ASMR Asking You Deep “Would You Rather?” Questions

Hey everyone! In this video I'll be asking you some very deep and personal "would you rather?" style questions! If you like questionnaire style videos, this one is for you! Feel free to comment any of your answers down below! I hope you enjoy 🤍

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~ Abby

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“Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response”
The relaxing static-like ‘brain tingles’ experienced by some people at the back of the head or down the spine in response to specific visual or audio triggers. ASMR content is commonly used to help with stress relief, relaxation, anxiety, and sleep.

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[seanm]

1: I know what I want
2: I'd rather keep my word
3: I'd rather know
4: I'd rather understand people and they're feelings better
5: I'd ride the wave of human emotion
6: Tiny details
7: Relationships
8: Positive influence on others
9: Find my own path
10: Head
11: Give help
12: Have someone else strike up a conversation
13: Spend more time with others
14: Continue as is
15: Privacy
16: Caring for others
17: I have that inner voice that tells me right from wrong
18: I'd say execute
19: By myself reading
20: Simple pleasures
21: Future possibilities
22: I wouldnt care what other people think of me
23: Solving they're problem
24: Discover it myself
25: Rigid daily routine
26: I'd rather be right
27: 10 minutes
28: Practical things
29: Back in time (7 years ago)
30: Painter
31: Never procrastinate again
32: Clean tidy classic
33: Careful and methodical
34: I am always honest with people but I'd like to be more encouraging with them
35: I'd rather be prompted for a conversation
36: Authenticity
37: I am a pretty stoic
38: I'd rather mold myself into the values of the world
39: I'd rather be taken advantage of
40: Id rather be relentlessly focused on my goals

[CrqazyIWasCrazyOnce]

1) Know what I want
2) It depends, but Keep my word no matter what
3) Know everyone who has loved me, just to know
4) Understand peoples feelings better. I feel like I do already but I'm going to college for it but its good to know more
5) Ride the waves of human emotions. No, not really
6) Spend time on all the tiny details
7) Be proud of the relationships
8) For positive influence
9) Discover my own path
10) Based on my head
11) Give help
12) Walk up to me. I could but, i'd freak out and probably say nothing to them if I did, social anxiety
13) Alone
14) Unite The World. I wanna be able to make the world a better place and get rid of world hunger and war.
15) I don't know that's hard. All have privacy cause I don't wanna be a bother lol
16) It depends but, I normally Care for others
17) Inner voice that tells me positive things
18) Ability to execute. Yes, I would but I wish for it to come true sometimes
19) It depends on the people around but, cozy up with a book. Social interaction scares me, as I said in 12
20) Simple pleasures. I like mostly all music and have no fav food or anything
21) Future Possibilities
22) I'd rather live life without caring about peoples impression. It really hurts when they say something
23) Cheer them up by supporting them, even making them laugh and possibly giving advice
24) My own. I'd figure out what my life means
25) Unstructured and spontaneous existence. I am content with it, makes life fun
26) Leader who is loved.
27) 100 years into the future. I wanna see how my bloodline would be and the world as a whole
28) Exceptional visionary
29) Back in time. Fix some things back when I was 6. Fix things with my parents and my childhood.
30) Painter. I already love painting, it is calming
31) No procrastination
32) Unique, personable
33) Careful
34) Always speak the truth
35) Someone else prompt me.
36) Authenticity. Yes, I feel like I'm pretty both already lol
37) Romantic
38) Mold the world so the world is more accepting to people like me. The world can be pretty harsh and judgmental
39) Allow others to take advantage
40) Take time to appreciate

Some of the things that stood out to me and that I'm pondering is what life means to me.

Thank you so much for having me, bye!

[RaymondJiang]

Timestamps (Wanted to write all the questions down to keep track of my answers and then decided why not provide them to everyone?):

