Indians React to German parents are FEARLESS

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[DramaQueenMalena]

Swiss German educator here:
Sharing is a way to connect to other people. Offering to share something is begging for connection.

The child has to learn the inner process of sharing and to choose the people you want to share. When to open up, when to protect oneself.

If you force your child to share it will experience sharing as loss and not as positive experience. Especially if the other kid just takes the toy and does not play together with your child.

Do you want to teach your kid to share everything with everyone? To become a person that is always taken advantage of? To learn it can buy "fake" friendships instead of having real connections?

[einwitzigenname]

If you tell children "you can't do it, I'll help you", you make them dependent. Children who manage to climb this wall on their own have the skills necessary to avoid falling down. But if you lift them up, it's dangerous. Unfortunately, I see parents on playgrounds lifting their children up everywhere. This is more dangerous than climbing this wall, because the children do not learn the necessary body control to move safely on their own.

[Mamaki]

German here. I never thought much about the sharing thing. But now I wonder: why would they share if they don't want to or give another chhild their toy when playing with it just because he or she wants to play with it too. You wouldn't give a stranger your smartphone or tablet just because they want to have it right now, would you? And it's also a question of consent.

[j.a.]

Regarding the shoes, I think you have to keep in mind that the seasons in Germany are quite different. You definitely don't want children to walk inside with snowboots on bringing in snow and dirt. Or let them jump in a puddle and get their shoes wet when it is cold outside. So I can imagine that German kids need a few more shoes than Indian kids. But what she said is true, shoes are taken very seriously in Germany. As an Austrian I thinknit makes sense though. If you want healthy feet and be able to walk a lot, you cannot damage them from an eatly age with bad footwear.

[circemuller]

we have strong and free good for her Live

[Ewi-wfhf]

I work in a Daycare and 8 Pairs of shoes is insane. We have maybe 3. One type for Inside, one for outside and A pair of Rainboots. Thats the norm for us. Im from North West Germany. And with the sharing. Yes we do say that the Kids dont have to share the Toy they are playing with at the Moment, but that doesnt mean they never have to share. At the Daycare for example We have a Toy that ist very popular among the Kids, but only one at a time can play with it. Its a little Traktor you can sit on and drive. Many Kids want to drive it. With such a Thing of course they have to share. One kid has a certain amount of Time on it and the others have to wait their turn. The Kids would rather drive with it All the Time but have to let the other have a turn too and share the Toy Traktor. So yes a first Reaktion is to not have to share but that doesnt mean they never have to or are never encouraged to share.

[helloweener]

It is not really only about body positivity. It is also about I don't care.
You don't like how I look in a swim suit, bikini, white socks in sandals? Well, that is a you problem. I do not care.

[klaust]

German body confidence: You will see people of all sizes, age and gender .. sitting completely nude in a mixed sauna.

[reko]

I think the reason for many difference between Germany and US, India, newzealand and many more countries is that Germany was never parth of the british commonwealth

[fnn]

Here in Denmark we welcome these women proudly showing their bellies. always so welcome and many with tears in their eyes of joy

[Innocentforscratcher]

If a kid get hurt, nearly every German (you need it if you want to get a drivers license in Germany) is trained in first aid,
and the ambulance took about ten mins to head in after the emergency call.
If protection is not granted so recovery is!

[bjorndebar]

Shoes and clothes are also often passed on to friends or acquaintances. So you don't always buy everything new.

[irminschembri]

Re children's clothes : since children grow out of their clothes so fast there are second-hand shops and charity sales and flea markets for children's clothes all over Germany and there is NO NEED to buy everything new !!
And I never heard of a kindergarten that asks for that diversity of shoes !! That you need boots and snow boots in winter goes without saying !!

[Wandering.Homebody]

Min 4:39, duh?!? In India it's almost always warm, in Germany it can be any temperature from -25 to +42 or so, so you need shoes for any type of temperature. I spend up to 6 months out of the year in India, and bring precisely one pair of shoes, namely flip flops, whereas in Germany I have at least 30 pairs, all of which I do actually use.

[abram]

I also people I talked about this consider the children freedom the best times of our lives, times when you can climb whatever you want any tree, walls roofs even and the worst thing that can happen is some grumpy old man telling you to not climb his roof, exploring forests with your friends, getting chased by a boar and tbh even with our very safe streets and roads I would say that such adventures are much safer than being around cars, ofc our parents were always afraid but never stopped us from having our adventures and fun besides the worst that can happen is a broken leg or arm or few bruises, nothing doctors and children body wouldn't heal.
Helping grandparents doing wood with an axe, do the garden chores, help with repairing house like handing bricks and so on... it's just awesome because kids from young age know what is dangerous what to expect from certain things. It might seem dangerous to let kids climb trees and have them chopping wood with an axe but in opposite it teaches them to be careful.

[halloec]

I think it is important to let your child decide whether to share or not. I wouldn't share somthing which is important to me with someone I dont know. First I need to be sure that I wont get it back broken. If my child decides to share its toy after some time playing next to or with the other child, it is a sign of trust and a special moment for both children. And maybe its the start of a friendship.

Also, sharing doesnt have to mean "give it away, so someone else can play with it". Sometimes it means "playing together" 😊

[NeroPecore]

Children have to learn setting personal boundaries early in life. It builds confidence and a sense of self

[MarcBuchheister]

i think every german child must climb to the highest tree they saw...if he or she fell and broke a bone they learn about it.thats life!!your mistakes you never forget.but when you grow up with no mistakes you are the tiny little person in the backround alone..hehe

[janastratmann-severin]

What Antoinette says about the shoes is extreme. I needed 3 pairs of shoes for our children in kindergarten. The obligatory slippers (dirt stays outside), rain boots for bad weather, and seasonal outdoor shoes. When there is snow outside, snow boots actually make sense. Here where I live, we have snow once every 2 years for a few days, so it's not worth it. But we have a lot of rain, so rain boots are essential. But also rain pants and rain jackets, because the children are often outside for hours and simply have to stay dry.

[pkorobase]

Regarding children wear: you will find second hand shops at many places, so you can afford it. Its not always necessarry to buy new items.