#needy #clingy #desperate #texting #toxic #love #relationships #positivity #highvalue

#needy #clingy #desperate #texting #toxic #love #relationships #positivity #highvalue

[pamelakahl]

When he’s into it you won’t find yourself worrying about any of this.

[tonikiafreeman-norris]

If wanting to know where the relationship is going is too much for a man then they are not ready for a relationship! Relationship requires communication and security.

[imogenehopedesantos]

If u want to be free, dont date, dont screw, stay at home with your hands. Free ...

[cbws]

When two people fall in love the feeling is going to be mutual. People who talk about a partner is too needy, is always the one who don't need anyone.

[A_Free_Blk_Girl]

This is not gender specific! People do this when they are insecure and the person is simply not into you as much as you’re into them😳

[starfab]

I feel like the more I push for validation and asking for clarity for what our relationship status is, I pull away, not the man.

[pheleta]

Clearly the woman has chosen the wrong guy if she has to do all that. The right man will be there just as she needs and she for him. Sistahs, if this is your situation keep it moving. There will ALWAYS be a next one. The key is to choose wiser the next time.

[LeratoM]

This is why it helps to have your own stuff going on in your life and stay busy. I never want to seem clingy or desperate, no matter how into him I am. I text as much as he texts, I match energy. I have too much pride to be the one putting in or showing more interest lol.

[bebisterling]

But when we woman decide that we are done with men, that's also not ok...

[kaya_inNC]

The man you're into will tell you the truth and mold you. It's amazing

[livvyo]

If you need to do any of this, find another guy to date. He's not that interested. He can have his freedom 100%.

[alexrosaly]

I find the opposite to be true. I find that men easily upset when their expectations of emotional or physical contact is not met.

[k.prince]

I just had someone do this to me for 9 months and that was 8 months too long. He tried to video me 7-12 times a day, always calling, always texting every 1.5 hrs. That's not healthy or normal. I just started not to answer after having many discussions about it. It wore me out. I'm relieved it's over. Good riddance.

[sheriecemalone]

This is so true, I say this to women all the time, when I met my husband he asked me why I didn't call him. Well I did call him However if you told me you was going to work then why would I call you? If you said I'm going to hang out with the guy's I figure you call me when you leave. If I did spend the night at his house I would wake up early take a shower, clean his bathroom, and leave. He later told me those were some turn on's! My Father told me before, if a man wants you, you will know it!💞

[Aquaairintuitive]

Whose rules are these? 🤦🏾‍♀️ If you feeling him and he feeling you…text, call, hang out often, and be okay with clarity and validation! We keep treating relationships like they are leggings…one size don’t fit all!

[ajon]

After 43 years I’ve found that when a man wants you he makes it known and puts forth effort and loves when you call. Of course you have to be healed so you don’t call 10+ times per day.

[kimmiecrumley]

Women are emotional and if you can't deal with it as a man maybe you want a man

[jackiea]

As usual, you’re on point Coach. It works both ways. If every time a man calls you’re always available for their beckoning calls. He’ll thinks, and start to act as if he’s got you on lock down. The minute you missed his call, it will create friction.

Especially at the beginning of a relationship. Let him call but don’t pick up. Keep him guessing.

You have a life as well. Because he can’t reach you at his whim, don’t allow him to bring any nonsense to you. That’s signs of trust issues. Nip that in the bud.

All this checking up on from the woman; he’s not a child. If you all can’t trust each other, relationship can’t grow. That’s showing you’re insecurities. You’re allowed your past relationship to interfere with your present relationship. That’s a BIG a red flag. Communication and respect from the start goes a long way. Thanks for your constant words of wisdom. ❤

[bacnthaday]

It's best to be his FRIEND so that you can get to know him yes the friend zone can help you to get to know him and he can also get to know him plus this man is right give a person their space and let him give you yours as well.

[MultiDani]

If she is asking for reassurance you have already failed dude. Appreciate those who give you their time and attention or they will find someone else to give it to.