Dating a Younger Man - Secret Tips - What You MUST Know!

Dating A Younger Man? 25 Things You Better Know
By: Carlos Cavallo

One of the most controversial parts of dating and relationships is the age of your partner. Is it okay to date someone younger, older? If you're dating a younger man, you better know what to do.

We often think about older women dating younger men as “cougars.” But that label is just not fair.

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You might be a 40 or 50-something woman dating a guy in his 20s or 30s. Or you might be in your 60s or 70s dating a younger guy. The important factors are where you are in life, and where he is in life.

Age is just a state of mind right?

Well, not really. Age is much more important than you might realize.

I've already talked about dating an older man. But what about dating a younger man?

Is it okay to date a younger guy?
How young is too young?
Can dating a younger man work out?
Well the good news is that ANY relationship can work.

The bad news is that you have to MAKE it work.

Relationships don't run on autopilot. If you've ever tried this, you probably know what I mean.

"It doesn't matter who you date if you don't put the effort in to make a relationship work." - Carlos Cavallo

Why do guys get into relationships with older women?
Guys know that women over 30 are more focused and probably a little bit more emotionally stable. (Probably.)
A lot of the women he meets in the early 20s don't really appeal to him other than sexually
He may not be ready for a family, and he's looking for a woman who's already had hers
She probably already knows who she is
There are probably as many reasons for this as there are men.

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Before you date a younger man - Here are some secrets you MUST know:

SECRET TIP #1: Good thing - He doesn't have as much history
One of the best things about dating a younger guy is that he hasn't had time to cultivate a long string of past romances.

He may have a few relationships under his belt, and that would be a good thing. You don't want a guy that doesn't have any relationship experience.

SECRET TIP #2: BAD Thing - He doesn't have as much history!
The problem with a younger guy is that he doesn't have a lot of relationship experience, either. Some of the relationship skills that you take for granted may be foreign to him.

Be prepared to educate him on a lot of the subtle nuances of a relationship.

This is why it's a good idea to choose a younger guy who is willing to learn - AND knows that he doesn't know everything.

SECRET TIP #3: You better know his priorities
It should be obvious, but a younger guy is going to have different priorities in life than an older guy would.

Sometimes a younger guy is going to be more into his adventure sports than he is into building a career. Or maybe his focus is on his career and he's not ready to really settle down.

It's up to you to figure out where his head is at and whether he's ready for the kind of relationship you want.

SECRET TIP #4: Be careful you're not trading age for excitement
It's no secret that older guys can be pretty boring. Like, really really boring.

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But you also want to make sure that you don't choose a younger guy just because you think he's more exciting. He may be exciting, but he may also be completely untethered and lacking a stable foundation.

You might need a guy that can keep up with you. You might be energetic and full of life.

And if you can't seem to find the guys that are willing to keep up, you may have to go younger in the dating pool. Just be careful that you're not seeking these guys because you need a few thrills. Ultimately, you're probably going to want a man who is willing to slow down enough to be with you. (Or speed up!)

SECRET TIP #5: Younger guys are easier to sculpt and change
The truth is that if he's younger that means he hasn't had time to build up resistance to change.

This can be a good thing if he is malleable. You might need a little project to work on.

Just remember that no matter how old he is, a man doesn't want to feel like you have to change him.

A man's number one need from a woman is her acceptance.
If you're more interested in shaping him then accepting him, he will notice.

But the good news is that if he's younger, he -

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Dating a younger man

[avrilskelly]

I'm 50 and he is 30 and we have been married for 5 years

[boorat]

Met on Tinder & I'm 52 he's 31. He never wanted to get married until he met me & now he wants to get married. I specifically told him the 3 things I wanted in life. He is working hard to do this for us! Sexually we are extremely compatible!

[lynnmcdonald]

I’m 50 and he’s 35 and he has been chasing me for six years - I wasn’t trying to find a younger man - it just happened and we’re ❤🎉getting married 😂🎉

[birthespiers]

73 years young. My man is 57. And he loves me like crazy.. it’s great

[yoshebelllillian]

Never put limitations on love...
You cant tell your heart who to love..
These comments alone proves that love conquers all♡

[abdelrahmane]

As a man currently dating a 12 years older woman, I can say this video is complete. I’m divorced and I have kids from my previous relationship and now totally in love with a 47 years old woman. She looks really younger too. I thought she was my age. Too late when I found out, I was already sold.

[datingrelationshiptips]

I know dating someone who is way younger or older than you comes with a lot of societal questions, but so far as you and your partner have love and understanding, nothing should stop you. You should think about your happiness first in every situation.

[FinestNigerians]

Everyone enjoy everyday and own it.

Enjoy it while it last. Any relationship can work out and any relationship can go sour. It’s life. It has got nothing to do with age.

Live life, love daily and

[palomahealing]

That's what I love about a younger guy! Not much history and I like that they're fresh and not damaged emotionally!

[joanieofarc]

I'm in a relationship with a younger man for the past 3yrs we are very happy, the happiest I've ever been

[jenikb]

I’m 55, he’s 43. We moved in together. I have my career, he has his. I’ve seen his exes and heard the stories. There’s no question why he chooses to go older now.

[juanitahardy]

I am smiling as I am 20 years older and he has more relationship history than me. He is changing himself for himself, not because I asked him to, which is the way it should be. I love him just the way he is. I do not require another person to boost my self esteem, I respect him for his intellect and his heart.

[lornahaynes]

A younger man is refreshing l find older men tries to be bossy and set in their ways.

[Bohohoho]

I am 41 he is 28 we are getting married

[lornahopkins]

I met a 51 year old man and we clicked right away. We just feel comfortable with each.other. So far so good. Lots of talking and teasing. He is educated so our minds match. I have a college degree too. So we have a connection and we are having fun getting to know each other.

So twenty years won't make any difference. Younger people die suddenly too. Nothing is guaranteed.

[deborahphillips]

I was married 33 yrs to an older man..after the divorce I have dated younger men..i was contacted several times over a period of a few years on a dating site by a younger man..i answered him politely i felt he was a little young for me...well about 4 months ago he contacted me again and I decided to ask him some questions..so we talked and found out we had things in common..so we agreed to meet for lunch..that went very well and we agreed to see each other again and again..we are trying not to put labels on anything..it's too soon..but there is a definite connection..i never would have imagined it..i am 70 and he is 33 i had an issue at first with the age difference..but i no longer do..he is a treasure to me..and I am glad I gave this a chance..whatever happens..no regrets here..

[eyeopeningtruth]

It's individual because biological clock is not same for everyone. Many older women look quite younger & enthusiastic than most younger man. It's not gender based but individual bio system. Any gender can look younger at any age, it depends on genetics or individual bio. None of same years born die 9n same year. Some die quite young some die very old. Few years difference like 10 to 15 years don't matter if there is love & youthful looks

[miabianc]

Younger men make me feel more desired 🤷🏻‍♀️

[kikujirofromkyoto]

I'm 45 and he's 25..He hit on me for days and I didn't even notice. I dismissed it completely, probably because I couldn't see how he could be drawn to me being this older than him. Until the day I left the hostal (that's where we met)..it took me a while to realise he was actually hitting on me. When I told him my age, he said he had thought I was 35..lol Anyway, I was bothered by the age gap for a short time, he didn't seem to care. I have stopped mentioning it but it does bother me still. However, we hit it off like crazy.

[lisachabrol]

Some men like date older women because they take life seriously :)