1:56 Would you rather know exactly what you want or be on the path of discovery?
2:15 Would you rather keep your word no matter what or make the right decision even if it means breaking your word?
2:44 Would you rather know everyone who was secretly in love with you at some point in your life or not know at all and have it remain a secret?
3:11 Would you rather understand other peoples' feelings better or understand the nature of the universe better?
3:41 Would you rather be happy all the time or would you rather ride the waves of human emotion?
4:09 Would you rather spend time focusing on all the tiny details of everything or spend time pondering the bigger picture ideas of life?
4:45 Would you rather be proud of your business or career or be proud of the relationships that you formed?
5:02 Would you rather be remembered for your great deeds that you've done in your life or be remembered for your positive influence on others?
5:21 Would you rather discover your own path in life which takes a little more time to develop or have your parents guide you through their path and be given a little bit of a head start?
5:50 Would you rather make life-changing choices based on your heart or make life changing choices based on your head?
6:32 Would you rather always be given help when you need it or be able to give help to those that need it?
6:48 Would you rather walk up to a stranger and strike a conversation with them or have a stranger walk up to you and start a conversation with you?
7:35 Would you spend more time alone or spend more time with others?
7:51 Would you rather unite the world under one peaceful identity or allow the world to continue with both diversity and conflict?
8:39 Would you rather always have privacy in your thoughts or always be open and transparent with your thoughts?
9:10 Would you rather spend more time on self-care or spend more time caring for others?
9:49 Would you rather have an inner voice that tells you right from wrong that you can't turn off or have an inner voice that tells you only positive things?
10:44 Would you rather have the ability to dream or have the ability to execute?
11:12 Would you rather be in a vibrant social event with lots of people around or be at home by yourself cozied up reading a book?
11:43 Would you rather be easily entertained by simple pleasures or have really fine taste in arts and music?
12:08 Would you rather focus more on present realities or focus more on future possibilities?
12:43 Checking how you're doing, are you ok? 😁
12:51 Would you rather always make a good impression or live life without worrying about other people's impression of you?
13:31 Would you rather cheer somebody up by trying to solve their problem or cheer somebody up by supporting them more emotionally?
13:56 Would you rather find out the meaning of life from a wise sage or try to discover it yourself?
14:45 Would you rather have a rigid daily routine or have an unstructured and spontaneous existence?
15:29 Would you rather be a leader who is right or be a leader who is loved?
15:45 Would you rather see 10 minutes into the future or see 100 years into the future?
16:22 Would you rather be great with practical things or be an exceptional visionary?
16:39 Would you rather have the power to travel back in time or have the power to travel forward in time?
17:13 Would you rather be a transcendent painter who moves hearts or be a famous scientist who discovers secrets?
17:35 Would you rather never procrastinate ever again or have more creative down time?
18:00 Would you rather have a very clean, tidy, classy, home or have a more eclectic personable home?
18:22 Would you rather be more careful and methodical or be more reckless and carefree?
18:37 Would you rather always speak the truth at the risk of offending people or always say the most encouraging and uplifting things to people?
19:04 Would you rather be the one who always has to keep the conversation going or have somebody else always need to prompt you for conversation?
19:23 Would you rather be known for your authenticity or be known for your generosity?
19:51 Would you rather be stoic or be romantic?
20:18 Would you rather mold the world to be more aligned with your image or would you rather mold yourself into the values of the world?
20:55 Would you rather step on others to get ahead or allow others to take advantage of your kindness?
21:49 Would you rather be relentlessly focused on achieving your goals or be inclined to stop and take the time to appreciate more of the smaller joys in life?

Thanks, Abby! The glasses look great :)

[desirreenieves]

The fact that I have to keep rewatching because I keep falling asleep 😴😂

[BHDay]

The look you give with those glasses on makes me feels like you can see me through the screen, makes me super conscious about my answers!

[swedreamhack]

"Would you rather watch an Abby ASMR video than anything else right now?" I certainly would! xD

[oliebass]

This was a really lovely video! Thank you! Some very thought provoking questions! Would be interesting to hear your thoughts on what you asked.

[dredgeportals]

wow. this was an incredibly affirming video. your questions revealed to me that, however hard and chaotic things have been, the actual reality of my life aligns far more with my choices and values than I ever realised. I’m thinking about my life completely differently than I was 24 minutes ago. thank you.

[MrDaringDashwood]

1. Know what I want
2. Make the right decision
3. Know who might have been fallen in love with me
4. Understand other peoples feelings better
5. Always be happy
6. Spend time for the details
7. Be proud of the relationships
8. Be remembered for positive influence on others
9. Discover my own path
10. Choices based on my head
11. Focus more on emotions
12. Always be given help when needed
13. Have a stranger start the conversation with me
14. Spend more time with others
15. Unit the world, diversity is not that worthy to keep up all the hate and war
16. Always be open with my thoughts
17. Caring for others
18. Inner voice that tells what’s right and what’s wrong
19. Have the ability to execute
20. Be at home by myself (but not always)
21. Be easily entertained by small things
22. Focus more on future possibilities
23. Always make a good impression
24. Cheer somebody by supporting emotionally
25. Discover it myself
26. Routine
27. Be a leader who is loved
28. 10 minutes
29. Be great with practical things
30. Have to power to travel back in time
31. Be a famous scientist
32. Never procrastinate
33. Unique home
34. Be more reckless and care free
35. Always say the most encouraging
36. Have somebody else
37. Be know for authenticity
38. Romantic
39. I want to fit more into the values of the world
40. Allow others to take advantage of my kindness
41. Appreciate more the smaller joys in life

Something went wrong with my numbers, sorry for that 😃

[chillhouse]

It would be absolutely crazy if we lived in a world where our thoughts had to be completely transparent! I'd like that I think. Those glasses look great I hope you bring them back.

