There’s a difference between communicating & being dramatic. Part 2 #youtubeshorts #healing #dating

[dawnolsen]

I’m so sick of being called “crazy” or a “bitch” or “dramatic” or “pmsing” when I have a problem with something, I want to stick up for myself, or have healthy boundaries. There is truly something lacking in society today and it’s not okay.

[Nil-Day]

You’re so secure and healthy dude I love it

[lexalove]

As someone who is older than Kaitlin she literally has such a great mindset. I wish when I was her age that I had thr knowledge and attitude that she has towards life. She had the keys to life and happiness that most don't understand until later in life.

[Linz]

Love this! Been with my partner for 23 years and we hardly fight because we tell each other if something is bothering us and move on after. Holding in negative feelings or having grudges is not healthy! Girl you’re smart! 👍

[ahk]

Amen! I’m all about telling my husband when he rubs me the wrong way. Same for myself, we’re better for it. We know each other’s boundaries, we wouldn’t be this far without communication. Communicating your boundaries isn’t taboo.

[Mommabear_WelcomeToHolland]

You are real and if people perceive that as drama, that's their problem. See we are surrounded by people that refuse to change, that shift blame onto the people reaching out because they can never self examine their actions, rationality, logic, reasonings. So instead, we just do our best to never be like that. Keep your boundaries and you'll have your peace at the end of the day ❤

[lkxnlgo]

Clear communication is the key to have a great friendship, relationship, etc! People who do not want to listen that is their problem. I always tell people I AM NOT A MIND READER, SPEAK UP!!! How can I help someone or know what they want from me if they don't speak up and tell me!❤

[Notinuse_]

Preach. Seriously. We run to social media and our friends and family but don’t go to the route of the problem and express how we feel… communication is key. Proud of you x

[Avianaluvsbeach]

I totally understand where you are coming from Kaitlin. You are not being dramatic for saying what you feel and standing up for yourself. ❤❤

[colleenthompson]

This is why I do agree that maybe you should get to know a guy without throwing everything you are going through out there. It's ok to just k
eep some things like dating to yourself. It will allow you privacy which is nice in a new relationship especially while u heal. Also you can't put all girls in a category like that. It's ok to vent to your friends then go straight to the source sometime's it allows you to see a different side to something.

[tj]

Exactly girl ! I love you and your confidence you are a high value woman, I wish I knew these things when I was younger, even a few years ago ! Appreciate you and teaching us all how to respect ourselves and in relationships ! Continue saying true to yourself ! Negative comments are people who have low self esteem and jealous we can’t change hate ! Unfortunately ! ❤

[alejandramontez]

I’m learning my boundaries with my own mother because she’s the one whom mentally, emotionally abuses me and I didn’t get that until this year. Your story has helped me in many ways! Thank you for sharing it all! ❤

[chelsea]

I agree with this 100%!! I got married at 18 and my husband and I have been happily married for 15 years now for this reason. We never played the marry go round games or the I can deal with this is silence games either. Sometimes we get defensive and feel a certain way, BUT we know it’s for the best for tomorrow and the next day.

[alesha_coldheart]

boundaries is 1 of the healthiest things in ANY relationship! u rock girl

[luana]

I love the way that you are! You are the epitome of a woman that knows what she wants and who she is! 💚💃🌺

[misfitbritt]

This generation is a lost cause.... YOU are a breath of fresh air! Keep being you girl!

[KrissyB]

You have no idea the level of respect that I have for you. You are so inspiring, inspirational, you’re so honest with yourself and each other and you actually sit back and think about things and the repercussions of them and how it’s gonna affect your life and then you figure out what is best for you and you do it. I have been working so hard at trying to be more like you and do what’s best for myself and I love watching you and hearing everything you have to say don’t let the petty comments bother you because you know you’re way better than those people!!! And exactly what you said there’s a lot of people out here that’s gonna have a long road ahead of them in life because they keep their mouth shut and don’t deal with things right in there and I used to do that and it tore my life apart because I did that!!! Kaitlyn just know that you are a beautiful person inside and out and you’ve got the world on your shoulders honey, and you are going to go big places in this world keep doing you 🩷🩷🩷🩷

[mystycmaker]

PERIOD POOH!!! you tell em!!! 🎉🎉🎉 Never stop doing you!! You are incredible; huge inspiration to me in my, “stand up for myself”, “take no shit” era! 🤍💪🏻💫

[carolinecross]

Oh honey I'm so happy to see you drawing that line and sticking to it! A lot of people don't know or understand how we are from NY, NJ we are definitely a different breed! Love you and your confidence. ❤🙏🏼

[mrs.tomcollins]

Please keep sharing your truth!!!! The ones who leave those comments haven’t matured enough to comprehend your level of confidence. You’re a wonderful example to young girls/women who are struggling right now. Thank you 🙏