Married But In Love With Someone Else?

In this video, relationship expert Coach Lee discusses what to do if you are married but are in love with someone else other than your spouse. Before you make a decision, consider what Coach Lee discusses in this powerful video for married people who are having an affair.

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[sweetgypsy]

What if you were never in love with your spouse to begin with? Some people marry because of family pressure or convenience. And then someone else can come along and generate this amazing euphoria that they never experienced with their spouse.

[Msof]

Sometimes you get to a point in your life, generally at a mature age, where you just can't waste more time with a person/spouse whom you no longer love; who no longer loves you; and who has broken every vow. I appreciate what Coach Lee is conveying, truly, but it's difficult to measure love. Oftentimes, a rose is just a rose.

[SilverGirlAu]

One of your best Lee - this should be a public service announcement to all people thinking of straying from their marriage...

[willevermoore]

Sometimes some marriages need to end especially when there is abuse mental, emotional and or physical If you find someone that treats you better than go for it.

[marcvslicinivscrassvs]

This is why I avoid a lot of texting now, exactly what Coach Lee is talking about. I think a lot of people get hooked more on a texting a person than the actual person.

[ark.]

His wife is his soulmate . Today, I saw them happy again ! I’m happy for him. How can you continue to love someone when he’s happily married even if he feels the same way for me I decided not to interfere in his happy marital situation .I’m on my journey to acceptance. I will always wish for his long lasting happy marriage . I will never ever go back to him because I know it’s not worth fighting for anymore . I will always pray for him that he will have the contentment of his own marriage . I’m hurt but I’m ok .

[Cristiandiaz]

Limerence sucks! Even if you know you are in that state, is extremely difficult to overcome.

[tomyaml]

An excellent message from Coach Lee. I have been there and I can say as far as my personal experience goes, everything that Coach Lee shared is spot on. Work on your marriage, the reward is far greater and lasting than a few months of limerence.

[Nitrochic]

I know when i got married at a young age, I thought I was in love got married and years down the road you start to wonder what's out there. I think someone shouldn't get married too young. I found love, real love at 49. Nothing wrong with wanting to see what's out there especially if your marriage is not good.

[stephaniemendez]

This is not my dilemma but I like ur videos. Just watching for the heck of it

[MVProfits]

This video could save a lot of relationships... if the smitten spouse actually looked at it! The thing is when the new relationship stays, the old one is

[DIAMONDGIRL]

Just reconnected to my first love and I encourage him to stay in his marriage.

[clare]

Such a tricky subject, what you say makes sense coach Lee… definitely had romance with husband early days, but it definitely gets affected with certain situations that break and damage that connection. Building the confidence to leave is the next battle.

[MissMaskless]

Coach Lee you are the sweetest. I love your genuine and down to earth nature.

[wall]

My recent break up of 3 weeks. Left me for a guy who’s been married for 10 years and has a baby on the way. They think their “in love” and this video is the perfect example. He’s almost 30 and my ex just turned 24

[rocren]

Then why don't people in a marriage just allow this Limerence romantic to happen, since it is so temporary, since eventually the partner who seeks love with the a new mate will come back.
I really think if married people show more inclusiveness, more understanding towards this out of marriage love affairs, people would live more happy and more relaxed.

[unitedkingdomoffiveeyes]

This is me now, ive been with my parter for 22 years and it has lost its spark...no intimacy, doing are own thing, just existing....im in the process of leaving her, im a soldier so im lucky to have a pad to sleep in....anyway ive recently fallen for another women who is due to be married, we flirt we've kissed and shes confused aswell as i. I know my marriage is broke has been for a while, but this new feeling hurts, its like im dating for the first time again but with minimal contact. Its driving me insane. I thought that i was a propper geezer this will never happen to me but this emotion is kicking my ars.

[donoffutt]

This was informative. Everything you spoke of rang truth. I had never heard these terms but it made a lot of sense

[titanniki]

Been married since 2008. Been on the couch since 2014. No physical Intamacy in 7 years. Jun 2021 met a woman. Been with her 17 mos. My wife, who I call my roommate found out about us 8 mos ago. I still live in my home. I'm over my GF home, which I consider my home. Everyday.
My roommate wants a divorce, 1/3 of my retirement, the house(refuses to sell) & 1/2 of my IRA, NOT OURS MY IRA. Currently my GF 26 yr old daughter & 7&11 year grandsons live with her. So for now I can't move in with her. I know I need to get a place of my own but finances will not allow me. I know I'm in a jam. But my roommate & I are over. With or w/o a GF.

[Casanova]

coach lee always bring that heat. can we get a video on dumpers remorse??? 🙏