How 'Energy Vampires' Use Trauma Bonding To Get What They Crave #shorts

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When someone gives love and takes it away -- again and again, you end up trauma bonding. In this video I show how energy vampires use trauma bonding to drain you of the energy they want.
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[phabulouss]

“Don’t be a lemon.” Be lemonade. Leave the bitterness behind add sugar to your life and continue to love, nurture yourself. Thanks, Anna, this is validation of what my life was like growing up. Off and on, hot and 🥶 cold. Mostly cold.

[Moreover]

This really helps explain the physical effect of them on us. Exhausting, nonstop stress, and trauma. Causes illness after longterm

[mpalasi]

If you walk away, you're no longer on their chess board and can't be used as their energy pawn.

[KiKi-teyd]

I eventually called him out on dangling the carrot in front of me.
The prize is always just out of reach. And when you've almost got your nose on it, they snatch it away, give the silent treatment, make you miss them, then return to drag you back in again. Its psychotic and so damaging on your sense of self worth.

[stacyjaye]

Yeah, in my world, as the guys would say, the juice just ain't worth the squeeze. I am beyond done.

[lilvalentine]

I thought traumer bonding was where you only made friendships with people who were also traumatised and that traumer was your common ground. I'm glad you clarified that for me thanks.

[krisdiane]

That's a really great way to describe it. Thanks, Anna!

[AnGeLaOYA]

They literally FISH with our emotions!!!! I have been thinking of this lately when I am forced to interact with him. I just look him dead in the eyes and "think"... I see you. I know what you're doing. Stop.

[SN-szkw]

OMG. You just threw me a lifeline by describing a consistent but subtle behavior that has been slowly but steadily destroying my sanity & wellbeing. 💗💗💗

[marlo]

Makes sense. I was so hard to leave my ex and now I know why. I got addicted to the next fix.

[serenity_in_reverie]

omg Anna! i'm in slowly transition to move away from trauma bond situation.
i began to notice the pattern. and now i can see who are truly wanting to stay by my side.

[robertvangorder]

I never heard this before about Trauma Bonding. Very very true… I needed this teaching. Thank you! - Michelle

[candywilkins]

My mother does this !!! I'm 55 and see it for what it is!!! She only uses me for narrisst supply it's not love!!! My ex husband did this to me for our 36 year relationship!!! Its not love!!!

[ericakuhn]

It still hurts and affects me 8 years later but I will not ever give up on myself or my relationship. Thankful I found a man who helped guide me toward God and is always supportive of my healing. Thank you for your channel.

[Allthingscheri]

My son told me I was in a trauma bond - I wasn’t sure but he did take it then give it. Leave come
Back. Nice & Nasty. Loving & Hateful. Up and down. I rode the wave until I started to feel too bad - more then good. About a year on and off.

[blisserio]

I would love to see more authors use this in characters 🤗

[bbdn]

Lemon bonding ~ Drink with hot water and ginger (half thumb size) in the morning (on an empty stomach) to detox, add a dash of honey to taste. Take care 🌌💖💫

[spkydddy]

My father does this all the time I never thought about it that way. I'll try not getting worked up next time he decides to be a douche.

[AndreaLikesMusic]

What a great analogy ❤ I mistook a stable relationship for not-love bc it didn’t have that chaotic energy I was used to with past toxic relationships. Still healing that, hopefully not too late ❤

[bonnieoles]

Yes, this is what he did! Thank you for explaining it to me. I didn't know what an emotional vampire was.