Former Secret Service Agent Reveals Psychological Tricks You're Falling For

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Ep 38 - Evy Poumpouras is a former Secret Service agent, speaker, author, and media personality. In this episode, she shares with us what she learned from her training and her time on the job as security for multiple presidents of the United States and polygraph specialist, and how she incorporates it into her daily life. As a professional interviewee and liar detector, Evy gives us her tips for acing a job interview, asking for a raise, and spotting a liar.

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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
00:39 - The most important skill you can have
09:45 - Working with the US presidents
13:04 - Assessing yourself and the relationships around you
20:10 - Exuding confidence in your life
26:49 - How to confidently tackle job interviews
31:19 - How to confidently ask for a raise
33:26 - The importance of language and how to build rapport
42:55 - How to improve your personal relationships and recognize harmful relationships
51:39 - How do you spot a liar?
01:05:52 - Evy Taught Me

[rae]

There is so much wisdom here:
"Trust in You" 
"People reveal themselves to you. Watch them."
"Honour yourself"

Thank you for your honesty, your interviewing style, and your curiosity.

[roughroadrunner]

This is a one of a kind interview, thanks Erika for having her. She is awesome.

[assemm]

The main takeaway from this episode for me was: "How you are is not how you have to stay. Evolve!"

[codeman]

This interview had two very intelligent women who are able to elaborate on their experiences using empathy and wisdom. There’s so much to take away from this.

Erika, thank you so much for the valuable, relatable questions. You’re fantastic for letting Evy speak, clarify points, and add to the message.

This is so damn helpful!

[samme]

I weeded out the toxic people in my life.
Looking forward to knowing more people with integrity and transparency.

[taan-yzah]

This video is Two incredible women of different fields, talking about self empowerment and creating impactful change to push humanity forward. Wow! I have no words, just hopeful and inspired ❤

[Chasing]

The day you think you know everything, you become obsolete. Evy was so spot on.

[PercentZelda]

It's hard the find the words to how great this video is. She was fantastic and you asked amazing questions. People have no idea how much valuable content is in this video. Thank you Erika!

[Artsylandandsea]

I’m watching this right now and I know I’m going to have to watch it again and next time with a pen and notebook.
Two words: life changing
Thank you so much!

[Croiz]

"being on time is being late" is something i learned growing up in germany 😍😂

[mauxam]

Erika I am astounded by the broad range of guests that you've invited onto your podcast! This one specifically spoke to me at a few points. I will definitely replay your interview and update my post with time-marks once I let this information sink in. Thank you for the great work you do and provide for your community.

[L.Fontein]

Early is on time; on time is late; and late is don't bother.

[marylenux]

I feel like this advice is so oversimplified. You can be on time consistent and your boss, coworkers etc. can still have it out for you. Office politics is a thing.

[fancyquebecoise]

One of my favorite interviews. You have insightful and thoughtful questions. Bring her back.

[gahippie]

I agree on giving people access. Reevaluate your relationships. True and healthy friendships will last decades

[HeyyTiya]

I listened to this before my interview and everything went very well! I went in there with good posture & took up space lol. Thanks Erika! 😊

[sslopianka]

I’ve already shared this podcast with a couple of friends. Excellent advice on trusting yourself. My favorite line, “if you are on time, you’re late.” Great interview, Erika!

[FysSessions]

The whole episode was invaluable but the "Evy taught me" at 1:06:04 worth it all. Thank you both ❤. So Glad I've found this channel

[erikklee]

Evy has excellent and very succinct advice. She is open and willing to share her experiences with the audience. What an amazing guest! One of your best podcasts Erika.

[maryglo]

My kid was crying after school one day when I picked her up from the Salvation Army daycare. She said she stopped at the store while walking to daycare. The kids she was with stole some things. We went to the store so we could tell them. My kid felt better. Come to find out they were the same kids who were acting badly outside my best friend's condo. She made them cookies from time to time as a thank you reward for being respectful. They loved her! She is a teacher and got them to act nicely. The store said they knew someone was stealing. My kid felt better and the others respected her because my teacher friend is my child's Godmother!