[cassiehoalaia]

I have a very important exam tomorrow, but instead of studying I'm doing this...

01.- Know

02.- Right descision.

03.- Know.

04.- Nature.

05.- Emotion.

06.- That's hard, maybe bigger
picture?

07.- Relationships

08.- Influence

09.- Discover.

10.- Head (honestly both tho)

11.- Give help.

12.- Walk up to stranger

13.- Others

14.- I'd like the world to unite with
diversity and without conflict.

15.- Privacy

16.- Right now, self care.

17.- Right from wrong. The other
would just annoy ms.

18.- Both (or I already have the
ability to dream, so I guess
execute)

19.- Most of the time cozy at home.

20.- Fine taste, maybe?

21.- Present

22.- Without worrying.

23.- Depends

24.- Discover

25.- A healthy mix if both.

26.- Wouldn't being right
automatically, include being
loved as a consequence?

27.- 10 mins?

28.- Both

29.- Also both. But maybe back,
'cause I really wanna know what
was written in the Library of
Alexandria.

30.- Scientist

31.- Since the whole reason I'm
doing this is procrastination, -
Never Procrastinate.

32.- Personal

33.- Methodical

34.- That's really tricky, maybe truth.

35.- Somebody else.

36.- Authentic

37.- Romantic?

38.- Mold the world. 'Cause the
world sucks in many aspects.

39.- Neither.

40.- Joys in Life.

Bye~

[vanillaperfumed]

My answers:

1. Know exactly what I want
2. Make the right decision, even if it's breaking my word
3. Know everyone who is secretly in love with me
4. Understand the nature of the universe better
5. Ride the waves of the human person. I'm not usually happy
6. Spend time understanding the bigger picture
7. Be proud of the relationships
8. Be rembered for the positive
9. My parents would help me
10. Life changing choices based on my head
11. Focus on logic
12. Always give help
13. Have a stranger walk up to me. (Social anxiety)
14. More time alone
15. Allowed the world to be as it is, no oe will ever make changes
16. Always have privacy in my thoughts
17. More time on self care (I have mental health issues)
18. Have a inner voice that tells you both right and wrong stuff
19. Ability to execute. Yes, I dream a lot
20. Be all by myself reading a book
21. Be entertained by everything
22. Focus more on the future
23. I'm feeling sick
24. Always make a good impression
25. Cheer someone up by helping them solve their problems
26. Try to discover the meaning of life by myself
27. Be a leade who is right
28. 100 years in the future
29. Power to travel forward in time. Like because I have a lot of passion for things and I want to see how it turns out.
30. Be a famous scientist
31. Never procastonate ever again.
32. Have a clean tidy home
33. Idk..
34. Always say the truth
35. Somebody else do it
36. Be known for my audicity
37. Be romantic
38. The world should be more like my image
39. Step on others to get ahead
40. Be focused on achieving my goals

[PossessedGravy]

These are all really thought provoking! Love the video as usual! Thanks again, Abby!

[Mellanii.always]

I love these types of asmr videos because I have a super short attention span and I might have adhd :/ I love when people give me challenges and questions so I don’t get bored

[petunieasmr]

These questions are so tricky!! but very fun<3

[almondmilk]

I know it’s a matter of preference but your whisper/soft spoken voice just does it for me!

[anface]

I didn't think I would fall asleep to this so easily 😴

[thebluenorthpodcasts]

Everything you try works perfectly! Great job!!

[Psittac]

Oh wow, just started the video but those glasses REALLY fit you. *Maybe a touch smaller for daily use. *#7 The relationships I have and the career I have are the same thing. My life blew apart 20 years ago and today I'm riding around in my dad's van like I was when I was a kid but this time around it's sustaining the whole family, I actually don't have to choose. #10 I am fighting the urge to choose with my head. My heart is weak and I want to wait it out for heaven and just get by. #11 I gave 7 years to a mentally challenged woman to improve her life when I needed help the most. #13 alone no question. #18 I think that with age I am kind of letting go of my dreams, at the very least changing what they are. I have no strength to act on what I had hoped for in the past. #22 I have almost no concept of what others might think of myself, when ever I think about the opinions of others, it almost causes me to panic and question everything. #24 the meaning of life is good will and love for all. #29 prevent "party days" or drug usage. #31 I'll have to take a nap tomorrow and think about it. #34 I'm almost physically incapable of lying. #39 I'm a genetic door mat.

[anderson_c_oliveira]

Another very cool and super interesting video! And you look amazing in glasses!! 💖