Your feelings dont matter to a narcissist. Toxic people will invalidate your feelings at all times

Your feelings dont matter to a narcissist. Toxic people will invalidate your feelings at all times. When you try to express your feelings to a narcissist they will typically ignore you or invalidate you.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

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Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you so much and lets HEAL together

[Azav]

Hey you reading this... you better listen REALLY good at 5:06

[lanettewilliams]

It's a strange phenomenon how this type of personality invalidates people's feelings. . . its insane. People should be thrown behind bars for this type of behaviour.

[Breakingfreefromnarcissism]

You can be crying right in front of them and they give you a blank stare

[rhondaclark]

A blank stare....he would mimic me crying.

[beautifullybroken]

Its like the infinity circle. You express your feelings and they twist it somewhere in the middle and send it right back to on you.

[stacy]

That was literally my life for 5 years. He would tell me to go find attention from someone else or go tell someone else. Then randomly accuse me of cheating. Glad I left.

[lisar]

Every time I brought up my feelings how he hurt me he would respond with things like "I'm fed up with the victim stuff" or "you're living in the past you need to move on" I was never heard or validated, communicating was impossible

[t.l.fowler]

Accurate account of what can happen. I promise, I didn't think I'd find myself in this type of relationship! The love "bombing" bonding phase is why/how it started. I had NO clue he would care nothing for my feelings. Whew!!!!

[Te]

“If you feel that way about me, why do you even want to be my friend?”

I realize now that was a great question that I should have truly asked myself. Could have saved myself years of wasted effort.

[mikabasavel]

He said stuff like “You’re just trying to make me feel bad”.

[Hawttamale]

Omgggg, I started to become afraid to tell him about my emotions cause he’d get so hostile and annoyed everytime I did. He’d be like “here we go again 😂”. It just makes you feel like your feelings don’t matter anymore. Like they knew I had no intention to start an argument but would always act like I was confrontational when asking why he stopped being affectionate. After a while he called me crazy, and I actually believed it at one point. I’m happy I see the truth now.

[sharonmire]

This was the first video that I knew without a doubt he has NPD. The skit is an exact replica almost to the tee of a majority of our conflict. He would always need me to be there for his problems, his feelings, but I was always invalidated no matter what it was. The worst was when I would try and tell him he hurt my feelings. It made absolutely no sense to me how someone could be so desensitized and cold-hearted when I am giving them all of what I could. It was never good enough, it was just expected. He would get mad if I was at the store if he stopped over unannounced. Everything for years was clouded, I read people really well and I couldn't read him, now it all makes sense. Since I've decided no-contact I see him when driving, every time he is gleaming and I am still traumatized. I wanted to know the truth, and now I got it. I was never good enough but nobody will ever be. I thought I was the broken one, or he had me believe it.

[Libran-usqp]

YES YES YES! He definitely didn't care about my feelings until I told him I wanted a divorce! At this point I was so over the hold fake A$$ charade. I'd made my mind up to leave. I finally removed my energy from him while living under the same roof and just plain stop caring. After decades of an unfilled marriage and 3 kids later I'm free. 🙌

[satomivic]

“ stop trying to bring me down, by feeling sorry for yourself, now you’ve ruined my day with the kids “ Whenever I expressed how I felt about how he was treating me.

[laminage]

They will stop talking to you because you actually had the "Nerve" to say "No!" one time when you said "Yes" 99 Times. They are so used to taking advantage of you, using you, taking you for granted that when they get caught it's too much for them to handle.

[ahamilton]

This is SO on point!! I went back 15 plus times in 11 years. It got worse in different ways each time. They will tell you whatever you want to get what they want from you. They can cry, confess, say they will change....that lasts for a couple days then they are back to their TOXIC WAYS. They will say..."I changed"....you saw it. What more do you want?

[JohnSmith-wons]

I've had the exact same conversation. She'd say I'm not responsible for your thoughts even if it was her selfishness that had caused those thoughts. Impossible to negotiate with.

[Whitejuliet]

My father invalidated me saying oh I’m not responsible for your feelings and your not allowed to cry ever which hurt me even more 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤧🤧

[SwEeTdReaMz]

When I saw the title of this video, I was like, “I really want to watch and listen but I’m not ready to yet.” I watched it and I’m in shock. I wanted to be heard for the past two years I thought everything was my fault that he didn’t care about my feelings. He’d say, “Why you tripping.” “You be acting bipolar.” “Get off the past I wish you would get over that.” Even ignoring my texts and pop up with “Wyd.” I thought I was losing my mind questioning my reality all the time but 2/2/2022 I blocked him I’m not going back

[JohnSmith-wons]

This is amazingly accurate. I should be grateful I've been dumped, this trauma bond is a killer though. Thank you for this video.