7 Strategies to Make Anyone VALUE YOU.. (Stoicism)

7 Stoic Strategies to Make Them VALUE YOU (Stoicism)
Have you ever felt invisible? Like no matter how hard you try, your efforts go unnoticed, your voice unheard, and your value unacknowledged?

"It's a frustrating reality for many of us. You pour your heart and soul into everything you do, only to be met with indifference. It's like shouting into the void, hoping for an echo that never comes."

But what if I told you that the power to change this narrative lies within you? That there's a way to not just be seen, but to be valued, respected, and truly appreciated?"

Today, we're not just discussing Stoicism as an ancient philosophy. We're unlocking its most potent strategies to transform how you're perceived, making others not just notice you, but value you deeply for who you are and what you bring to the table."

"If you're ready to shift the scales, to move from being overlooked to being overbooked with admiration and respect, then you're in the right place. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell icon, because this journey we're about to embark on? It's a game-changer." Let’s get started.

1: Practice Detachment

"Imagine you're a ship in the vast ocean. The waters around you are the opinions, expectations, and actions of others. If you let every wave dictate your direction, you'll find yourself constantly tossed about, lost, and perhaps even shipwrecked. But if you anchor deep, understanding that while you respect the sea, you do not depend on it for your course, you maintain your direction, your purpose, and your peace."

Practicing detachment is about building an inner fortress so strong that while you hear and acknowledge the voices around you, they do not disturb your inner peace or dictate your happiness. It's about drawing a boundary between yourself and the fluctuating external world. This doesn't mean you don't care about others; rather, you refuse to let your self-worth be a reflection of their perceptions."

"Why is this powerful? Because when you master detachment, you send a clear message: 'I value myself and my journey enough not to be swayed by every passing opinion.' This commands a profound respect from others. They start to see you not as a leaf blown by the wind, but as the tree, firmly rooted and majestic."

Consider the words of Marcus Aurelius, 'You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.' Stoicism doesn't teach us to be cold or heartless. Instead, it offers a path to true freedom—freedom from dependency on external validation, freedom from the tyranny of trying to control what's beyond us."
So, how do you start? Begin by observing. Notice when you're giving external circumstances the power to affect your mood or self-worth. Then, gently remind yourself: 'I am the master of my feelings, my responses, my path.' With practice, this detachment will not only shield you but will also elevate your standing in the eyes of those around you. You'll no longer chase validation because you'll be the source of your own validation. And that, my friends, is a power truly worth cultivating.

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[spardaslovechild]

These 7 values are very useful to me and worth watching!!! Thank you very much for this video!! 🙏🏽🙌🏻♥️

[StoicVibes]

Never give anyone the permission to treat you like a doormat just because you love them.
Know your worth and stand up for yourself!✨🙌

P.B.Napalan