timid and shy person I want to come out of it. Very happy to watch this vidoe today. I wnt to be able to talk to people due to my work now.

[nelo_xo]

This is so relatable. From being raised by overly strict dad, to having hormonal acne and all, I think I went from an extremely bold little girl to an easily intimidated adult.

[AbimbadeEsther]

Winnie this is me you are talking about, I know you are talking about yourself but I see myself in the picture but am working Soo hard to be better person. Thank you so much it. Much love

[nancylakot]

Parents need to encourage their children who are shy. I do that with my daughter. She is shy too & now trying out school activities & keeps getting beta. Thanks for this. ❤❤

[uchechiezeanowayi]

I am an introvert, people often mistake me for being shy and withdrawn, but when I handle the mic to speak at a function or engage some one in a conversation they are blown away. Though I grew up with a strict Dad, I have learned to be reserved and speak at the right time. It helps me think and plan and also earn respect too. I am also a born leader

[nwokejifaith]

I was scolded for talking a lot. As the last child, my elder siblings will always scold me for engaging in their conversations whenever they’re talking. They’ll tell me that my mates are not there so I shouldn’t get involved. This has really dealt with my communication and social life.

[princegyamfi]

My parents are over protective on me so I Don't go out to socialised with people but am grateful for your words. Thank you