5 Subconscious Things You Do That Make Others Ignore You

Do you constantly feel like whatever you say falls on deaf ears? Are you puzzled why people ignore you all the time? But what if it is due to something you may be doing? It’s a truth universally acknowledged that having good and healthy relationships can make you a relatively happier person when compared to others. An environment where you are constantly getting ignored can have a negative impact on how you think of yourself and others. This is especially true if you are not aware of why they do so. Do you think there might be some habits you might have that cause people to ignore what you say?

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[krustycrab]

"You overthink what you're going to say"
It's hard not to overthink when you dont want to accidentally offend other people and makes yourself look like a total clown :(

[dhanvitaippili]

I HATE how the good people always have a hard time with things

[adamcohen]

It's difficult to feel positive and confident when people are ignoring you, intentionally or not.

[Gabriel-socc]

The fact that the viewers feel they're being ignored gives me positivity cause all of them are like me. 😊

[ananduss]

Kind hearted and sincere people are ignored often.
Edit: while running behind people to gain their attention i never realized i had people who actually wanted to be close to me and enjoyed my company. So i stopped and looked back and now i have two most amazing friends in the world and life is way more easy.

[deshagamez]

For those who don’t have time 🙂:

1. You do not listen to others
2. You criticize too much
3. You are full of negativity
4. Your presence doesn’t grab attention
5. You overthink what you’re going to say

Bonus: They might not really be interested in talking with/to you.

Edit: Here’s my advice to all of you, be kind to others but most importantly yourself. Whether you do any of these consciously or subconsciously, just work on becoming the best version of yourself. The people who are meant to be in your life will gravitate to you.

[kopjndb]

I had a friend in high school who was not only ignored but judged because he was awkward, quiet, and was always failing in school work, like people always thinks of him as a failure negative guy, ya know someone you should not be friends with, but he really wasnt a negative guy, he would always help me and he was really friendly, like really friendly, i really like him as a friend because we would always talk about life or even show our true self to each other with no worries.

[shumailashabbir]

Even when u care for everyone you are ignored
When you want to give everyone a chance to speak you are ignored
When you are always positive, smiling and happy no one is interested in what you are trying to say
Your friends are giving everyone else their attention and you are no longer their priority it hurts.
It hurts even more when you are going through all of this and you are part of a trio ( but remember there is a always a duo in the trio )
I try to bring up the good in me but then i shut because I am always the problem .

[Mastervitro]

People don't just ignore me, they outright forget I'm even present.

[lionssinofpride]

"Your presence doesn't grab attention"
Me: Oh that's just sad

[TheOneTrueAJ]

I got off social media and because of that, people who I considered friends don't interact with me outside of the platform. It's like they forgot I exist. Out of sight out of mind. There is the fact that I do miss being seen. But I fight that to not rely on social media validation addiction.

[danny-liio]

6. Most people today are completely and totally selfish and self absorbed and they ignore anyone and everyone who is not giving them something of value.

[ashkirk]

#6 You're too nice. People mistake it as thirst or desperation, when in fact some people are just good hearted without all the extra BS.

[mcrn]

I just really hate being the kind of guy that genuinely likes listening to people and how they feel but no one gives a wet shit about what I have to say. Cranks the loneliness to 11.

[dymoure]

I actually saw a sign today that said: “Beautiful souls recognize beautiful souls. Keep being yourself and your people will find you!"

If you’re an introvert, just try at least a tiny bit more to put yourself in a social situation, maybe one you feel more comfortable with. As someone who used to be 100% an introvert, I became an extrovert for a while in college during my time as an RA, and now I’d say I'm a healthy ambivert. I find farmers markets are great places for introverts to practice because vendors will literally be calling out to you to try something. I’d say MOST of them are super nice too! For all you people-pleasers (like me), it’s also a great way to practice setting boundaries because you learn how to kindly tell them "no" if you don’t want something. I usually just ask a question about the product and follow up by saying, "I might be back!" It works every time! :D

Good luck out there, people! You got dis

[magmakaktus]

I was like this most of my life - being ignored by others and I had a feeling that nobody cares about my opinions, even tho they were my friends. But after I moved to a different group of people, they were listening and cared about everyones opinions on the topic. So for me, it was a bad enviroment.

[nhinja]

The best part of the video: "There is no need to change yourself for people who are not interested in forming a relationship with you. Instead, it's better to redirect that energy into people who are actually interested and care for you."

[justsomepleb]

"Better to walk alone in your own path rather than getting lost in the crowd"

[juliegersey]

Timestamps:
0:00– Introduction
1:12– You Do not Listen to Others
1:57– You Criticize Too Much
2:40– You are Full of Negativity
3:12– Your Presence Does not Grab Attention
3:55– You Overthink What You are Going to Say
4:30– Outro

[JUNPEIZAKIISANSUSSYIMPOSTER]

“Your presence doesn’t attract attention”
Me: “And I took that personally”