r/AITA He Gave My Baby a DISGUSTING Gift

0:00 Intro
0:08 Insane gift
3:27 Cheating evidence
7:49 Lien
10:04 And the reason is you
11:57 Comment

[lostshadows]

Story 1: Never let this guy around your kids. Never let anyone who thought this was okay babysit.

[Just_a_commenter]

A 5/5 for the offender in the first story is 100% warranted. That horrendous creep had to go out and buy something, actively thinking about who he was giving it to, and full well knowing their age.

Huge creep vibes, the parents are woefully oblivious, and OP's wife needs a reality check. Just because someone's family, that doesn't absolve them of gross acts, which hint at worse long term intentions. This could very well be a slip of the mask and the OP's wife would do well to take this seriously.

[williambragg]

Given that op in the first story was the only one to react in such a way shows how lenient and enabling his girlfriends family is to the brother.

[d.phantomfan]

Story 1: no way is your GF just as mad as you if she thinks you should apologize for not being nice about how this man gave a newborn a sex toy. Your GF needs to focus less on cuddling her disgusting family, and more time trying to come up with a plan to get you the let him ever see your child again. I know if it was me no one who was on its side would see my child if they actually think it is appropriate to buy your daughter a sex toy at any age.

[princess_shymiera]

I'm surprised that OP 1 didn't beat the younger brother with this "gift". I know I would. Pretty sure gifting a child - let alone a newborn - something like that should be grounds of being put on the registry

[jimmygarza]

Not only would I not apologize, I'd double down. If she doesn't back down, I'd file for emergency custody, citing the "dildo incident" and her reaction as a legitimate concern for the saftey and well-being of our/their daughter. Maybe she'd realize the severity of what her younger brother did, but I wouldn't be able to trust her again if it got to that point.

[orchidoxs]

Buying a faamily member a toy like that is already creepy.

What goes through your head about buy a BABY an adult toy? Why is he even thinking about his niece using it/ being thankful for

Nah. Banned frkm the house. Banned from any birthdays.

No contact.

[makaiwise]

Just adding because I find it interesting, from a biology standpoint if I recall, the sperm would just be either X or Y, not XX or XY. When a cell splits to form a reproductive cell (sperm or egg), it splits to only contain half of the chromosomes. Female cells are XX, so when they split they can only contain the X portion, where male cells are XY, so when they split, a sperm cell could be either X or Y, and therefore determines the gender when the two combine

[silverflight]

Story 2: Well, it's HIS fault for overstepping boundaries, he has nobody but himself to blame. If he simply had the parents pick up the box as agreed, the parents wouldn't have seen the photos hidden away.

[fieryphoenix]

Story 1: What. In. The. Fresh. Hell? That kind of gift for a newborn baby in general is the most uncomfortable and disgusting thing I’ve ever heard. All of the other gifts are perfectly normal compared to an adult toy…I don’t even want to begin trying to understand what the brother thinking when he decided to make that a “good” gift for his newborn niece. Big time NTA

[maieen]

*First OP:* What in the Ace Family heck?! OP handled the situation perfectly. My only criticism was that he didn't toss his girlfriend's brother out of the room a la Uncle Phil and Jazzy Jeff. OP is NTA, and his girlfriend was not angry enough imo.
*Second OP:* _So_ many boundaries crossed in this story. OP is NTA, and I hope she never has to deal with her stbx and his parents after this.
Also, Robert Mapplethorpe-type photos? Oh, dear.
*Third OP:* Doing business with family is risky, but at least it worked out for OP in the end. OP is NTA.
*Fourth OP:* Sounds like OP married a Kevin. I just hope he's a good father to his daughters despite them not being boys. OP is NTA.

[graphicsgal]

The line that got me the most in that first story was, "for when she's A BIT older."
"A BIT, " in my opinion, usually means a small amount. So when he said "a bit older, " WHAT DOES HE MEAN??? A week?? A month??
Keep this dude away from children!

[SpoiledMilk.C.E.D]

Who The Hell Gives A SEX TOY To An Infant?! Predator Vibes Honestly. 😭

[seabass]

Do not, I repeat do NOT let the uncle anywhere near your daughter. The word victimize gets thrown around a lot nowadays, don't give this guy a chance to literally victimize your daughter.

[notanarsonist]

my heart sank into my chest when i heard what this brother said. the fact that the parents were downplaying this makes it worse, if the wife continues to back up her brother then that's a major red flag

[thepunkkingkingofthederps]

When I read the title, my first thought that it was a really, really, REALLY dumb and bad prank.

But the fact that he was SERIOUS made it a MILLION times worse!!!

[ウォプチーノ]

Yeah, check that bros computer this is just… ew.

[smstnitc]

"you should apologize" "so, that's never going to happen. Period."

[ninagee]

1st story: My husband would've turned into The Punisher if that happened

[iveyemily]

That last story: HE asked?? How on earth is he gonna be upset when HE ASKED. He could've Googled before opening his mouth to try to insist he knew best. He didn't. That's on him.