How To Handle Kids Fighting

It's only normal when kids fight but as a parent, it can get really frustrating and it is potentially dangerous. If you want to stop your kids from fighting, you should watch this video. Here are some practical tips on how you can deal with your kids fighting.

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Dr. Paul Jenkins

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[MegaParadox]

It takes aways my joy when I have to stop them fighting all the time.thank you for the tips I'll put them to use.

[Eritb]

Talking/discussion makes kids either
“ Think or fight”

It is nice to hear it from you saying “ let’s talk about this later or after dinner” it is my line to use to make my teenagers calm about discussion this days.

“Observant”
“Treat appropriate to their age”
“What kind of innervation”
“Have Family values, rules and print them”
“Respect property”
“Cooperate and obey”

Thank you so much. I always enjoy and learn something from you videos. Thanks

[LekiaLPTBeauty]

I had to leave work this morning to go back to school because my twins sons got into it. And then this video dropped. Thank you even before I watch.

[jintong]

These tips were never learned from school, my parents or even other institution. They're precious. I will put them into practice. Thank you!

[yousifnajat]

1- Think not fight: buy some time for them. For example, tell them that we are discussing this later. Then, hopefully they do some thinking. You may also need some thinking.
2- Keep your own cool, don’t turn into fight mode to.
3- Be fair. It doesn’t mean to treat them all the same. Treat them all appropriately according to their age.
4- Avoid negative labels and negative comparison.
5- Try to know what happened before the fighting erupted.
6- Set rules:
1- “Respect yourself and others.”
2- Respect property”—putting things where they belong.
3- Cooperate and obey.

[Mushroom-]

Nice! So true.". If they know you are thinking they are going to be too. "

[SodaColaClassic]

I just asked about this on another video then searched and i hope this works!

[mansour]

Thanks for the informative video.

I believe that sharing also causes fights usually as kids enjoy possessing things.

[kristineacain]

Thank you i neded this so much for my 3 boys

[ZohraImran]

Amazing tips Dr Paul. I have 3 daughters aged 11, 8 and 5. While I was listening to these tips, I thought that this video was made for ME. Thank you so much. Will put this into practice👌

[perpetuallydancing]

I’ve got 3 daughters ages 5, 3, 1, and #4 is on the way! I’ve got to make a poster of the 3 rules. I’m going to use pictures because they can’t read yet. Thank you for your help!

[didgeribox]

Your videos are exactly what I need! Thank you from the bottom of my heart🙏❤️

[aishacham]

I have 5 sons, ages 11, 8, 7, 6, 4 and things can get hectic at times because they constantly bicker/argue. And I'm raising them alone. Will keep these tips in mind.

Thank you Dr. Paul!

[Some-Love]

Wonderful tips, Dr. Paul! Thanks a lot for teaching such great ideas 👌🤗☀️

[sarahbrennan]

The 3 stages is very good... an other great video.. 💛have a good weekend

[JessicaTang]

Thank you for this video Dr.Paul, i really can relate about this topic.Thank you for always reminding us to think and to apply positive parenting.😊😊😊

[lexit]

Thank u. My 2 boys fight it seems like everyday & it does make me feel like I’m failing as a parent. My boys are 3 & 6.

[arlyn]

Thank you for this video dr.paul
I really need this to my 4yo son, he’s kg-2 & everyday his teacher reporting me that my son hit his classmates, almost everyday. 😟

[lydiawinans]

I don’t have kids yet but I watch your videos for writing my stories and to understand how to be a good parent when I’m older. I’m just wondering would your advice be the same or different if two middle school kids are fighting?

[kelseyreece]

I tell my kids I love them equally and individually.