Trauma | LIVE Session

Dr. Taslim Alani-Verjee is a licensed clinical psychologist and an expert in overcoming trauma, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) & more.

Join this live trauma Q&A with psychologist Dr. Taslim - she'll answer your questions on trauma, anxiety, depression, mental health treatment, and more!

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[RobinHerzig]

The MedCircle provider page was super helpful 👏 thanx for providing that

[mphsguy]

Hello. Love your videos. They really helped me out.

[thefc]

After this video I wore a smile on my face while treking through walmart. Some people smile back at a smiling face others cannot look at a smiling face. Do you get that in your every day life when you are smiling?

[thefc]

Beautiful! Every piece resonating out here.
🤔How can I get through a med circle 1000 video marathon?
What I am curious about, is how the Doctors Doctor Taslim, Doctor Ramani, Doctor Sportelli, Doctor Ho, Doctor Major, Doctor Lamb, studied, when they knew they would be studying for several years, any insight into studying? How would a college student who knows they are going to be studying for years, prepare for studying?

[VReyesMusic]

Great content. Both speakers are just lovely and precious. Thanks to you both for this insightful content

[cujothedogofwar]

I guess you can say I've had several issues throughout working the military, injuries, law enforcement and multiple head and brain injuries, one leg with steel rods, a lost testicle, fractured eye sockets, jaw broken, blood brain barrier broken, spinal fluid leaks, phantom pain and CONSTANT migraines-when they first started the elevated bp, from immense pain, of 200/200, had a stroke I had to get through. Finally hit by a drunk and his huge truck. Now the migraines and ''every type of headache known to man'' and now try and make it day by day, disabled and at home with 240mg of morphine that is only just enough to keep me from jumping into traffic! Because of the ''Opiod Epidemic'' I can't get a sufficient level of pain therapy for my immense migraines, nerve damage to have a life! The DEA's aggression had made doctors afraid to give the amount of meds that would have been given a few years ago! If I start to break and go to an emergency room I literally get treated like a drug-shopping junkie! There are days that all my antidepressants aren't enough to keep going since 2009 with this pathetic life! My therapy dog, wife and Mom are the only reason I don't just give in. NONE of the migraine meds have worked, botox failed and I've even had the torture of 6'' needles shoved into my neck, a laser burning nerve endings, the pain from the damaged vertebrae alone is torture with this. I'm tired of trying to get treatment with enough meds-like the dillaudid injectors my pharmacist recommended, but no doctor will dare the chance of the attention of the DEA-so I just live with a ridiculous amount of pain. There isn''t even genuine pain therapy specialists or specialized neurologists who will work for a therapeutic level of pain relief in bloody South Carolina! The VA just ended up tricking me into being a lab rat-without my knowledge! Thanks, Mike

[CatLadyKorea]

I can really see how much Kyle loves dr. Taslim hahahaa. And I agree. She has to have audio books!!!

[itisfinishednowtimetoclean]

This has clarified a question I’ve had for a few years now, the question what is healing after trauma? I went through an ugly divorce after a long term marriage and was threatened and harassed for years on every level. I doubt I will ever believe in someone again. I doubt very seriously that I will ever truly find my feet again, trust again…. Am entering counseling soon and have anxiety about all I need to talk about, afraid of feeling the terror that was introduced into my life. I still Hope that I might feel better again, but doubt that the damage done can be undone. I feel profoundly scarred. I fear my counselor will think me nuts when I talk about all that happened, because it is so unbelievable. But it happened to me, yet even I have difficulty reconciling the reality of it all. Ugh, thank you Med Circle, and I so hope I can find healing.

[lucinda]

Hi there, I was in a mva and it’s very hard for me to ride in a vehicle I get so anxious when I know I have to get into a vehicle to get to my destination for appointments and shopping

[M-nique]

Darn it! I missed your live. Hopefully I'll catch it next time.

[SaarLeestMee]

good evening To the Doctor and thank you for using these channels to get to people global.

[Laccy]

Daughter has spent at least 20 something yrs in stressful situations and experienced trauma. She’s 46 lost daughter 3 yrs ago car accident, then she broke her leg tripping over her dog, then moved to another state, got raped and abused….. I had her Baker acted 2 times. She’s now laying down watching Kelley… so much more!

[vksomji]

Thanks Kyle & Dr Taslim for this Session.

I heard the Response for Brenda Cruz & Heley, I have been or already experienced similar phase in my Life.

Walk Away & Cutting Off is a Good Solution, but the Traumatic Effect remains which I have mentioned in Detailed below.

You are Allowed to LOL if you Feel like but even I am Punished for "Seeking the Logical Reasoning"

I am not an Atheist, I do believe that Prayers are answered, but

1. Quite often if we try to break this Parcel of Traumatic Experiences, our Elders are so Damn Reactive like " How can you Rebel or how can you Break our Age Old Trends". Like for example if a Person behaves like a "Possessed Person".
2. From Generation to Generation if there is a Strong Belief that it's not Pyschological Issue but Some Holy Person Controlling the Person".

