The Problem With Dating Insecure Women

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[raphaelna]

You cant build up a woman's confidence. No matter how supportive, loving, affirming you are. If they have low self esteem, non of that love matters. They dont believe your love, or forget, and will focus on how you glanced at the waitress. And when the relationship ends, you'll be painted as the bad guy and they were a victim.

[leehayes]

You can’t fix a persons insecurities. That’s something that they have to internally address on their own.

[Libra_Girl.]

I'm insecure and finally owning it. I've been attracted to guys who treat me like crap because I have low self-esteem.
So I've been working on myself in therapy, staying single until I'm healthy enough to date again. Great message!

[wmhhealth]

I've done this twice now. Never again. They will make your life a living hell and destroy your self esteem.

[comb]

Life is too short to be trying to fix someone male or female. If you have a bunch of insecurities then don't date until you feel secure about yourself mentally and physically

[Rogue-Sentinel]

Based on my personal experiences, I have found that if a woman exhibits toxic and insecure behavior, it may not be worth a man's time to try to help her overcome those issues. In fact, attempting to do so can be extremely challenging since she may be her own worst enemy and resistant to subconscious change.

[joshuaburkey]

Having the maturity to actually understand this is key

[MKULTRA_Victim_]

A woman who you need to "work on" is like voluntarily tying an anchor to your life. These broken individuals will bring you down to their level. I've done it before and learn my lesson. No more "project" women for me.

[rozquadjazdy]

Some time ago I helped to fix insecurity girl and when she has more confidence... she went to looking a better man. :D
Sometimes we make a mistake only one time in life. That was a lesson. Try to be a better man but keep your eyes open.

[jellyfish]

Nope. Can't stand insecurity.
It's not cute. It's annoying. I'm not gonna' chase you around like a little lost puppy. Can't love anyone else until you love yourself.

[perfectjays]

I’ve only been with one female that I could confidently say she was 100 percent secure in herself and I gotta say.. if you get a female whos secure in who she is and is confident.. and she’s into you.. don’t fuck that up lol you won’t have the crazy mind games. (All girls have some mind games but insecure women have different types of mind games)

[crazyworld]

If she needs constant validation from others, then she does not value her own self, but rather values how others perceive her. This likely cannot be fixed and is a legit personality disorder.

Lay everything in the world at her feet, and instead of respecting you for it, she will look down on you because you have nothing left to give.

I'll pass. Disney Princess Syndrome is one of the worst.

[Qdude]

As someone who's been with an insecure woman in the past, it is NOT endearing at all. It is a huge turn off for me.

[Hammerstein]

She may also feel insecure because she thinks she is not beautiful. I dated one, I feel sorry for such women. They obviously experienced something in their youth.

[rickygilbert]

You are correct. Destroying someone ego will only make them more insecure and hurt them more. Best to avoid and don't deal with those issues.

Then again, if you are planning to be in a serious relationship with that person then yes built-up that person.

Awesome video LFA 💯

[AnupKumar-nown]

You are absolutely right brother, one needs lots of confidence to tame insecure women

[modernman]

Most women have self esteem issues. It just depends on how severe they are. I agree that both people should compliment each other but honestly that seems to be a lost art in the dating pool. You should only get into a relationship to give, and if both people aren't giving it won't work.

[emilyl]

I used to be very insecure and this would always come out in dating. I would idealize the person I had feelings for and try to convince him of my worrthiness. My therapist told me this was due to my dad who is a perfectionist with high expectations, like myself. My dad only gave me words of affirmation when I did things like make good grades. So I tend to be very performace oriented and it would come out in dating. It didnt make sense to people why I was insecure because I'm built like Mariah Carey from the 90s and have a lot going on for me. Took awhile to become aware of where all this was coming from and further understanding the anxious attachment style. Then when these guys from my past come back I have no idea what I saw in them.

[Jesuswalks]

If you fix her she'll move on to another guy, they don't want to be fixed, they want to be perpetual victims. Let God fix them his much better at it then you are. Your right you shouldn't get into a relationship with an insecure girl and I would also say if your a guy you shouldn't get into a relationship until youv dealt with your own insecurity. There's nothing wrong with being single boy or girl just make sure your dealing with your problems with God and when your ready get into relationships, I'm not into hook up culture I don't want to get a girl pregnant ATM, I'm more happy single then I would with a girl, I'd rather persue a relationship with God and do good to be good then follow the crowd into perdition. Not alone wolf I'm a lamb but because I feel like the black sheep when I'm around people I keep to myself. IV got along way to go before I ever become a normal human being again but as I have faith in God trusting and experiencing his freedom and blessings I feel better every year and so even though I'm a volcel I'm not an incel anymore but I'm still a mentalcel until IV got a sound mind. I would encourage you to reach out to Jesus in the privacy of your house you don't need to go to church and play that game but you can let Jesus fix you and make you into a man and you'll look back in your life knowing you made the right disission. It's not about going to heaven in the after life it's about experiencing heaven on earth before you die so you know your going to heaven and it all comes down to faith do you trust Jesus died for you defeated death and hell by rising from the dead will you call out to him knowing his watching you ready to receive you and do you trust him with your life will you let him change you with our you knowing it will you let him bless you when you do something good will you let him give you grace when you humble your heart and soul. Will you share his message with others even when no one else believes but you. These are the things you should be asking yourself because there is a devil and he will do anything in his power to keep you from salvation and you have angels guiding you to know Jesus but its up to you wether you want this or not. Like I said you don't need to be religious you don't need to die a martyr but you can talk to him like you would a good friend and have a relationship with him and he can connect you with his real people in the world and you can be a witness of Jesus with joy. Peace..

[JR_M_]

I support this msg. That's what I do with my girl. She was raised by a covert narc mother so she's insecure. I build up her confidence cause she needs it. But other dudes will say she's gonna leave once she's too confident. Lol A lot of guys will just straight-up never have a woman cause they listen to all the red pill caps even when it's illogical for the woman they're dealing with.