I met a bully who had bullied me for being gay 10 years ago

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* 본 영상은 실제 사연을 바탕으로 재구성했습니다.
This video was directed based on a real story

[richieyh]

“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” - Maya Angelou

[mayoooooooonnaise]

Notice how the bullied kid turned out to be a model and looks wayyy cooler than the bully?

[reddeadandangryatcapitalism]

I have so much respect for this guy confronting his bully and making this statement. Bullies should have to be accountable for their actions.

[rekhahinge]

Hats off to the victim who came forward to share his experience. And proud of him he didnt loose hope and didnt do anything wrong.

[lidialavender]

This was healing to watch. The person that bullied me doesn't even remember we were in the same class for 3 years. He just can't recall my existance at all, it's crazy how much impact his treatment had on me growing up and for him it was nothing worth remembering.

[SamiSmolboi]

I love this channel.

I love how the bully immediately tried to change the subject because he knew what he did was wrong. Instead of trying to change the subject he could’ve just admitted that what he did was fucked up.

[Sofie_qpqu]

I feel so sorry for him. The way he looks at the bullie and talks with him is full of silenced emotions😢 The tension is crazy.

[trblj]

친했던 사람이 뒤에서 칼꽂을때가 정말 가슴 아픔… 평생 기억나고 상처인데 . 심지어 민감하고 숨기는 부분을 공개적으로 말한다??와.. 난 대화도 안 섞을 듯

[luluallison]

This really shows how bullies and victims view their past. The bully only recounts the good days of them getting bread together and how their teacher is doing, whereas the victim talks about how he was bullied, isolated, and outed to his family. It's quite sad how the bully needed to be reminded of those days, but the victim can't forget and lives with those scars for the rest of their lives. Huge praise to the victim for being calm, trying to understand and pointing out how those kinds of "jokes" clearly would look horrible to outside perspective. I'm glad that the bully has grown and realised the error of his ways and will hopefully learn from this.

[reckonerwheel]

My best friend was bullied by a couple girls at school for years. Then end of university, my friend got a DM from one of the girls, an apology note. The girl’s writing sounded sincere, accountable, everything… my friend respectfully rejected the apology.

Being a victim of bullying is trauma. It’s good to let go of the hate, but you don’t owe the bully their own peace of mind when they took it away from you. It’s up to them to learn and atone separately from your life. Sometimes the best apology is to leave you be.

[Sennikova]

Nobody deserves to be bullied. You will never know what they are going through and how painful this is. To be kind is not a hard thing to do. Be kind.

[im_just_vidu]

Bullies always forget that they used to be bullies but the people who get bullied lives with it for a long time.

[drawivuggu]

피해자가 그땐 어렸다면서 용서하는건 가능하지만, 가해자는 그때 어렸다며 합리화하면 안되는 겁니다. 학창시절에 친한 친구였던 사람에게 씻을 수 없는 상처를 줬던 것을 평생 죄책감 가지면서 한마디한마디 조심하면서 사세요.

[gi_man]

아웃팅은 범죄라는걸 제발 모든 사람들이 자각했으면 좋겠다 아웃팅에 대한 처벌이 더 강력해졌으면 좋겠음 피해자들은 평생을 기억하면 힘들어하는데 가해자들은 뭐라고 했는지조차 까먹고ㅋㅋ 어린게 무슨 상관임 지들보다 어린 애들도 가릴 짓은 앎

[Studywithmeforthesuccess]

This is the kind of come back everyone who's getting bullied actually need. Like yesss it was satisfying to watch him confront the bully. The way the bully was looking down, ashamed, and the things the victim said at the end were so to the point and powerful.

[iii]

the victim was so brave for this, i understand both sides but the bully... he tried to change the topic again and again

[Summer-behv]

Love when the bullied become more attractive than the bully

[AimingShadow]

If anyone is interested, the gay guy name is Myeongkyun, he was one of the members in His man 3, a korean gay dating show, really suggest to watch it, season 1 and 2 aswell

[rockspyder]

The scars of school bullying remain. Those memories are as vivid as the days they occurred, decades later. The bullies move on, probably forget, underestimate the impact of what they did.