My Concerns
A. How do I Break this Strong Wrong Belief that a Person who behaves like "Possessed Person is not GOD".
2. How do I Break the Prediction by an Astrologer which again can be Gullible or Wrong Prediction.

My Belief -
1. It's a Psychological Issue due to Neurological Causes or Tripping of Brain Wires or

2. A person who behaves like a "Possessed Person" has Suppressed Anger, Emotions in the Subconscious Mind which gets Expressed when a Person behaves like a "Possessed Person"

3. The Person who behaves like a Possessed Person or Astrologer is not a God to accept & follow whatever he/she mentions verbally during his Possessed State of Mind or in his Prediction.

4. Like my Father had Tourette Syndrome, (Blend of Palilalia, Coprolalia) due to
1. ACE,
2. Some Childhood Traumatic Experiences
3. Nutritional Deficiencies (ND) caused due to Poverty,
4. Nutritional Deficiencies right from the Inception of my Father in my Grandmother's Womb,
5. Intergenerational Stems (Genetic Mental Problems),

But one of Fraternal Uncle behaves like a "Possessed Person" & everyone have been Carrying a Strong Belief from Generation to Generation that Such a Person is "Possessed by God".

4. Whatever my Fraternal Uncle states during his Possessed State of Mind is the New Rule or Trend to be Followed.. 🙄😕😳... heh hehhhhe 😊

Similarly my Mother believed in whatever the Family Astrologer or some Well Renowned Astrologer Predicted.

5. When I Personally Rebelled stating that "I will not Follow the Predictions by Astrologer or whatever my Uncle mentions verbally during his Possessed State of Mind, because it's a Suppressed Anger expressed in a Possessed State which is a Gulible Statement & not something which is when he is in Senses", I am thrown out of the Family by my Relatives just like a "Use & Throw Material" 🙄😕😳

6. I mean the Entire Family Get-together or Family Function gets Spoiled when such a Family Functions have repeated Episodes of Q & A Sessions with Such a Possessed Person,

if I Rebel with a BIG "Y"

1. Why do I follow these Rules the Entire Family sings in a Chorus "Because it's Trending & we are Amending the Family Rules only for U"

Or like

2. "Oh God God, please tell us who will be our next Family Head" just like a Childhood Play-song for Hide & Seek "Oh God God please Tell us who is going to Seek all of us when we Hide", the answer is "It's Not U & Majority Wins", "Y not Me" Becoz U have been Chucked out of the Family for Cheating in Past or you have an ACE.(wherein "Chucking out" is a Punishment).

How do I Deal with such a Situation or Traumatic Phases, like I am Completely Chucked or Detached out of the Family like a "Use & Throw Material"
a.for Rebelling against the Wrong Family Trends.
b.for being an Arogant Child or Mentally Affected Person who behaves like a Sczhioprehnia
c. In a worst Scenario I am considered as a Threat, Nuisance in the Family who will Cause Harm to the Family Members.
d. And I behave Intentionally to spoil the Name of the Family.

After my Parents Death for having Better Focus on my Life Right now
a. I have Walked Away & Cut Off from my Family & Relatives ( I am aware Cutting Off is not Healthy but required at times for Better Future)

b. I am on my own Sharing same Shelter with my Elder Brother & his Family.

Yet at times I feel like I am a Criminal.

Right now I am Struggling & trying to Cope up, Move on from my Bitter Past History right from Childhood or probably prior to that, Bitter Experience Lying in My Subconscious Mind from Ages with Help of Self Sabotage Therapy.

That's why I started Practicing Self Sabotage or Healing through Self Hypnosis Meditation.

I am thankful to Master Grace Smith too just like you 😊🌝

[Truthseeker]

Can you please talk about trauma from the womb.

[Truthseeker]

So sorry I missed the live recording 😢.

[HdSara]

Just watched some of your old videos about BPD and Narcissism, amazing stuff right there! Wonder if you could do a video analysing the behavior of Amber Heard and Johnny Depp on the stand in their ongoing trial, would love to see your insight!

[terrytrowbridge]

I wonder if people can experience some kind of trama yet not remember or consciously know what it was?

[Truthseeker]

Trauma "wounds" helps explain African Americans mental health issues from slavery.

[yvonneflanagan]

Oh for god sake!!!! She is the Woke dangerous person that could eff you up in therapy cause she hasn’t a clue! Are you seriously putting this person on as an expert! Just cause you graduated as a psychologist doesn’t mean your any good!

[yvonneflanagan]

She’s really not lived! She has her degrees, no experience! I couldn’t connect in the same way as Dr Ramani