How to Make Him Want You More - 4 Tips to Make Him Value You Again

In this video, you will learn how to make him want you more, 4 tips to make him value you again. Have you noticed ta change in your relationship.  Are you worried that your partner is taking you for granted and doesn’t want you as much? Do you want things to go back to the way they once were? In this video I’ll explain the four things you can do to make him want you and value you more.

I’m Dr Antonio Borrello, and I’m a psychologist and relationship coach. This channel is all about helping you build great relationships so you can grow happy with the people you love. So, if you’re interested in making your love life the best part of your life, start now by subscribing here.

Usually his change in behavior is due to one of three different reasons. And those are

1. His change is a reflection of your changes...  
2. his change is simply a matter of him getting comfortable and not paying attention or 
3. His change in behavior and attitude are due to the fact that he values you less. 

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[TheAttractionTriggers]

*To love is nothing. To be loved is something. But to love and be loved, that's everything* 🥰

[fabbfabb]

1. Let them invest in you. 2. Put yourself first. 3. Become scarce. 4. Be a little bit mysterious.

[mercyessiah]

This really true I tried and it worked. At first he was into me and in the his behavior changed so I stopped calling, stopped texting, stopped being available, I became so scarce and as am talking now he's going crazy. please ladies we shouldn't we're losers we should respect and value ourselves. Thanks DR

[Megasupercoolest]

Never give jerks a chance, if he wants to leave...go ahead.

[animusrye]

Yes these tips work. It only took a few days for me lol he's the one tho. That's the thing, the connection or chemistry has to be there. If these tips don't work then trust me that rejection was a BLESSING. May you all find true love. Just let your heart guide you and most of all LOVE YOURSELF 1ST

[Rose-wlnj]

Your tips actually work
He is obsessing now😂

[ssimarsimar]

When you are used to giving him all your attention, it's really hard to play the 'scarce' card... But tomorrow I won't be the first one to call.. 📞🎀

[noemijoan]

What you’re saying is absolutely true!
Thing is, if there is the guy I am really in love, it’s just incredible hard to stay strong and not give in to early. I just struggle again and again with this. And I have to start all over again. But I am learning this. He might be not the one, but I am using this situation to learn to be and behave more confident. I think it’s essential to learn what my standards are and to communicate them. I recommend everyone to work on confidence and selfworth. If you’re feeling like it’s impossible to meet people and following your interests, consider a coach or a therapist to help you to reach your inner goals and to learn to be independent and yourself, so you’re significant other feels like a wonderful addition to your life and not like you’re dependent on him. Sorry for my English. Hey from Germany

[sabrinacorpus]

I was dating someone for about 2 months.. everything was great now I’m alone again. His reasons “ I love you but I’m not in love with you” “you deserve better”, “you’re too perfect” “I’m not fit to be your man” “ we should break up be friends” .. when he said that I was like “um no I can’t be friends with because I have feelings and I wouldn’t want to see u worth anyone else” he’s like “ but you’re my favorite person, you don’t have to cut me off” I know I put in a lot of effort than I should.. it’s harder than u think to just stop.. but I actually liked this guy dispite our fall out .. why am I like this ... I’m just being myself and literally no one appreciates me.. I constantly get “it’s too much, you love too much”. I’m dumbfounded because.. it’s not that at all... I just know what it’s like to not have love so I give it instead of being so cold hearted .. I guess I’ll never have enough value to find my person.

[bindugem]

Yes, i am facing the 3rd situation, he values me less and i can clearly see that. Thank you for your valuable suggestions, i am going to try now

[nkb]

I did not know that lol, I was too nice and thoughtful but I didnt realize how Men actually loves to chase and I get it now. And yah it works, they chase when you focus on yourself which Im now doing since last week. Thanks to youtube and this guy, if only I learned more from my mother and grandmother's experiences 😆 always know your value and learn to say no or walk away. If they truly love you, they will lower their pride and see how important and worthy/highly value you are. But always be brave enough to walk away whenever you feel less important. I know it hurts if you walk away from someone you love, but walking away or showing absence makes them realize more about your importance. Men needs space to think and feel about the women their pursuing

[ngakin]

This is exactly what I am experiencing in my marriage now. Thanks so much

[amberhill]

I've done it all. It changes for a day or so. Then back 2 mean and hateful words as well as pulling back. On top of him not making changes like I have that he asked

[kellycurtgaspar]

My bf cheated on me we broke up then i gave him another chance..but it seems like he still contacting that girl..and im getting tired of his lies. After that broke up everything has change. Now i decided not to respond his messages and call.

[MeliLeani]

I started seeing someone & after 3 dates, he started to pull away. I sensed it immediately & figured he was busy with work & his son. So I gave it a week or so & I told him I completely understand work & family will always be top priority, I sense our dynamic was changing & if he felt like he didn’t have time for a relationship, that I understood that & I appreciate him & his time. He said all of a sudden he didn’t see a future with me & he was sorry, I’m amazing & so understanding, blah blah blah. I stopped texting him & initiating conversation. If he wants to speak to me, he will. And he has. Every single day. Why?! If you don’t see a future with me, why are you asking about my day? I genuinely like him & he’s not a jerk or a player type. He’s a family man who’s hard working & I get that. He initially made me believe he was looking for a relationship & I told him it’s too soon to tell where this is going(it’s only been about 1.5 months!) and we should not put any pressure on it. He said I was right & maybe he was overthinking things. I told him to sleep on it & told him while he’s doing his thing, I’ll do mine. I want someone to want me, pursue me & I won’t chase you! I’m super confused & wondering if I should cut him off? We have so much fun together & it’s like we’ve been together for years! But I don’t want to get hurt

[laceycole]

I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year... Lately he has been distant and we’ve been arguing.. it’s like the glue keeping us together is drying out & ive been trying so hard to keep him but he is the one taking me forgranted. I’m going to follow these tips and see what happens! Thank you. It’s so very much needed. I love the man that I have been dating. I will certainly be strong enough to be scarce & mysterious. No matter how much it might kill me to not reach out FIRST like I do... I’m not going to do it!

[jacklinemirembe]

That's why I love you Dr Antonio.

[NARMIAVO]

I got pregnant and fell in love with him. I've been giving him all my attention and love but he completely declined. I am always at home waiting for him since we share a car and I dont have much friends. It hurts seeing him pull away. He wanted to marry me but now he just wants other women. I'm hurt. I'll try to stop thinking about him so much. I will continue to give him love and kindness but I won't do it as much anymore. I want him to value me. I don't want to feel ugly and worthless. Sometimes you just need to back off and if he pulls away and finds someone else, you did all you can. I realize that now. I can't control him nor make him love me just as much as I love him. It hurts so much but I'll let myself fade

[lilianapaolapartidanavarro]

Thanks... he was so sweet and caring and just after a missunderstanding hes been ignoring me and not coming to see me! I hope this works

[mineb]

Im loosing my interest with him. Tiring I'm not happy anymore.