Do You Struggle to Say 'NO'? TRY THIS! | #shorts

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Do you struggle to say ‘NO’? And tend to overcommit or take on more than you can handle??

👉 DELAY YOUR RESPONSE!!

A 2014 Columbia University Study found you only need to postpone making a decision by 50 to 100 milliseconds to make a better decision when the pressure’s on.

Avoid that automatic reactive “yes, of course I can do that”, pause and take a second to breathe before you reply.

It can also help to create a greater intentional delay to give yourself more time to really think about what’s the right course of action.

You could reply:

👉“I can’t commit now but I’ll get back to you by the end of the week.”

👉”I’ll need to check my calendar. Can you check in with me again tomorrow?”

👉”I have a few urgent priorities to tend to first. If it’s urgent, you might want to ask someone else, otherwise we can meet again early next week to discuss?”

Have you ever done this? 👇

📚 Research:
Teichert, T., Ferrera, V. P., & Grinband, J. (2014). Humans optimize decision-making by delaying decision onset. Plos one, 9(3), e89638.

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This lady deserves a Nobel Prize in human optimization ✌🙂

smoothsentient
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That's effective communication. Saying the true feelings but worded in a pleasing way. Perfect.
But then there r some who will still persist to get a yes. That's another ball game to handle.

EldhoseJoseph
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Great advise. The only useful shorts I have seen as of late.

MohiHash
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Thanks. It’s amazing. How easy. You. Make facts are. You are blessed. Thank you

ameershakur
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Wow! Thank you 😊 I'm going to try this on my wife right now!

stevensdad
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Yes Shadezahrai. I'm always saying yes cause I like to help all. But everything adds on me.

savifunteachnpray
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I can just listen to this lady talk all day. Fascinating woman.

vodkamartini
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I normally don't struggle to say no, but I really love your polite responds.

JH-uvqx
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Wow, did I ever need this video, thank you so very much.

kitfranzman
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That really helps, I am just too bad at saying NO, hence end up doing more...apart from that, I need more people like you to talk this way...

amitr
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Keep this information coming.Teach these people the knowledge they need.

roseola
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I need to think twice before agreeing. Thanks a lot for this reminder

aodh
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Love u Shade..u r amazing... thanks a lot.. that helped a lot

mukul
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This is a good one. Thank you. Definitely needed a strategy on this one for dealing with certain customers.

kashfortheking
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Very wise statement lady. Thanks so much!

Chris-pjjg
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It's really a good lesson to learn..

rawngbawlahlondo
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Thank you for the wonderful advice, Ms Sparkly Eyes.

MayukhDewan
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It's me...that always say "Yes" and I am sorry after that...❤

KalinaKrencheva
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Is in my past I used to be self-defeating because I'm so sacrificing and a lot of ways and altruistic but I have learned that I have to have limits and I have to do things for myself also but that usually involves helping other people anyway so I'll be doing my music and preaching probably or talking more than preaching I think if you can teach people something new that they haven't heard of before that's inspiring people towards happy spirits then I do it and if I see wrong I talk to people about it and I turn on my activist part of me and I speak up and say things about what I see and what harm could come of things if people do certain thing and expect different results other than somebody blowing up or getting violent so I try to help out where I can and I'm going to continue doing that I'm getting stronger since I had my surgery done and I feel a lot better I feel much better my heart is strong and that's good. I appreciate your input Sade I'm not sure if I spelled that right but yes I appreciate your input as you are a psychologist and I'm just a psychologist buff at least three interesting I was able to talk to her quite well and I miss that but you know life goes on and I have to find someone else.

waynebonavia
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Very informative and helpful... Thanks a lot...

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