QUIET PEOPLE: You are hated because they can’t figure you out! #introvert

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[antwill-cb]

Sad part. People are more likely to trust a loud drama person than a quiet person who does nothing but mind their business and at peace.

[RTheWalkerOfGreenB]

I talk to some people more than others... The more a person points out how quiet I am in a negative manner, the more quiet I get around them.

[t.sizzle]

But also quiet people may talk a lot to people that they like and are comfortable with.

[t.sizzle]

Facts bro even when I was a people pleaser people would still talk about you so it doesn’t matter whether you talk or not people will always have Something to say about you which is ridiculous because if I’m quiet how am I bothering you.

[mrwnking]

Everything this dude says is spot on. People don't like it when I just sit and observe everything around me. You can find out a lot about others by just sitting there and observing your surroundings.

[gugu]

Well i hate when loud people talk. They treat quiet people like their freakin confession box

[NyceBoi]

I'm so used of being quiet and when I try to talk to people my mind is blank. I have nothing to say. 😅

[IQUOTEMEDPLAN]

People call me secretive, because i keep it to myself, because when you think about it, most people dont give a danm, they have their own problem, my go to is only God.

[key]

The less you talk the less they know so they can’t gossip 😮

[troysmith]

What's annoying is when you're at the gym, some random person you've never met will start talking to you like somehow you're their best friend and they'll talk your ear off. And then the next time you see them you say hi and they act like they don't know you or just say hi back and then walk off like you're bothering them. Extroverts are really weird. At least introverts in my experience have better manners and don't do random, strange garbage.

[dianatruckskennedy]

It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool, than to talk and remove all doubt - Maurice Switzer. One of my favorite quotes.

[t.sizzle]

Extroverts always want you to match their energy but they’ll never match yours.

[nyclife]

I'm at peace with myself when I'm quiet. Small talk, talking just to be talking, takes me out my comfort zone.

[emmarae]

"Why isnt she talking?" Someone said that to my boyfriend when I first met one of his friends.😂
The funny thing is I find a lot of extraverts very shallow, while quite people tend to be very down to Earth.

[shaslevels]

I'm very reserved. Silence can't be misquoted

[JesseWhiteman]

As a black man myself. People try their hardest to put me in a specific box but they can't because they don't know me. It bothers them for some reason. I am more than willing to let people know who I am. In some ways I'm not hard to approach. I don't make things difficult for everyone. It's funny how when I'm minding my own business it's some how I'm the most challenging person to be friends with when that's not necessarily the case.

Society is weird like that. Minding your own business is labeled in the most weirdest ways.

That person is:

- Angry

- Depressed

- Nervous

- Loner

- Loser

Where are these coming from? Insecurities of other people that's who. You being in your own lane bothers them. If you get that impression from them... STAY AWAY. They will not be your friend even if it seems like they want to be. Their intent isn't genuine and I know from experience. Some people are afraid they are figured out mostly by observant people. The quietest person is a threat to them.

Whatever facade they are pulling is something they don't want to be exposed.

They go from friend groups, work, school, and other regular gatherings.

[CJ-ugos]

Most of what people talk about is complaining or just foolish things. Im just done with all that. They who talk poorly about quiet ones need to grow up. I recently had to quit my job because all I got was stink face from everyone cause Im a quiet private person

[t.sizzle]

It’s also annoying when people ask why you so quiet. But if you said why you always talking they probably wouldn’t like that

[darrellking]

I'm not your child or a puzzle, why do people need to know all your business? I feel like it is a nosy control thing.

[Asra]

I am introverted around most people but with the few, and I mean few individuals I trust I am quite chatty, funny, and silly.
I don't speak much in group settings b/c most people are superficial and gossipy. Gossip bothers me deeply so until I trust you I will remain in observer mode.
Also, most overtalkers do not share the space for others to shine their light, it is very unbecoming and annoying. I pray more people learn the art of active listening.