When she loses attraction, how to attract her again

Don't chase her and avoid women that are always hot and cold with you.

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Hi my name is Lloyd and I used to be a guy who had absolutely no luck with women. I had a much easier time with doing physics and playing sports. They made sense and people, especially women, just confused me. However after years of putting myself into uncomfortable social situations I finally began dating the women I wanted to date and found out that most of what I thought before wasn't what actually made men successful.

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[TheSingleGuy]

I also find a lot of guys start to act needy once they find out a girl likes them.

[HoffyRS]

You just gotta have the “at one point in my life i didnt know this girl and i was completely fine” mindset.

[ixplain]

If she loses attraction then just move on and look for other Options. If you cant forget about her then that is an indicator for a lack of selfworth and selflove. Trust me if a Women wants you then she will make the obvious signs and be easygoing for you.

[austins]

The best advice with a girl who isn't showing interest is to do the same thing to them. We have a short life to live and shouldn't spend it worrying about people who aren't interested in us. Take control of your life and have confidence that everything will fall into place.

[johng]

The fastest way to re-attract a girl is to completely disappear from her life. She backs away, you back away twice as hard. Two can play that game.

[wandersonbarros]

When we love we care... If you care for someone and that person doesn't appreciate that, VANISH! That person doesn't deserve you!

[titoslounge]

Damn dude your hair looks way better like this.

[rickmuc]

Happened to me, worried a lot, was sad, really got to me. Now I met someone new and she is interested. It seems that she is like genuinely interested in me, my life and what I care about.
My advice would be: always try to pursue in the beginning and if you notice that she stops texting/responding, that she is "being strange" and all that stuff - leave it like that. There is nothing to gain in the long run. I mean sure, if you just want to hook up you can keep going but you probably won't achieve a healthy longtime relationship.
People that are seriously interested and care about your life and values, they will stick around.

[SanaxUltd]

1) build your body 2) exert dominance 3) say what you want

[dustinmagallanes]

Me spending less time worrying about girls and spending more time focusing on my podcast and school. Ironically I get more girls!😂

[damariuswingfield]

This is basic psychology, let alone dating. They distance makes the heart grow fonder.

[nattiemania]

Thank you for the tips. Finally got my kind of girl. She met a better version of me and i'm grateful for who i've become in the last 6-7 months. The self value thing you once talked about is very crucial. I hope other men out there can focus on being better, relaxed, taking good care of themselves and thoughts. I'll keep following and watching more of your videos.

[Peacefull__Warrior]

Hats off to you Lloyd. You’ve got intelligent, well-balanced, and actionable content for days. Your advice is honestly helping to remind me of my value to others as a man.

[archicube]

when SHE loses attraction just turn around and go your way

[paulsaik]

The secret is, this. Meet other women to get over other women. You’d be surprised how much value another woman could bring you than the one that you thought was the one. Funny enough, you’ll start to get out of being emotionally invested with ole girl and see you don’t like her lifestyle as much u thought u did. People are gunna do what they want to do. Being controlling is not a good idea. Work on you homie! Most important, focus first on Christ. Prayer helps. ...make money (saving money) setting goals, and see a psychologist that works with you. It may not be for you, but man it helps keep me straight.
Quick tip: get a girl to massage you. It’ll ease your mind.

[elsquibbs]

Walk away and don't look back. If she contacts you and you're still interested at all, reciprocate whatever she does. Don't initiate.

Work on yourself in the meantime.

[royb]

Awesome advice!! Being ok no matter what! Original and a leader.

[ElPatron]

Sadly in the age of social media, relationships are a thing of the past and marriages are ancient history.

[RJ-oxgi]

First comment. Your advice really has helped me past few months, and I’ve been getting a lot more girls.

[thebluethunderbunny]

If you're in a setting where you see each other everyday, one of the best ways to recapture her attention is to start openly showing interest in another girl. If you're getting less attention for no discernible reason, and you're sure that she was interested before, there's a good chance she's putting you in her back pocket. While you're tucked away there, she won't put much thought into being with you, but she'll feel safe knowing that she has you benched as an option. But if she witnesses you putting your energy into someone else, she'll realize that you aren't actually tucked away in her back pocket at all, just waiting for her to finally come around. This will cause her to put thought priority into reevaluating her interest in you, and you might find yourself getting more attention from her as a result. It's still not a guarantee, but it's a great way to make a girl think twice.

It's a lot like going to the Best Buy and seeing the last copy of that game you had your eye on. If you think it's gonna be there tomorrow, you'd be more inclined to let it sit. But if you see someone else picking it up and looking at it, that's when you'll want it even more.