Why a Man Who Loves You Might Ignore You – Jordan Peterson Reveals the Truth

Why a Man Who Loves You Might Ignore You – Jordan Peterson Reveals the Truth

In this insightful video, we dive deep into the complexities of love and relationships through the lens of Jordan Peterson's wisdom. Have you ever wondered why the man you love might sometimes withdraw or ignore you? Jordan Peterson explains why this behavior often stems from a place of deep care and personal growth, rather than a lack of affection.

Love isn’t always straightforward, and sometimes, a man may need space to reflect, grow, and become the best version of himself—someone who is worthy of your love. This video explores the psychological and emotional layers behind this behavior, shedding light on the importance of self-improvement in relationships.

🔹 What you’ll learn in this video:
The hidden reasons behind a man’s withdrawal in relationships
The connection between self-improvement and love
How love can sometimes look like silence or absence
Understanding the psychological aspects of emotional growth

If you're navigating the complexities of love, this video offers valuable insights that can help you understand your partner's behavior and strengthen your connection.

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🎙️ Credits
This video is inspired by the profound insights of Dr. Jordan B. Peterson. Explore more of his work:
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[crystalspaint]

Another possibility is simply that you're giving yourself false hope by believing his feelings are deeper for you than they actually are.

[geelee]

In other words, if a man does not approach you or take action to come forward, let him be and you should move on. You have to continue your life, he’s not ready.

[RoseRoseRoseRoseRoseRose]

Giving space is needed and definitely okay but ladies, men are mostly not avoidant by accident because most of them are taken, married, keeping you curious to keep you warm as an option, or they are not really interested in you. So it's better to move on without him because no healthy woman wants to become a sidechick of an "avoidant" man. Be honest here, gentlemen.

[RC-udqo]

He is describing an Avoidant man, which means while they are ignoring you make sure you are dating others because at the end of the day you will to find someone who will be committed to you.

[JBRify]

I haven’t met a single man who is that noble (albeit cowardly either way). When a man ignores you, it entirely means because he’s not into you, he’s doesn’t care about you, he has replaced you with a new woman or women, he does not cherish you anywhere close enough to consider your feelings. When a man ignores you, it’s because you don’t matter to him. Stop spreading lies and nonsense to give hope to heart broken women who were misled and used by men, who are almost entirely cowardly, selfish and cruel.

[jasmineb]

I do agree with Peterson having known a few men who ignored the other intermittently because of low self-esteem, rejection, trust issues, etc. I've also known men who had the ability to make one feel invisible because there were no real feelings or they were anticipating a better model might enter the picture, yet they didn't want to be alone and thought breadcrumbing would keep the devalued party in a holding pattern.

[ofrarose]

This is so accurate. Even happened to my parents before they got married.

[anitakenny]

Actions speak louder than words.

To ignore you means he's not genuinely interested in you, he's a big ego, he's arrogant, he's insecure, he's afraid of rejection for example if he asks you out. Or he plays hard to get, thinking if you are attracted to him that you will approach, or ask him out. In other words treat them mean and keep them keen. No. Be true genuine and authentic.

If a man truly loves you, he will express himself the best he can, or that he knows how to or be honest, wear his heart on his sleeve. We are all flawed as humans. We hall have our faults, everyone.

To ask you out and been declined, politely for whatever reason it's okay. Rejection is never nice but it can be gotten over. Remember always...WHATS FOR YOU WONT PASS YOU. This individual may be more suited as an acquaintence or as friend, not a partner

If he loves you(what are your qualities that he loves?) Communications????

If you were unapproachable that would be an automatic no.

Narcissistic traits. Ignore you, then if you were in a relationship with this pperson, if there was a difference of opinion, a row or struggles then decides to shut down, not communicate or give you the silent treatment RED FLAGS. A purposeful silence can be a form OF PUNISHMENT. TOXICITY MANIPULATION OR CONTROL.


READ THE WARNING SIGNS.
A person's first and usual behaviours always predict their future behaviours.
For me personally. No way. I'd walk away. Something/someone else better and right for you is around the corner. WHATS FOR YOU WONT PASS YOU. TO PUT UP WITH SILENCE TREATMENT can also erode the other person's self esteem, and confidence being on the receiving end. SELF LOVE AND SELF ESTEEM& RESPECT ARE NUMBER ONE are number one for your own happiness.

[michellehanes]

This is what tarnished my relationship with my first love. He was always close until the relationship was going to change, then he got distant for 3 weeks, then he was back to being close. But it pushed so heavily on my childhood neglect that it ruined the whole relationship. But looking back, i see why he pulled back a little.

[melizm]

I think this is more true in a marriage than dating and young relationships stages.

[stefanileila]

Stop giving people false hope. If he ignores you, he doesn't love you!

[PartyRaccoon]

Men are not this deep!
Give me a break! 😂😂😂

[Cleardelune]

Timing is never gonna be perfect therefore step back action per se is unproductive not to mention we are carbonic beings. Love requires communication, openess, a man shouldn't be excused for silence either that can be a padron, a man must learn that ignoring a female is not a solution, love is about connection even when isn't comfortable. Love is sharing not ignoring.

[constancewalsh]

I had not considered why my man was ignoring me in a particular situation.
What Jordan says here makes perfect sense. My guy is feral, so to speak, and I am aware of his tremendous
fears of relaxing into love, despite the duration and wonderfulness of our relationship. We modern women can
forget the tenderness that is inside us, and how vital it is to express it with our man.

[revlonlucas]

True love is patience. God is patience with us we must have patience with others.

[MandeeMoore]

Gonna listen to this again bc it’s answered many questions I’ve personally pondered in my own life. Thank you for putting time into these videos. Quality content on your page. Not only are they aesthetically pleasing but profound. Impressive. More. 🙇🏼‍♀️⛲️📝❤

[rebekahorst]

Beautifully spoken Dr. Peterson! I love love love this!

[emax]

And if it's not the right time then he not the right one....🤷‍♀️just saying, don't settle ladies, it isn't worth it. Speak kindly but boldly about what you are looking for and what you want.

[Lic.en.derecho]

💜💫💜💫 And ...how do we know of this retreat is due to love and no other reason??? Cause there are many other things that may make him distance...💜💫💜💫

[chaneb]

Many women listening to this will certainly get manipulated to chase a man or excuse his lack on interest and effort, NO, men needs be held accomptable for their behavior if a man doesnt show you interest it's not because he love you or his shy, he simply don't like you, stop listening to this nonsense, we need to look at people behavior and stop second guessing who they are instead to look clearly who they show us who they are.