Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Lyrics)

Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Lyrics)

Selena Gomez

Lose You To Love Me Lyrics
[Verse 1]
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
Set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off-key in my chorus
'Cause it wasn't yours
I saw the signs and I ignored it
Rose-colored glasses all distorted
Set fire to my purpose
And I let it burn
You got off on the hurtin'
When it wasn’t yours, yeah

[Pre-Chorus]
We'd always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me, yeah

[Chorus]
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me

[Verse 2]
I gave my all and they all know it
You turned me down and now it's showing
In two months, you replaced us
Like it was easy
Made me think I deserved it
In the thick of healing, yeah

[Pre-Chorus]
We'd always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me, yeah

[Chorus]
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me

[Verse 1]
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
Set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off-key in my chorus

[Chorus]
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah

[Outro]
And now the chapter is closed and done
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us

[ankitajamwal]

I needed to lose you to find me . This line is so relaxing 😌😌😌. Loosing someone is painful but finding yourself is the best feeling .

Edit ; thanks for these wonderful comments ❤️❤️❤️
Have a great day and great year 🕊️🕊️

[kaileynicole]

"I saw the signs and I ignored it" hit me so hard.

[anicahcheers]

My boyfriend of 2.5 years dumped me almost exactly when this came out, and it's the only song that's helped me realize I'll be okay ❤

[CiarraMMichelle]

"Sometimes, good things fall a part so better things can fall into place."

[nmc]

"I saw the signs and I ignored it" and " you promised me the world and I fell for it" are the most painful lines in this song. My boyfriend of two years has been lying to me throughout our relationship. He lied to me about female friends being cousins, he lied to me about visiting a "cousin" in England, it turns out she was a friend. He downloaded a dating app but told me he didn't talk to anyone on it and had no intention to. I did see the signs a year into the relationship and I did ignore it, I always gave him the benefit of the doubt. he promised me the world at one point, and I fell for it, moving in together, having kids.. getting married. he used to call me his angel, his soulmate, gorgeous, every possible sweet thing a person in love calls their partner. but two days ago he told me he wasn't in love with me anymore but he wants to make it work so bad, I honestly don't know if ever cheated on me, and yes I'm being naive and in denial. I'm just in so so much pain and listening to this song ruins

Edit: we broke up.. his lies never stopped

Just needed to vent for anyone going through the same thing.

[Hanasyaffa]

From this song i learned :
You need to lose him/her to love yourself. The chapter is closed and just believe, you deserve better than before. Take the lessons and time will heals...

[janaang]

to the person who’s hurting rn, everything will be ok. Don’t lose yourself... you are beautiful and soon you’ll meet that person who will truly, madly, deeply love you...

[harrisonwestphall]

I don't care how everyone thinks.

I'm a man and I absolutely love this

Don't feel ashamed of who you are-ever.

[Jessss]

"In two months you replaced us
Like it was easy"
😭😭😭😭

[Chrissyaj]

2017 Changed me
2018 Broke me
2019 Opened my eyes
2020 I'm coming back

[emilywulfstudios]

This song goes out to my adopted "mother." I can finally love me because I won't "love" you anymore. No more abuse. <3

[sarahrebecca]

Who’s the better one?
Selena: like
Justin: comment



selena’s so strong💖(my opinion)

[IamGaby]

I never took Selena Gomez seriously til this song. This song gave me prospective on my own pain. It gave me the closure he never gave me

[Sky-subu]

For anyone who is hurting because of love, just remember:
Tears don't deserve to be on a face as beautiful as yours
<3

[shirinaa]

Selena's a queen. she's an inspiration to me and defines strength. Love her 💖

[RubberJunk]

This song is about letting go of a narcissistic partner by finding self-love and respect.
People settle for the love they think they deserve.
This partner drained her energy and then when they broke up he immediately found another partner to “prove” that she meant nothing to him.
It’s pretty common with narcissists.

[amyl.]

To anyone who needs to hear this: YOU ARE LOVED, EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY. NEVER LOSE HOPE. ❤❤❤

[jinankaifiya]

This song touched my heart and my tears can't stop...

[candace]

This speaks so much when you fall for a narcissist

[Visayan]

Justin Bieber (2015) : Love Yourself
Selena Gomez (2019) : Lose You to Love Me