Jordan Peterson - Warning you will get a divorce - Lighthouse International #divorce #shorts

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[jaisinghchristiancoaching]

I have conducted counselling with couples and can attest to this being very true!

[catfurbiehat]

As a child of divorced parents, resentment and contempt destroys like nothing else and it is a breakdown of communication and no longer caring to actively build the relationship

[kidneycarecoaching]

Dr Phil also mentioned how couples argue if the fights were fair or not…

[duaneb]

Eye rolling wow, the red flag of contempt. Interesting.

[jxaby]

Best predictor of divorce: going to marriage counselor.

[frmm]

16 years and eye rolling going on strong

[stephanietunc]

He's 100% right. But you know what even after me and my husband have hit every indication that we will be getting a divorce something always pulls us back together and I truely believe God pulls me and my husband back together over and over again because I truly with all my heart love my husband but I can also 100% feel the opposite way. I grew up that when someone hurts me I cut them from my life. But when someone becomes family (my husband has officially and legally become my family when we got married and when we had a child together) I always always want to have and keep a famiky together. It takes SEVERE disrespect and severe lack of affection, love, and communication for me to cut a family off indefinitely. And though he will hit one severely he fixes the other. Or I will fix the others. Marriage isn't a contract it's a sacred bond. Only physical abuse (i nor no one should ever stay in with someone who hits them or beats them period) or him or I not meeting our martial duties or family duties that a relationship truly breaks apart.

[iceguy]

Lack of respect.

One sign is when one or both are complaining to friends and acquaintances, but not their spouse.

[zachjones]

I found this fascinating! Especially with it being the same outcome of divorce whether it’s one or both people rolling their eyes!

[SchmitzDaniel]

Fascinating observation! It feels like when couples start to roll their eyes - and I’d say blame the other person - then they are already so far down the line that they pretty much can’t recover anymore. It shows me the need to deal with challenges in a relationship as early as possible.

[glamorouslee]

Very true in my case. I divorced that lying adulterer right after I quit couples counseling. As soon as my ex opened his mouth my eyes instantly rolled. How did I know my ex was lying? Easy, if he was talking he was lying.

[davidallegro]

Why didn’t any of our marriage counselors tell me this. Would have saved 4 years of living hell for the kids and I. So many arguments yelling and screaming. And thousands of dollars. The emotional, mental damage. The anxiety my daughter still chews her fingers to the meat caused nerve damage.

[create]

Chances are they’ve been rolling their eyes for a while now 🙄

[sam]

I’ve been rolling my eyes 👀 at my husband for over 22+ years now…. 🤣 So 🤷🏻‍♀️

[ino]

Seriously married 21 years not a day had passed by I haven’t rolled my eyes. 😂 There is also a 95% chance the f word will show up 🤣 Maybe it’s a Latin/Italian thing. Still love the guy 😆

[DM-wuhn]

This kind of thing puts a label on people for a gesture. It's not always one meaning, but because you are a well known speaker, people will take it as fact. Couples going to counseling are ALREADY headed for divorce.

[jackcomer]

Having contempt, that the person who you are suppose to be continuously building a relationship with is somehow beneath consideration is barbaric. It’s a big shame.

[tdes]

Any couple that doesn't tell you that they have some sort of contempt for each other after 20 years of marriage or even 10 is lying there is no perfect couple there is not a single time that somebody's eyes don't roll when they hear their partner say something that they don't like or that they think they've heard a 1000 times and they don't want to hear it anymore A lot of the time when I talk to people that have been married for 40 years the guy usually says to me do whatever you have to do To let her think that she's right And 99.9% of The Times They say pick your battles Easy to say hard to doThey say happy wife happy life but if it's not a happy husband and he cheats it's not gonna be a happy wife cheating isn't always about things like sex it's about feeling like something other person caresAnd that's where the communication breakdown is

[thedutchess]

Wow, well i guess I ( without knowledge) been divorced for over a decade, cuz I roll my eyes so does my spouse at each other daily🤪, both still married without any plans no council either, that’s bs Dr P