An INSIDIOUS type of narcissistic BULLYING

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[MT-txbu]

The intrusive questions, snide comments, triangulation, victimizing themselves, raging, gaslighting, no accountability, silent treatments. The list goes on and on.

[jaythehulkmoeller]

Your argument that bullying is only “many against one” is overly simplistic and overlooks the complexity of power dynamics in bullying. . Bullying is about power, not just numbers. Narcissistic bullies often use gaslighting to make the victim look like the bully, even when they’re alone. This manipulation distorts the truth and misleads others. An ethical judge must recognize these tactics, not just rely on numbers, because bullying can happen through psychological control, not just majority force.

[jessicaselenecenteno]

Wow. Humiliation, coercion and intimidation. Due to an imbalance of power. What a coward.

[therapistsandnarcissism]

My ex husband was not just a bully but family terrorist. They are psychopaths

[cellosong]

By the time I was 5 years old I knew I could trust no one in my family. That is the definition of a sick family system.

[maryhall]

Deeply entitled, lacking empathy, antagonistic, emotionally stunned, supply seeking, controlling, narcisistic, power seeking, insecure.

[rebeccaketner]

It’s the bystanders who can control bullying. Silence is complicity.

[ikasugami]

I grew up being conditioned to allow my boundaries to be crossed, accept being gaslighted, invalidate my feelings, and put everything on myself. Now I am almost 40 and working on unlearning those things....it takes a lot of time and effort.

[liambraithewaite]

Workplaces havent done much to improve bullying either

[nji]

A narc NEVER works alone. The family cult protects them even though they may be terrified of them. So sick. Take one link out, and the entire chain falls apart.

[thehappyhound]

Emotional blackmail is also a form of bullying. I think that's how vulnerable narcissists bully. Find the nicest person you can and guilt them into submission.

[Ziegut]

When I started setting boundaries with my bullying Narc family, they claimed I was “bullying” them.

[RadmanGarrett]

At my high school there was a "zero tolerance" policy, which basically means the bully can push and push as much as they want, until the bullied kid finally stands up to them, then both get suspended equally. It basically just benefitted the bully kids

[upstatenewyork]

Bullying within the family makes life suck.

[KathieMihindukulasuriya]

In grade school, one girl was bullied mercilessly by this boy. One day, at recess, he was kicking a soccer ball at her - getting as close as he could without actually hitting her and she finally had enough. She took off her watch and handed it to her friend, walked over and punched the boy in the face and he dropped like a sack of potatoes. He had a black eye, both got detention for a month and she was never targeted again. I can't say I recommend violence, but she had been bullied for months and the school never intervened (early 80s, still the wild west). I remember just standing there in shock, because it had not occurred to me until then that you could fight back.

[ElizabethWildy]

Bullying in nursing is rife. I see brand new nurses leave time and time again all because of bullying. Other nurses, patients, and other disciplines get to abuse nurses with no repercussions, yet people are confused about the shortage. It has become absurd.

[taraarrington]

Group gaslighting is also the most insidious form of psychological manipulation and warfare a human being can experience on top of like group bullying.

[Montrealwoman]

The worst part bullying by a narcissist in the family is the one who is enabling the bully making the narcissist think its okay to bully..

[subhammandal]

Being bullied by neighbors is also terrible

[IzabelaWaniek-ix]

Bullying in a family is absolutely devastating. When you would rather stay at school as long as possible and dread weekends and holidays, your life is a nightmare. And then you marry another bully who is a narcissist and you are 18. Then you get divorced and fall prey to another bully, this time a covert narcissist and from here you are targeted by a mega bully a malignant narcissist and when the pain is unbearable you wake up and say NO MORE! Thank you dr Ramani ❤ God bless you ❤