10 Things to Avoid Saying to an ENTJ

ENTJs are known for their assertiveness, ambition, and effective use of logic. These big-picture intellectuals exude confidence and drive, and have an intense focus on their goals that is intriguing to other types. ENTJs are direct and forthright when they speak to people. They like to cut to the chase and leave out unnecessary details that detract from the overall vision of what they’re trying to express. Their communication is blunt, rational, and self-assured.

[hany___]

#1 "Just share your feelings with me"
#2 "You can't do that"
#3 "Let's finish this later"
#4 "You need to lighten up"
#5 "I just need to vent"
#6 "Don't tell me what you think, tell me what you feel"
#7 "Let's change the subject"
#8 "So I went here... and it was like this... and then this happened... and wow... that happened to... and and..."
#9 "Life is so unfair"
#10 "You need to smile more"

Why do I relate 10/10 when I'm actually an INFJ

[herie]

As an ENTJ, I find the video very accurate. I can see myself in every statement except for the last one.
I need to share this video everywhere, my life would be easier if everyone knew lol

[amberglass]

As an ENTJ, the "You can't do that" really hits a different nerve for me T-T.

[kristyevans]

To all the entjs who can read my comment...WHERE ARE YOU?!? LITERALLY! Where's the place with most possibility that I'll find you there?? I admire you all so much and yet you all are so rare that I can never find you irl

[ManuelLoche]

Entj:
1:15 I felt anger despite it being a video

[BOMBAGUY]

The 5th one is 100% true i had infp friend that just vent to me and never take solutions for her problem and i get annoyed by that proposing a solution but... and that's how our friendship ended by me ghosting her

Nice video keep up

[Maria_Svetlana_]

This is detailed and the first point of reveal my feels I have trust issues . Saying my goals is impossible is offnsive due to this is my choice not anyones leave me be, venting to me is me wanting to run away or help i hate listening to ones vent, hek no to subject switches! Fillers and blockages ....can i just go or straight to the the life isnt fair ..We have diffrent cards that were given shut it

[moganaperseus]

As an ENTJ, I hate it when people tell me "It's impossible." or "Let's talk about this later." But I don't mind people asking me to lighten up...

[eminemstrash]

All the other personalities interpret ENTJ's as insensitive. Meanwhile, ENTJ's view all other personalities as being stupid, with stupid being defined as making decisions according to subjective, delusional, or irrational feelings and emotions.

In reality, feelings and emotions are horrific at making sound decisions about anything.

Feelings don't produce anything except for more feelings.

[danwitmerjr]

11. Robotic voices that can’t pronounce Te

[iwantmylifetobeinteresting]

Hello, I have recently discovered that I am ENTJ meanwhile I thought I was INTJ. I was in a severe depression and I cut all the contacts which was killing me inside. But literally 19 th of January I FOUGHT IT! I AM HERE TO MOTIVATE YOU ALL THAT EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE! IT'S WORTH GOING TOWARDS YOUR GOALS! YOU NEVER KNOW HOW CLOSE YOU ARE! IF YOU KEEP GOING, KEEP GOING, I BELIEVE YOU OVERCOME THE DISTANCE!!

[klinelove]

I relate to so much of this! The only thing I feel different about is that i have always had high levels of emotional intelligence. I’m guessing it’s because I come from a family of huge feelers. And so I’ve learned how important our feelings are and that we need to deal with them in healthy ways in order to help our lives improve for the better. So I’m totally fine sharing my feelings with people. However, I think I am learning that I used to think I was very aware of my emotions automatically. What I’m learning is that I’m actually not.. I have to stop and think about what I’m feeling in order to understand them and effective work through it. It’s Just been very eye opening for me to learn this. Might help me be more patient with myself in dealing with my highly intense emotions.

[Starlightndust]

Hate being told to calm down, lazy, unproductive people, people taking their time or being told to stop in the middle of doing something. I tend to suppress my emotions until I blow up. At least I'm suppressing my emotions. I had a lot of therapy in the past and was taught it is very unhealthy to repress my emotions. I hate whinging, moaners or being told life is unfair or ungrateful people. I like positivity and hearing anything is possible if you put enough hard work or drive behind your goals. I'm usually bubbly and friendly but people get shocked when they see the other very intense, confrontational side of me.

[isabellaguerra-redondo]

As an ENTJ, I strongly relate to 7, 8, & 9.

[annierayofficial]

11. "I don't know" ... so go find out... or find someone who does

[justbenjamin]

My family should really freaking know this, it is driving me crazy how they still use a lot of those phrases

[Azulakayes]

ENTJ...I loath complainers. I can listen to someone complain only twice maximum, after that, I check out. I also want to finish a thought without being interrupted. Unfortunately I am learning to be more emotionally aware since I have a kid but I still want him to solve things rather than just complain.

Someone at work told me I need to smile more in 2018- I went ham on him.

[peachesandpoets]

Oh my God I'm dating one and I am an infp and you have spared him a lot of irritation

[g.k.]

I'm an INFJ but I can relate to these more and more as years go by. I'm just more civil about it usually than ENTJs are, but I'm losing my patience with people every day.

[Jinxy]

I’m an infj married for long happy time with and entj and I wonder the same? I guess once we accept ourselves and find piece we attract the same and avoid all the other bullets while taking time to improve ourselves. Many hugs to u out there !